alright..there is this guy at my work that i used to like..but now i dont like him anymore and he still likes me and he stalks me everywhere..like at work, online, and we had this fun fest and he even stalked me there..and he freaks out at me when i say i have to go..he makes me real uncomfortable and he always stares at me..and everyone knos it.and im scard cause hes a weirdo..and me doesnt leave me alone! what should i do!? xo and im 14
say DUDE I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE STOP STALKING ME nd if that doesnt work tell an adult. stakers a scary people and can make you feel very uncomfertable.
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wow ok I just got side sweep bangs and they are aweful... the lady that cut them must have been drunk or something!! Does anyone know how I could fix them?... I don't really want to wait until they grow out
haha the same thing happened to me last time i got my hair cut. try to cut them straight acrooss unless that would look bad. on mi8ne it doesnt look to bad. if not, i can't really think of any other way besides going get another hair cut or waiting until the grow out. oh and P.S. get someone who knows how to cut to do your bangs if you decide to cut the straight acros..id advise you not to do it yourself.
x0x0..vanna =)
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My birthday was about a week ago, and my mom gave me a Tiffany braclet (if you dont know what that is its like a 400 dollar braclet). A few days after I went to the beach with my cousins and I was wearing the braclet. We were boogyboarding in the waves and the braclet slipped off my wrist. It went with the waves. Now I lost it and I havent told my mom yet. Im not sure how she would react but im scared to tell her. How should I say it? Please help
just tell her. if you stall or lie it'll make things worse. trust me i'm telling you from experience. just say, mom i went to the beach and i was in the water boogyboarding nad i lost that really pretty tiffany braclet you gave me and im extrememly sorry. it's better then lying and her findind out from someone else you lost it.
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Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\
awh thats really sweet. it sounds like love to me. or maybe bad case of pupppy love?. either way you guys sound great together.
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On Xxrocker's column page, I posted a huge question about this girl who I was friends with, but had a crush on. I asked how to tell her that I like her. Well, now, I've told her, and she sent me a huge long email, where every other word was "sorry", and that she liked me as a friend, didn't want to break the friendship, I'm the coolest guy she's ever met, etc. etc. etc.
I tried to shrug it off, I e-mailed her saying that I really didn't care, I was just wondering, all that jazz. Only problem is, ever since I got one girlfriend, I've developed a need for them in my life. I'm really scrrewed up now, I keep thinking about her... I need her... or someone... only problem is, there's no one else! My only other girlfriend ever was online, and she's never on anymore! I'm kinda messed up now, even more than I had been when I thought she liked me.... Everyone was sure that she liked me and had been flirting with me all year, I shoulda accepted their bets.
Fellow advicenators, what should I do?
look. you're either going to have to show that girl how much yoyu care and NOT SOUND DESPERATE. cause thats a turn-off for girls ORR. your gonna have to move on with your life, if she REALLY doesnt like you as more then a friend then its not something that she can learn. liking sokmebody is a feeling not something taught. my advice:: try to show her how much you really care and remember not to sound desperate.
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high.
awh. thats so sweet. tell her how you feel. look her dead in the eyes and say that you'd never hurt her. do something special for her, find out what she likes, and show her that you care.
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Ummmmmm ok this is really weird. I have had these strange dreams for about a week about my friend Nick. The only problem is its like in my dream we are going out. I used to only see him as a friend but now I think I am starting to like him because of all these dreams. What should I do? What do these dreams mean?
dreams can mean anything. it might mean that you like him or it may just mean you care about him as a good friend. you're gonna have to find that answer out while your awake.
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alright hey my brother is getting married and he did not want a big big wedding i don't know why but he did not...so after the wedding like the next weekend they are have a cookout with like EVERYONE they know!! adn everyone says their going to wear like a skirt or a dress or something fancy or something and there is going to be an inground swimming pool to. and i was woundering dose anyone know what i should wear??
wear something nice over a bathing suit?. maybe a nice skirt and like a hollister or aeropostile collard shirt. but if you plan on swimming just wear or bring a bathing suit with you. not sure if i helped or not.
x0x0 vanna =)
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okay i always seem to be the friend never THE girl. i mean its always this way. i'm really funny and i make jokes alot, but i cant seem to stop. i am also really sarcastic some of the time. i'm the girl who is playing football with the guys at parties or shooting hoops or playing some video game with them or seeing who can chug their drink the fastest..i just have more fun hanging out with guys and i can talk to them more than i can girls because there isnt as much *drama* with them. i really want to be THE GIRL for this kid named matt. hes a great soccer player, amazing football player, smart, funny, hott, helpful. just all around what i want, and i want to know how i can change some of the ways i am so he'll like me, or atleast notice i am a girl and i've got the potentional to be a girlfriend. hes never made out with anyone and neither have i but i know i want to be the first person he ever makes out with! can anyone and everyone PLEASE help me?! thanks so much. 5's help!
wow.im the exact same way with guys. i mean it took me forever to get a boyfriend and even when i did it was hard cause i was always hanging out with the other guys who are my friends. now i went into the same situation with my boyfriend and what i did was told my boyfriend that i have guy friends and not to be jealous cause i only like him. what to do to get him? let him know you're interested. joke around with him and pay more attention to him then you do to the others..
hope i helped?
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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?
i know how you feel when i was in like 2nd and 3rd grade i had like 2 friends and it sucked big time. and noone deserves to be treated like that. but eventually i got more friends and people relized that i was cool and started being nice. i suggest getting some new friends. find someone who seems nice and try to make conversation chances are that person will have friends who will eventually be your friends and itll work out. give it time
hope i helped a little
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I have a friend but the thing is i don't like her as a friend any more because she is very mean and controling. she still thinks we're friends even though i haven't talked to her in months. she called me and asked me to go to her birthday party how do i tell her that i don't want to go without hurting her feelings? also it is a sleep over thing and i said i could sleep over because of something the next day which is true but she still wants me to go for a few hours the first day! please help i don't want to hurt her feelings!!
tell her the way you feel about her controling behavior. if you don't tell her shes doing something wrong then she won't stop doing it because she doesnt know you don't like it. so let her know how you feel and if she still doesnt stop drop her as as friend because obviously she doesn't want to be friends anyway if all she does is be mean
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hi my name is jess i met this kid at camp named matt i think i like him and i want to know if he likes me back how is this possible to find out if he likes me back
Thanks jess
ps. please dont delete this it is urgent
look for signs: if he always seems to be around you. or if hes doing things for you he doesnt do for other people. or just ask him . try to bring up the subject of who he likes and say you like him a little and he agrees then go with it. if he doesnt well then sorry and jsut work on being really good friends.
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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing
I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee
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Mee
you really should tell your friend. it'll probably be better if she finds out from you and not some person she doesnt even know. then yall will have the issue of i thought you were my friend and you didnt even tell me. so i think you should tell her.
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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small
ok. your only 14. if you guys are in love with each other the whole engagement thing can wait. and as for yall fighting. its normal to fight soemtimes but ALL the time isnt healthy.i suggest you take a break from each other. if you come back and still care about him then its real love.
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