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8th grade problems
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female
A little bit about me, I am in my 3rd quarter of 8th grade. There is a named Erica that sits at my lunch table. She is really mean to me. Not to be rude or anything but she is that type of girl that thinks that she is so popular when she really isn't (snobby). She calls me bad names all the time. Lets just say stuff like BIT**, all the time. Her father used to be an important member of the school district so she is a teachers pet. So she goes to the guidance counselor and says that I tried to kick her out of the tableand make fun of her all the time. I did ask her to move out of the table but i do not make fun of her. And the guidance counselor wont believe me.
if you want to know why she doesn't like me its because her ex boyfriend loves me. but i didn't go out with him.
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i been in that situation to but i ignored them eventually she got the point just be nice to her and then she won't know what to do then because your being the nice girl and she's being the bad person you win she loses
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Honey , We have alll been in your situation. People are not going to like you for the littlest things , sometimes no reason's at all. We have to be the more " mature " person and believe me , its hard to think like that at times but when you get older your going to look back and say " Why was she even worth my time worrying about" , shes not at all. You just have to laugh it off , why cant ya ? if you know your not a bitch or as stuck up as she is then why stoop to her leveL ya know ? When she treats you like crap just ignore it and say thanks , it gets them everytime and if you KEEP saying thank you , they'll eventually get the point like " wow , why isint she getting upset and fighting back " Just shake it off =) Trust me .
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immature middle school drama is all she is about. that girl is just looking for attention.
just ignore her as much as possible, and brush off whatever she says about you. you and your friends know nothing she says is true.
in cases like this, its just better to be the bigger person.
good luck!
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