Hey I'm wisemen, I'm 15, I'm single, my yahoo i.d. is wiseguy_2011, and I'm always here to help ask anything and I'll try to answer the best i can so that you will be happy. I'm a very peaceful guy so i don't get mad often, any relationship problems ask me, because most likely I've been in the spotlight once. Thanks!
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Today I started talking to my ex, and everything seemed perfect again. He asked me to go out with him and I said yes. Now I'm doubting my decision. He lives out of state, and I don't know if the whole long-distance relationship could work. I don't know if he's whats right for me right now...I'm not sure what I should do. Help! (link)
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well go with him on this date or outing and if things don't work out then just say so and start talking about how it wouldn't work anyways because of the distance. Hope all goes well!
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my bf broke up with me. for nothing pretty much.
and i am sooooo sooo in love with him.
and it seems like he just doesn't even care
and its so easy for him to just let me go.
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i'm hurt real bad.
does anyone know any songs about some break
up like this??? a list would be greatly greatly
appreciated.. thank you =/ (link)
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when I'm gone, by: three doors down
look at what you've done, by: Jet
love isn't always on time, by: Foreigner
through glass, by: stone sour
bother, by: stone sour
perfect, by: simple plan
all those work for me. some guys are just jerks. Hope all goes well!
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Hey, Ik this is long, but please, help...
Ok, I'm a 16-year-old sophmore. I really like this guy that's a freshmen. We'll call him J. I just started liking him not too long ago. Because @ our church group, we sometimes sit by each other and flirt... and at the end we stand up, and hold hands, and pray 2gether. Everytime we hold hands, he holds mine really tight. He squeezes it and pulls me closer to him... That's how I started likign him. Ok, now the real problem...The only 4 people I ended up telling where my bffs. However, someone else found out, and texts his buddies, and now the whole school knows. Everyone basically found out Thursday and Friday night! (including J) Everyone found out while I was cheering Thursday night @ the girl's game and Friday while I was cheering @ the boys game. (for basketball). At halftime of the boys game, I realized that everyone finally new. As, I looked up in the stands looking for 1 of my friends, I found J, and he just smiled and nodded towards me and I couldnt help but smile and say "hi". But, now, I don't know what to do. I dont know if he likes me or what... I don't know what to do... Especially since on Monday everyone will be bothering me about it...all day! Please, some1 help me ASAP!! Before Monday would be great! Thanks so much in advance! (link)
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Well since everyone knows why not ask him out, because its the only way of finding out and since everyone knows that you like him even him then they are going to keep asking you the same question "Are you going out with J" and it gets real annoying so i would ask him out. Hope all goes well!
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My bgf told me he loves me and i think i may love him too. We most likely are going to be starting a serious relationship soon, well as soon as im ready. who knows how long that will be lol! but i know he wants a relationship and really cares about me. like i said he just told me he loves me. anyways i knew moving was a possibility but now its a pretty good chance meaning most likely. if you get what i mean. tho my parents are (of course) all like well you never know we might stay blah, blah. i know that we basically will with a small chance of actually staying. ANYWAYS i really want to tell my bgf esp. if we start a relationship. i just want him to know what could happen. my mom says if i do he will be like good bye! but he wouldnt do that i dont think. he are super close and really understand each other and i just want him to know its a chance. i wouldnt same we most likely are just thats there is a chance. If we start a relationship what would i do if i didnt tell him? it would be this summer and thats not too far away. 6 months. i cant start a relationship then be like oh btw after all we have gone through and us finally dating after liking each other off and on for a couple years im moving halfway across the country! do u guys think i should tell him? or no? thanks so much and i will rate all of your opinions!!! (link)
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well since he is your best guy friend then you should tell him before you date and when he knows he will want to spend every moment he can with you since you're best friends and you're going to move and have some real great last moment memories. Hope all goes well!
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Hey everyone i am a 14 year old girl and i love to be in relationships!! But the problem is i dont have a boyfriend. but guys flirt with me just wont ask me out i think that mabey i might be attractive. Here's what i look like.
I have darkish brown hair.
I have green eye's.
I am 5"6.
I am a prep-ish/ punk girl.
And i feel really alone right now. Any tip's and if any guys read this please comment me.
Thanks a billion!! (link)
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Well sometimes the guy wont always ask you out you have to ask them sometimes, because if you are as attractive as you think you are they might be scared to ask someone like you out. Also, you are never alone you have your family and friends to be there. Hope all goes well!
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what do you think some good love songs are? i just really can't think of any good enough ones. i would reallllly like one in my relationship, and so does my bf. but he can't think of any either, and we don't have any "song we heard on first date" or anything. soo puh-leeze help mee!! (link)
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accidentally in love is a good one.
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what are some great songs to listen to about getting your heart broken and having to let go of someone .. thanks. (link)
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listen to your heart, through glass, time after time, and bother are ones that always seem to be the trick for me. Hope all goes well!
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i want to find a song about friends not being there for you, you know- sort of being let down by them. any genre is cool, just preferably not like HXC metal or rap. (link)
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time after time by Cyndi Lauper is a good one but don't get mad at your friends I'm sure you have let your friends down once or twice. Hope all goes well!
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Alright so im 14/f. anddd like im sort of going out with this guy who is in 8th grade, while i'm a freshman. we're a year and a half apart. I was just wondering if this is weird.. considering i'm a freshman and hes still, you know, in middle school. i mean he acts pretty mature and stuff, and he looks my age, but i was just wondering if it seemed weird or.. like not right to anyone?
thanksss. (link)
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no its not weird because your only one grade apart and think next year if you two are still together you both would be in high school then that wouldn't be weird. He sounds like a pretty cool guy to if he is mature in 8th grade thats cool because usually no one that young is mature. So don't think anything of it all that matters is that you are happy. Hope all goes well!
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i basiclly like a really popular guy. hes friends with everyone all the cliques too. hes amazing. but i'm the type, well, that doesnt get noticed casue i'm not in any clique. i've talk to him online bout music but never in person except for maybe a thing like " can i borrow a pencil." i really want to get to know him but i dont want it to be obvious i like him though. so what should i do? thank you so much! (link)
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instead of asking him about music online start talking to him about like what was his longest relationship is he in one right now or ask him who he likes? You know just get to know him better then if you are ready ask him out or something. Hope all goes well!
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15/f
I really like this guy, now before you think "oh its another guy problem", please hear me out because I have no clue what to do.
So I really like this guy, I've liked him for about a month and i'm a really really shy person. Like i have no guy friends and if i do talk to guys, its like a "hey whats up?" but nothing like best buddies. So he's in a class of mine and I just can't stop thinking about him. Somedays I have dreams about him, or i'll just zone out in class while thinking about him. And sometimes i'll look at him, and when my friends talk about him , I blush. Well today in school I found out that he is going out with this other girl. They both play basketball... and I'm just so mad. I know I can't change their minds about each other, but i have no clue what to do?
help would be much appriciated! (link)
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well just start to become friends with him with a little chatter here and there and then that will lead up to some long conversations and by the time he dumps the girl he is dating he will know who you are and what you are like and he will want to talk to you more often and hopefully date you. Hope all goes well!
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Ok, I need to make a choice between which running backs to go with for tomorrow.
I have Jamal Lewis, LenDale White, and Maurice Jones-Drew.
I can only use two of them. Lewis plays the Steelers, who have a fantastic defense (in fact, I have them as my defense, so it's a win win depending on if he does well or bad). Plus, he's a beast in the red zone, with 4 touchdowns last week. White plays the Jaguars, and Jones-Drew plays the Titans. I don't know much about either of those defenses.
So out of those three RBs, which two do I go with?
Thanks. (link)
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Alright man i am all about this you should go with Len Dale Whit and Maurice Jones Drew, because the steelers haven't allowed a 100 yard rusher in like 15 straight games counting from last season. Hope all goes well!
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Alright soo I have a best friend lets call him Luke..We have been best friends since the 6th grade. We tell eachother how we are going to get married andd yea he's like the best friend anyone could have. He makes me laugh at anything and I just love him to death..
Well now, I have a boyfriend, lets call him Mark. Well Luke and Mark don't get along very well... Luke and I are like always lovey dovey that's just how we are with eachother..We love eachother like a brother and sister..Well Mark doesn't like that very muchh..So Luke and I can't act like that in front of Mark. I am like in love with Mark though..but Luke just thinks he mistreats me and all that and he's not happy with him and me being together. Well last night there was a party and i was with Mark most of the time..Luke got kinda mad but he dealt with it..But then today he sent me an e-mail saying if we can't act like ourselves in front of Mark well then we might as well not talk.. I guess i'll talk to you when you guys are over and done with..sorry.
This split me apart...I don't knowwhat to do..I love Mark but Luke is my other half..Please help me and thank you for readying this and sorry for it being longg. (link)
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well if "mark" cant deal with you and "Luke" being friends and the way you acted before than i don't think its really love, because you and Luke have been friends since 6th grade because of what you do and i dont care what you say a long friendship beats out a love relationship any day. Hope all goes well!
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ok well I really like these 2 guys
the 1st one isz L he's really funny and outspoken and I can tell he likes me too cusz he flirts with me alot and says how cute i am and if i miss school how much he missed me and he is just super sweet. but in front of his friends he's really quite. the thing isz one of hisz close friends dose not think i'm cute enough or good enough for any of his friends. Also thre'sz disz other girl that likes him and she's really cute and he seems kinda interested plus his friend aproves of her.
The second guy Letsz call him "p" is really quite. He barely talks. And when he dose he has disz really cute baby voice. His smile it just makes me melt and isz da nicest guy i have ever met. He goes out of his way to help me but we just never talk for some reason..i get really shy how do i start a conversation???how can i tell if he likes me or is he just being nice? oh and he has da same friend that dose not aprove!!!! I think the friend dat dose not aprove he suspects i like him and keeps getting in the way.
who should i go for?and how do i solve the problems between the guy i should choose and me?
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i would go with p because l seems like he might flirt with other people and since p is such a quiet guy he wont flirt with anyone else and he we only focus on you. Hope all goes well!
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how do you get a guy to feel you up?
Thanks for your advice :) (link)
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You should not really flirt with him but sort of become friends with him let him know who you are and what you are like then if its good there ask him or he just might ask you. Hope all goes well!
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ok so us women fantasize about finding the perfect guy "our prince charming" as we call it and we want them to be incredibly sweet and love us and no one else blah blah blah but what do guys want. when you guys think of having a relationship, a serious relationship, what do you guys want??? please don't say sex, women are not sex slaves, that doesn't make a relationship. please answer this question seriously and only answer if you're a guy because if you're a girl and you think you know what they want, you probably don't. (link)
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I look for a girl that just herself and doesn't want to be anything more than she is, a pretty smile, and a funny girl with a good sense of humor. Those three things would drive me crazy for a girl. Hope all goes well!
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Just recently I told my boyfriend how I truly
felt, that I wasn't as happy with our relationship like before and he said he felt the same way. Then he went on about how it feels like I don't care about him at school. Also he told me how it seems when I show up to his group in the morning he feels he can't act himself or I'll think he's "fudging weird" and just leave. Which is true because his
group of friends do embarrass me. They are loud, obnoxious, and weird. He can be sometimes too and I get really annoyed. We can't find a solution to our problem and I need help fast! Any ideas to what we should do? We've been dating for 2 months.
we're both juniors in high school. (link)
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well if a group of your friends embarrass you all the time then i don't think they are really your friends. To help get your relationship back to the way it was start thinking about all the good things that you did together and maybe make a scrap book out of you and him together or get a promise ring. Hope all goes well!
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Hi im a girl and i was wondering what drives a guy crazy? like something that makes him want you more than anything. your really good at advice and your a guy and i've asked you other question that you were very helpful with so i was wondering what you thought. and we arent tecnically dating so not something involving sexual stuff haha just like major flirting and i can touch him lol were super close friends and we kissed before too and we hug a bunch and occasionally hold hands. thanks soooo much!!! :) (link)
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well it depends on what type of guy it is i guess if it were a quiet guy like me then a real pretty smile would do it for me and a guy thats like real preppy it would probably be like straightening the hair or dying it and just non stop flirting. I'm not quite sure about the preppy guy though since I'm not one of them. Hope all goes well!
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I'm a girl and I'm almost 16 and I have never been in a relationship with a guy. I cant figure it out! I know myself that I'm easy to get along with, im friendly to everybody, and nobody dislikes me. All my friends say I'm so cute, but I know im not gorgeous. But I like my body/who I am... I am not self-concious. I have crushes on guys, and somtimes they find out about it, but they never ask me out! So I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed. Frankly, at my age, it's embarrasing! I've liked this guy for a couple of months now, so I told my friend to slip it to him, but she said that she thinks hes already in one of those "we like eachother, we know it, and were kinda dating" relationships with somone else. and she dosn't want me to get hurt and I dont want him to feel bad or akward. I feel like all the guys and girls in the world are already coupled up and I'm the odd one out!! What can I do? About the boy I like now? What about my situation in general? i welcome any advice, or just comfort. because this is really bringing me down. (link)
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well to make you feel better I'm not in a relationship so not everyone is coupled up. You say you are friends with almost everyone and talk to almost everyone then just talk to this guy and maybe ask him to go somewhere like the movies or something and then ask him there if everything went well. Hope all goes well!
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Well there is this boy that I like but we are bff so I thought we where than one day he said that he did not want be to hang out with me untill I change my attutde. And becase I like him I thought that he liked bad girls so I started acting like one but im not really one and my real Q is do boys like bad girls or nice girls??? (link)
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well I like nice girls personally but I don't speak for everyone. but maybe you could just go up to him and ask him what about my attitude what did i do? Hope all goes well!
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