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17/f
i cant orgasm from regular sex, like my boyfriend has to touch my clit. i HATE how i cant orgasm like every other girl in the world. is there a pill or something or somehow something can fix me. (link)
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no pill. you just have to know your body. try using different positions that would stimulate your clitoris.
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I need help finding a job babysitting, I'm 13 years old and I just can't seem to find a job in babysitting. Can somebody maybe help me look. (link)
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ask friends parents to spread the word. maybe look in the newspapers.
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about a week ago, me and my boyfriend went to the lake. we same in it for the two days we were there. when we came back home, a day after, he noticed some scabs on his feet. they were reaaaaallly tiny, barely noticeable. but they stayed, they never went away. i at first thought that he just scraped himself on some branches or something under the water. but after a few days, they were still there. i saw him the day before yesterday, and his foot still looked the same, but yesterday i noticed a big scab on his foot, up towards his pinky toe. he said he didnt remember scratching it or hitting it on anything, and it looked like the scab has been there for a few days. i didnt think much about it, but then that night he seemed to be running a little bit of a fever. he was hot, and sweating. and he said his head hurt. i gave him 3 ibuprofin, to break the fever and help his head. later that night when we were sleeping, i reached over and felt his head. he was still sweating, but his head was cold. i know it sounds stupid, but i'm worried that while we were at the lake, some kid of parasite(sp?) got into his system. maybe he swallowed some water or something, and he's getting sick. i'm really worried. any answers will be very helpful. (link)
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yes it could be an insect, or a parasite. if it was the water he would have tummy issues and would have to go to the bath room.
the scabs could be a infection... which would give him a fever.. he should get some antibotics.
and see ur doctor
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Hello 14 f xD
I cut my hair myself you see..and than I want to a professional beautician and she fixed it and made it look a litte better. Now I miss my old hair haha Is there any way to get your hair to grow longer? My friend Ashley, she has very long hair she tells me if you brush it out a lot, very well it will grow longer? I really don't know >.< Any ideas? Tips? Sites? Also a tip I learned for nice hair is by washing your hair with warm water than running cold water on it, it really works! Any other tips? Thanks! (link)
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take vitamen E and fish oil
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19/f. I live with my mom and my grandparents. I attend university here where I live. I didn't think I was going to like staying here at home for college but I ended up loving my school. I went to an all girls private high school and it was really a refreshing change to be around guys I guess and also to be around people who r not snobby. Basically, I really liked my school and I'm doing really, really well in school. Living at home is a nightmare. I stayed because my family BEGGED me 2 stay. They said they would give me my space and all of that. They most certainly ARE NOT. EVERYTHING is an argument with them. Let's start by saying that my mom doesn't even let me style my own hair. She doesn't even let me wash it myself. She will cry, scream, and throw a tantrum if I don't let her wash my hair. Whenever I have a date, they don't let me drive myself. They drop me off and pick me up. Talk about awkward. They stay at the mall where I go sometimes if its more than 5 miles away from the house. My mom drives me to and back from school. I understand that were sharing the car but I don't think its necessary to make my life nearly impossible. I'm 19. I am a women and a college student. I've been making my own money since I was 16 and I've been like the perfect daughter. I've never done anything wrong or gotten in trouble. They are treating me like this because they don't know how to let go. I am transferring to another school upstate in a year because I feel like its the only way to gain my independence. In the meantime, how can I approach this??
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have a serious sit down and let them know how this is affecting you. telling them the truth. tell them they are screwing you up mentally and this is not normal. tell them that you need to know how to be on your own because they are not going to be around forever. just make sure they know you love them. and then do what you have to do.
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Im gonna try to keep this as shortt as possible. Basically, recently when i smoke weed, i experience some crazy stuff. Its just the weirdest scariest feeling to me and its the same feeling everytime and i hate it. It doesnt happen to anyone else im ever with when i smoke, and i know its not hat the weed is laced or anything because its the same exact feeling no matter what weed i smoke. Everytime i have a n opportunity to smoke, i convince myself that it wont happen this time, that its just all in my head and i cant think about it. But no, it happens everytime. I thijk tonight might be my last night getting high if i cant figure out the reasoning for this. I wanna be able to feel good when i smoke, not like a strobe light, paranoid, tingly, and like im dying..
The best way i can describe the feeling is that i get very confused and woozy suddenly and everything starts spinnibg. Then it kind of feels like im trapped in my body and half of me has no clue where i am or what im doing but then at the same time i know exactly whats going on. My whole entire body tingles and sometimes i cant feel myself and it feels like my fingers kind of go through everything i touch. Everymove i make feels delayed or like chopped, i cant really explain it but im praying someone knows what im talking about or someone has gone through this because i need to know that the same exact feeling happened or happens to someone else
could this be what they call "the strobe light effect?"
if so, how can i stop it from happening when i smoke?
Im not on any medications and i dont have any wierd health problems.
If its not the strobe light effect then what could it be? I want to know whats causing my body to react that way tk weed and it cant be that im alergic to thc because ive smoked for a year with no problems before it started happening
Thank you very much:) (link)
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it might have been laced with something else.
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16/f
Me and my bf have been together for a while and we would like to have sex soon...and that's where the story starts...
A year ago,we were in a relationship for 8 months...but then he let me down and I was really dying inside but I didn't let it show.it's a long story really.Now,a year has passed and the old flame has started burning,for both him and me...he really changed and is treating me right...but because I was hurting the way I did,I always think he doesn't love me and wants to use me...even though he never tried anything without my permission...I love him a lot and I wanna give in to my desire but I'm so afraid of him leaving me when he gets what he wants.We have talked about this a lot and he told me a million times he's not like that (which I believe because he had a lot of chances which he didn't take because he knew I'd be hurt by his actions)but still I can't get myself to trust him,but I know I love him.I'm scared of being hurt.Why am I feeling like this? (link)
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then make it about YOU! not him. if you do it just make sure it is because you wanted to. dont do it if he keeps asking. if your in the heat of the moment sure... but you said "we" i would hold off maybe tell him your not ready and if he still wants to be with you then wait untill you have the right time
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my ex boyfriend only wants what he doesnt have (me) we have been off and on again and now are just mates. he admitted to likeing me yesterday but i think were better off as mates. does this work out sometimes? (link)
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sounds like you need time apart. maybe your too close to really see what your relationship is. get some distance. find out if you just want to be friends. It will only work out if you both feel the same.
sound like you guys are very dependant on each other.
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Sooo for a while me and my bf have smoked together but it's like my whole paycheck just goes to weed, it's bad I know :( I don't even like to smoke just ocassionally and it's like evvverydayyy idk what to tell him about this like there's much better stuff I rather spend my money on but I know he's Always gonna want to smoke and it bothers me soooo much but I don't say anything cause he just expects it from me... I just don't know, any advice ? (link)
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you need to stand up for your self. tell him you are trying to save for a new car and your serious about it. set a goal for your self and be honest. if he gets mad.. then maybe... he is using you? tell him to get a job and buy it
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How old do you have to be to buy tampons? (link)
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no age!!! just dont hurt your self!
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My school has a dress code and i hate it! We have to wear collar shirts and they have to be a sertan color. Where can i get solid collar shirts? (link)
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ew. i hope you can wear black. try kohls?
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Im 13 and a girl
I like am always having discharges even when im not close to my period and there always really heavy and my period has never been light never, its always been heavy is this normal or do I have a problem? (link)
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look at your diet. what you eat effects your body. but also because your so young it is normal. some people will suggest to get you "normal" that you take birth control. but dont. the chemicals that are going into your body mess with your hormones.---> who knows what they do to women!
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My friend told me that her dad keep trying to feel on her....and she hasn't told her mother...she says he has even tried to finger her....she says she doesn't want to tell her mom until its the right time....what should she really do? Should I tell someone even though she asked me not to? I'm really scared for her! (link)
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the thing is if she does tell her mom as horrible as it is her mom might not do anything. if she doesnt do something it is going to get worse. the worse it gets the more she is going to be messed up later.
you need to convince her to call a hot line. even YOU can do it. if your concerned enough and you think she is telling the truth call the police tell your parents. maybe your parents will call hers and give her mom a heads up. either way she will be going into foster care if her mom doesnt act.
and just think about how scared she must be, it is hard to talk about that. sometimes it take YEARS for people to talk about that kinda stuff.
her talking to you was her crying out for help.
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Hello 14 f
I was wondering if it was possible for me to learn piano on my own? I have one of those piano sets that the keys light up..well I really want to learn, I don't want to have to pay for lessons... would like to write a song for my bf and play it for him..Really I would like to know? is it really that hard? (link)
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some people can pick up any instrument. but in reality most people need lessons. i would reccomend for writing music take a music theory class. taking a piano class is great but you wont learn what you need to in order to write something.
but always mess around. humm a tune and try to match it with the keys.
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Me and my ex boyfriend broke up. I still loved him but i couldn't be with him because of my parents. I was going to wait until I moved out to be with him again. He moved on before I could tell him. Now, I cant move on and he insults me to try to get me to go away. He doesnt want me in his life anymore and I cant seem to accept that. How can I move on and stop loving him? (link)
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stop talking to him. it hurts but do it.
it will take time. and you will have to just bare it. dont watch anything depressing!! find friends that make you happy and go with it
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All through middle school I was made fun of for my nose being big. I was in the "puberty process" & all that. But through out the years, I guess you could say I've grown into my nose? It's not as disproportionate to my face anymore. My main problem is the bump on my nose ... I'm not an ugly girl, but I have a bump on the bridge of my nose. It's not HUGE, & no one ever says anything to me about it. But I notice it & I hate it!
Does it make me ugly? (link)
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no. wait.. your not done growing anyway. love your nose! it makes you YOU. middle school is like that for every one. people pick on people because they r cahnging and need to feel better.
wait untill your at least 20-24
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People say it is bad, why is that? (link)
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depends. i would say if your guy hanging out with your friend who is a girl and you have a gf then thats BAD.
sometimes its bad if the influence you too much and you cant be your self
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I'm a 14 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 weeks. We were making out and he started taking off my shirt and bra i didn't mind that much so i let him continue and we made out for like 2-3 minutes with my clothes off. I feel like I'm a slut for going that far. He says I'm not but I know he would say that because he wants it to happen again. Am i a slut? (link)
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no.. its normal.. just dont have sex yet
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I am a 23 year old female and I was raised Christian in a very religious family. As I grew up and started to form my own opinion I decided to not refer to myself as a Christian. I have not been to church since I turned 18 and moved out. I believe in God 100% but I do not believe in Christianity. I feel as if apart of me doesn't believe in religion. I'm trying to decide if maybe I just haven't been exposed to the right religion. Or maybe I shouldn't classify myself as one religion. Maybe I should just love God, live right, and treat people good and not study one religion. What should I do? (link)
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say your agnostic and go with it. that what i did. study all relgions and find the similarities. dont force anything. just live by your own morals.
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i think i'm anemic, ("think" meaning i have all the symptoms, just haven't been properly diagnosed) so i'm tired all the time. seriously, the only time i'm NOT complaining about being tired is when i'm asleep. then no matter how much sleep i get, still tired. but thats not what my question is about.
my question is about the fact that i'm tired all the time, but i'm very jumpy and twitchy. like i'll be sitting on the ground and my legs will be bouncing, or when i'm sitting anywhere, any way, my leg will be bouncing. i try to stop but it feels like i need to. and then if they're not moving, my hands are playing with something; my hair, my fingers, my clothes, a pencil, paper, etc. or i'll be moving around in my chair. anyone know why this is? anyone who sees this might think i have infinite energy, but its the exact opposite. (link)
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could be a bunch of things but it sounds more like you mighthave hypoglycemia or diabetes. that or a sleeping disorder. try changing your diet first then def see a doctor
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