stella07 answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 10:43 pm: when your with someone you really care about and are comfortable around, then you just kind of know when your ready. it will come to you.
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skywood4lyfe answered Monday March 10 2008, 11:09 am: well if you are questioning your-self if you are ready then you not..trust me you will no when your ready.. its not because your already on the bed and your boyfriends in the bathroom putting on the condom[i hope]its because hopefuly your in the 12th grade or way higher and you been with this person for over a year and they would never do anything to hurt you[hit you,leave you and..]if you trust them and your ready to take it to the next level then thats when but this feeling has not ran across you then WAIT!! [ skywood4lyfe's advice column | Ask skywood4lyfe A Question ]
gossipbabe answered Sunday March 9 2008, 11:49 am: well you know when your ready when you can really say your inlove with this person do you know the responsibility of sex as far as condoms babies diseases you have to be careful AND YOU'LL REALLY KNOW IF YOU CAN TRUST GIVING YOURSELF AWAY [ gossipbabe's advice column | Ask gossipbabe A Question ]
MAK answered Saturday March 8 2008, 9:54 pm: When you can answer "yes" to all of the following:
- You are at the age of consent in your state or country
- You are financially, mentally, and educationally ready to support a child
- You will have protected sex (condoms AND the pill... if you're too embarrassed or unable to buy birth control than you are no way ready to have sex, because the reason for sex is to reproduce, and how can you care for a child if you can't even get birth control)
- You are with a person whom you love
- The person whom you're with loves you
- The person whom you're with can answer yes to all of the questions listed above (sex involves two people and I don't see why one person can get away with not being financially ready for a child, for example).
k_wade13 answered Saturday March 8 2008, 8:42 pm: I'm a christian, I live for God, & everyone knows that about me. You shouldn't have sex before marriage. Call me crazy or whatever, but I'm serious. God made sex to be a good thing, & bring more people into the world he made-but, he made it for MARRIED PEOPLE. Even though you might not feel bad about it, this is going to be something that's gonna be on your heart for the rest of your life. We all get tempted to sin against God, even I do. And even though I'm only still a teen, I know that it's wrong to have pre-maritial sex. If you're not a christian, then you need to go to a local church for a while, & get saved, because nothing is more important than accepting Christ into your heart. So please, don't ruin your life & relationship with God, because he created you. The least you can do is follow him. [ k_wade13's advice column | Ask k_wade13 A Question ]
varistygirl12 answered Saturday March 8 2008, 8:24 pm: It just feels right , you have to be totally comforable with no douts or worries. It should be with someone you truley care about it. And you know for a fact you will not regret it . [ varistygirl12's advice column | Ask varistygirl12 A Question ]
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