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I Like This Guy, & Now Everyone Knows...HELP!


Question Posted Sunday December 2 2007, 3:13 am

Hey, Ik this is long, but please, help...
Ok, I'm a 16-year-old sophmore. I really like this guy that's a freshmen. We'll call him J. I just started liking him not too long ago. Because @ our church group, we sometimes sit by each other and flirt... and at the end we stand up, and hold hands, and pray 2gether. Everytime we hold hands, he holds mine really tight. He squeezes it and pulls me closer to him... That's how I started likign him. Ok, now the real problem...The only 4 people I ended up telling where my bffs. However, someone else found out, and texts his buddies, and now the whole school knows. Everyone basically found out Thursday and Friday night! (including J) Everyone found out while I was cheering Thursday night @ the girl's game and Friday while I was cheering @ the boys game. (for basketball). At halftime of the boys game, I realized that everyone finally new. As, I looked up in the stands looking for 1 of my friends, I found J, and he just smiled and nodded towards me and I couldnt help but smile and say "hi". But, now, I don't know what to do. I dont know if he likes me or what... I don't know what to do... Especially since on Monday everyone will be bothering me about it...all day! Please, some1 help me ASAP!! Before Monday would be great! Thanks so much in advance!


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NightLight answered Sunday December 2 2007, 3:07 pm:
If you like him you should have told him yourself. Now that he knows continue life as normal. Ignore all the people. Find out who told because you probably don't want to trust them anymore.

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oceancityx answered Sunday December 2 2007, 2:03 pm:
i think he does like youu. if he was freaked out by you liking him, then he wouldn't have even looked at you at the game. let alone a nod.
if people bother you about liking him, and you aren't ready for people to know, then just say i dont know. hes cute though. or something like that. that usually gets people off your back.

hope i helped!

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wisemen answered Sunday December 2 2007, 1:28 pm:
Well since everyone knows why not ask him out, because its the only way of finding out and since everyone knows that you like him even him then they are going to keep asking you the same question "Are you going out with J" and it gets real annoying so i would ask him out. Hope all goes well!

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