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So I have been dating this girl for six months now, and she is really nice. She is the first girl i kissed and I'm the first guy she kissed. We kissed three months ago. I want to get second base now so my question is how to get there? (link)
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You have to makes sure BOTH of ya'll are ready. Not just you but her too. Just casually bring it up and saying what if this happend , or this. Because you dont want to just risk it and her not be ready or comfortable enough with you yet and it could scare her and push her away from you. Try giving her signals that you are wanting to go to the next level and hopfully she will flow , but dont push her to do anything she doesnt want :)
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ok so me and one of my oguy friends arent talking anymore. he said he wants space from me and i cant stand not talking to him.
are there any ways to know that he is thinking about me too?
he texts back when i text him, but its not the same like it used to be. im going crazy here (link)
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Are you sure YOU are just wanting to be " friends " with him ? But maybe there is somthing on his mind that he might really need space from at this time , i say just give it a little time i know its hard because you seem really close to him . But let him cool down or let whatever is going on pass . When he talks to you just reasure him that [ IF ] there is something bothering him tell him your there for him . & just ask him why he needs space ffrom you .
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i was just in the washroom and found some sticky white discharge in my underwear.. i'm worried cuz i've never had them likethat before. its like a really sticky clump that feels funny on your fingers and is almost completely clear. it reminds me of like.. flubber.. what is it?? i just got my period. (link)
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I had the same thing before , and i had never seen it . It's perfectly normal . It means its cleaning your inside and outside . Its kind of like a protector [ if that makes sence ] . Nothing to worry about =)
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omg. i feeel like im ugly.... i like the guy named keith... but he doesnt like me.....i dont knw what to do. he likes this girl named mindie.... but this girls sister had a baby and gettinf married to keiths brother..... i feel like im not good enough.... what do i do0o0o0o....
i feel like im ugly........ (link)
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First thing , is to get rid of that negative attitude . You dont ever have to feel like your not enough for anyone. If he doesnt like you for what he see's and for who you really are then why worry about it. You need to move on from him , because you are just as good enough as he is for you. Besides what makes you think he isnt the One thats not good enough for you . =)
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is it possible for me to increase my jumps and learn how to do my splits in 2 weeks???? (link)
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You might want an answer from a REAL cheerleader . Im 15 & been cheering sence i was 4 honey =) What you can do is stay in the " stradle " position for as long as you can hold it ( which is sittin on the floor and spreading your legs as far apart as you can ) Each time you will find it easier to go farther . Dont stretch tooo much because youu can pull somthing, & when you bring your legs in dont just PULL them in like shake them in. When you do your toe touches , dont bend your back no matter how horrible it looks . Keep your Back straight and keep your arms at a " T " position . It will get high over time .
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Ive been going out with this boy named Eric for about 4-5 months now, and were always going on dates and everything and just this weekend [Saturday] I went over his house alone... well we've been kissing for a while but thats it I mean IM ONLY FOURTEEN and Eric put his hand up my shirt, and I donno if it's normal or not but I sorta freaked cuz its the first time anything besides kissing has happened to me.. and I was like Woah and he like continued so i was like oh umm im sorry but can you stop. So kinda mad I think he did, I let him"feel me up" on the outside of my shirt so he wouldn't get to mad, but then he tried un-buttoning my jeans and thats when I was like WOAH! What are you doing?? and he was like weve been going out for so long now why can't you go further then kissing me it's not like we'll have sex or anything.. and i donno I just didnt feel comfortable but I do like him. And I was like Im sorry.. and hes like You do like me dont you so I said yes! and he was like okay then. and Tried putting his hand up my shirt again then it was like No.. i dont feel comfortable ill just walk home and he got really mad at me. I tried telling him Crawling leads to walking, and Walking turns to running and I dont like running not yet atleast IM ONLY FOURTEEN!!! Well I feel violated right now, but then it's like would I have gone all the way if I let him? Would he have?? and I needed to talk to someone and my best friend Adam--yes it a boy was like WHAT and wanted to kill him but I made him promise not to. And this weekend oim going back over... and I dont want to go any farther then we did this weekend but I donno if Eric will accept that and I know if he doesnt break up with him but shouldnt I atleast do something? Like handjob? like satisfy him?? I dont want to.. but to make him happy I will... I donno what to do i really like him, and I dont know why I cant just let him do what he wants with me, but I cant... I know I cant.
and Im not a slut.. im only 14, I know ive dated him a long time but I thought he was happy with just kissing... now its like how long has he wanted this? Why didnt he tell me before? and Im just scared you know? Maybe I shouldnt go back to his house without a parnet and my and his parents are being super cool with letting me over because they do know! and I promissed my mom Id keep it PG-13...
Anything would be helpfull really. (link)
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You really should talk to him , with out kissing first so he will know your serious. Boys can sometimes get confused and take your signals and somthing totally differnt than what you actually mean . Tell him you dont want to move to the next level untill you feel comfortable and you feel like your ready to do WHATEVER. You dont have to satisfy him in anyway you dont want to. If all you feel comfortable with and want to do is kiss then , that is your right . And its your body ! Dont ever like a boy take advantage over you. If he keeps doing it and not respecting your feeling about it , you need to break it off.
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OK! I'm going to rewrite this for any of you people assuming I only like her for sex -.-
No I do not but heres the qwestion..
I really really really like my girl friend and I know she really likes me.. Small problem -.- When ever we are making out I tend to well.. you know get a Cof Cof* boner Cof Cof* but Annnnyway the point is I know I love it when we make out and I know she likes making out but how do I know if she is well... (horney) Once again! I'm stating that im 14 -.- I dont want to have sex yet -.- So for any girls out the that feel like helping =] HAVE AT IT! :o (link)
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When girls get " horney " they tend to kind of , lets say " Go with the flow , but M0RE in to it ". You can feel the connection with yall get more heated or " intense ". Try Whispering in her ear , or nibbling on the ear to =) Some girls take over when they are horney , depends .
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can someone please tell me what pre cum is? i know guys pre cum before reaching orgasm or w/e but how soon before and does it usually follow an erection or is it just for when things get intense. please tell me what it is and when it happens and all that! thanks!! :] (link)
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Its exactly what it says " PRE " cum . Its clear , but it still can hold actuall ( sperm ). It can come anytime from a guy , it just depends on how it feels to the guy .
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what happens when you need an abortion and go to planned parenthood? do you have to pay? thanks (link)
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Dont get an abortion , thats killing a human being .
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Me and my boyfriend been kicking it for a hott minute. Im 16, he 17. But he dont trust me worth nothing. It just recentley came up though, It never used to be like this. Im thinking its because we are alot more serious than what we were, and his intentions are good, but its annoying when your boyfriend dont trust you. He doesnt like me talking to no boys. And i grew up with a whole bunch of guys. They been my best friends since day one, and he claims we doing stuff behind his back. Im tired of him trying to run my life. Should i cut him loose? (link)
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I would say give it time , Me and myboyfriend have been going out for a year now and it wasnt untill a couple of months ago untill we trusted each other. We started out just as yall did , not to worried untill we started getting serious. Then thats when the jelously started kicking it , he didnnt want me talking to boys , i didnt want him talking to girls. The key is " communication ". Let him know that he is the only one for you and you dont want anyone but him . Reasuring him can help ease the jelously off . Talk to him about it and tell him it cant work with him riding your butt about everything .
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ok so im 16 and i kinda like this guy that likes me back and he's been asking me to hang out and stuff but i have just been really busy lately but im not like blowing him off i think he knows that i am interested. but should i ask him to hang out this weekend or just wait and see if he asks me again? (link)
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You could ask him , there isint anything wrong with asking a guy to hang out. You can make it a calm and cool conversation. Just be like " im sorry iv been so busy but i think im ready to take up that offer about hanging out =]
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basically, four months ago my best friend kissed my boyfriend. all i know is i have been with him for a year and a half.
i've been with my boyfriend longer the i known my bestfriend. (now ex friend)
its hard after these 4 months because shes friends with all of my friends, you know? we were close.. so i thought. basically when i go to sit in class shes always near me because we have the same friends.
how do i deal with her?, i refuse to talk to her.(already did and no that didnt work well)
what should i do? =/
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I see your in a horrible and hard situation. Im sorry you had to go through that " happens to the best of us ". Remember it takes ( two ) to kiss. I know you and your boyfriend might have gotten through it but as far as your friend , ofcourse its going to take time to even WANT to talk to her and im pretty sure you wont want to for a while . You just cant let it get to you , just think of it as a lesson learned , you cant trust EVERY0NE you think you can. It will just make you more protective next time you get so close to someone. And i understand yall have the same friends but she shouldnt have an effect on you and your [ other ] friend's relationship. Continue your daily rutiens with your friends and eventually you will find it easier to face her , good luck.
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A little bit about me, I am in my 3rd quarter of 8th grade. There is a named Erica that sits at my lunch table. She is really mean to me. Not to be rude or anything but she is that type of girl that thinks that she is so popular when she really isn't (snobby). She calls me bad names all the time. Lets just say stuff like BIT**, all the time. Her father used to be an important member of the school district so she is a teachers pet. So she goes to the guidance counselor and says that I tried to kick her out of the tableand make fun of her all the time. I did ask her to move out of the table but i do not make fun of her. And the guidance counselor wont believe me.
if you want to know why she doesn't like me its because her ex boyfriend loves me. but i didn't go out with him. (link)
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Honey , We have alll been in your situation. People are not going to like you for the littlest things , sometimes no reason's at all. We have to be the more " mature " person and believe me , its hard to think like that at times but when you get older your going to look back and say " Why was she even worth my time worrying about" , shes not at all. You just have to laugh it off , why cant ya ? if you know your not a bitch or as stuck up as she is then why stoop to her leveL ya know ? When she treats you like crap just ignore it and say thanks , it gets them everytime and if you KEEP saying thank you , they'll eventually get the point like " wow , why isint she getting upset and fighting back " Just shake it off =) Trust me .
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14/f ok so, i seem to have a thing for my ex boyfriends. well, i broke up with one of them because it didn't feel right, but i still feel attracted to him. He has a gf right now, but I think we both still like eachother. My other ex, i'd rather not sit here and bore you with what happened. Anyways, I still feel like I like him too. What's wrong with me? If I still liked them, then wouldn't I have been with one of them?
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I use to do the same thing, It just didnt work when we were together but when we broke up it was like " im not totally over him " . Its normal for you to feel this way , you just miss [ parts ] of the relationship . you will eventually get over this feeling
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I'm in love with my 30 yr old cousin and he's in love with me 2. Neither of us knows what to do. I'm 16 and he's my 2nd cousin. My family disowning me if we ever got involved isn't an issue 4 either of us as they have anyway. So, what do I do about this? I've felt this way 4 over a year now. (link)
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If you really love this person , then honestly ... you cant help who you fall for . You have to make a choice to weather your willing to go for your cousin or dealing with your family not claming you . You can eventually get over your cousin , but can never make your family not love you
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How do you know if you are ready for sex? (link)
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It just feels right , you have to be totally comforable with no douts or worries. It should be with someone you truley care about it. And you know for a fact you will not regret it .
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Okay, so I started my diet on around Tuesday, and what I'm doing is cutting out unhealthy snacks and substituting them with like healthier ones and sometimes Ill cut out snacks all together but if I am craving something its healthy. and now I'm also starting to run with my brother. I have a habit of going on diets and then stopping them as soon as I lose a few pounds but I want to do something that will keep me on track and ENJOYING the diet, not doing it because I need to and want to and because it seems like one extra chore.
My boyfriends prom is in june or july and my sweet 16 is in september i want to lose 15 or 20 pounds before this.
what are some more good ways to lose weight healthy and affectively?
by the way I'm 15, 5'2 or 5'3 and around 180 pounds (overweight for my height) so this diet needs to work.
thanks in advance!
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Its really not about a diet . Its proven that sometimes a diet is not healthy. Your on the right track by cutting the unhealthy snacks and going for the better ones , good job . Just keep up what your doing like eating right and exercising daily . Each day go up a couple more minutes than you did the day before . To make it seem that its not a chore do somthing that is fun to you but also getting the good exercise your want and need . Play soccer , basicly anything with jogging or constant moving. Its really good to listen to music because it gets you pumped and always " up " to do whatever . Just keep it up , also try about 50 sit ups every other night , Should get results in about 4-5 weeks .
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Hi,
So I am 15 and I am in high school and I get made fun of non stop now I know its not because Im fat because a girl that makes fun of me is fat also and I know its not because I have glasses because I just got contacts, I try to be nice to people and if they are nice to me Im nice to them, I would really like some advice on how to make people like me more thanks!! (link)
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Honestly , you cant make people like you. You just have to shake it off as if its nothing. I'll tell you the best thing to do , kid you not. When ever they make fun of you but smile and say thank you. It gets the best of girls when you just show you dont care , try it and tell me how it goes .
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okay so theres this boy of course haha and we were together in the summer and on the third day of school he broke up with me i thought it was becuase of me and crap and other stuff and i was really taking it hard when we broke up and i was just all over him still and always talking about him but theres his ex friend eric that i recently talked to and he told me that he broke up with me for this other girl and i knew he did all along i just never wanted to belive it but now that girl broke up with the guy i like and hes all alone but he sitll talk to her nd they still like each other...... so what i want to know is why am i sooo angry??? man things like this never bother me!!!! and how can i get him back or at least something to bring him down..... (link)
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The best thing to do , is just leave him alone. I know there is unsovled questions and we never get the answers were looking for. Getting someone back just shows that your worried about him. Trust me , iv had my heart broken before. Just let him be with who ever he would like to be with , you will get over it. Sometimes its hard but we all go through it sometime. So just relax and shake it off.
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ok so i have a boyfriend and my brother has this friend. and even tho we are like always fighting and stuff(me and his friend) i sometimes catch him looking at me. Well im starting to think that he may like me and i think i may like him. and hes 1 year older than me. so what do i do? (link)
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Well , you shouldnt be thinking about anything with your brother's friend unless you and your boyfriend break up. Sometimes boys give mixed signals and you think something totaly differnt than what is really going on in his head. You should decide who you like the most , but never leave the one your love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love
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