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Mistrust....
Me and my boyfriend been kicking it for a hott minute. Im 16, he 17. But he dont trust me worth nothing. It just recentley came up though, It never used to be like this. Im thinking its because we are alot more serious than what we were, and his intentions are good, but its annoying when your boyfriend dont trust you. He doesnt like me talking to no boys. And i grew up with a whole bunch of guys. They been my best friends since day one, and he claims we doing stuff behind his back. Im tired of him trying to run my life. Should i cut him loose?
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If a guy is telling you who you can and cannot hang out with, it shows that there is a side of him that is controlling - really not a good thing.
If he never used to be like this, you should probably figure out what is causing it, then decide whether or not to cut him loose. Have a talk with him where you figure out exactly why he feels the way he does and try to soothe his fears. Make it clear that you are not interested in your friends, but that you are still going to be friends with these boys.
If he does not change after this conversation and keeps acting jealous, you need to cut him loose. Being controlling in who you can and cannot see is annoying, and it is also a sign that he could become more controlling than he is already in the future.
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I would say give it time , Me and myboyfriend have been going out for a year now and it wasnt untill a couple of months ago untill we trusted each other. We started out just as yall did , not to worried untill we started getting serious. Then thats when the jelously started kicking it , he didnnt want me talking to boys , i didnt want him talking to girls. The key is " communication ". Let him know that he is the only one for you and you dont want anyone but him . Reasuring him can help ease the jelously off . Talk to him about it and tell him it cant work with him riding your butt about everything .
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