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its like i hate you one minute and then i love you the next..its like i wanna throw you off a cliff..but be at the bottom to catch you..

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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?

um.. well your body is constantly changing throughout your teenage years. and shes definatly not pregnant. maybe she should wait another month and see if she gets it but if not she might wanna tell her mom. hope i helped!

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...im getting my teeth pulled..the 2 like first molars...i uess im getting laughing gas and a shot...umm what do they use and does it hurt can someone like tell me these things lol im sooo nervous and i just need to know whats going on....thanks sooo much =)

hm. well i've never had my teeth pulled but i do know that they use a shot of this numbing stuff that leaves it tingling for a while and it stops the pain. it basically depends on how severe it is and how long it will take. or on what is available or what ur dentist prefers. dont worry the dentist is awesome and he should know what hes doing.

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I have blotchy skin like pimples and its kinda red should i go to the dermatologist? Also what kind of face wash should i get? Thanks

hey there! well it depends on how bad your acne is.. if its really bad like all over your face then see a dermatologist, since they have the powerful stuff. if its just a few pimples on ur face every so often and a lot of black heads and pimples on ur forehead, then id recomend using st. ives facial wash stuff in medicated. it smells really good and it has this stuff that should help. also buy some acne cream. it helps a ton, just dont use it excessivly. it drys out ur skin majorly if you do. hope i helped!

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okay, i have a question, i like this one guy, and he likes me back, but the problem is that he lives far away like 20 minutes away, and we can hardly see each other, were're not going out or anything, we just like each other a lot, we want to see each other more, well at least i do, i like this guy alot, but i don't know what to do, can u help me??

well you guys can go to the mall, talk on the phone, anything where you can make contact is really a good way to start. hope i helped!

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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!

go out with him. definatly. and if he brings up anything about doing it, tell him you are NOT ready. and do NOT give in. and if he keeps pressuring you, break up with him. hope i helped!

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what is the best conditioning treatment or product or whatever for dyed hair? thanx

oOo im so glad you asked!! i just colored my hair a bit ago, and i use this brand called "suave" it works really well for color treated hair. if your new color is brown or black, i recomend that. if its blond, i recomend dove's color treated hair shampoo. hope i helped!

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Hey im Nikki and i broke up with my b/f about 3 months ago (this was an 7 month relationship) And i love him more then anything, idk if he loves me at all and he asks if i would want to go back out with him and idk how he feels buthwe acts like a complete jerk to me and jokes around like he isnt joking but then he says he is and makes me cry (boo hoo) so whats your advice..?

if you really love him, go out with him again. if he says this sort of stuff again break up with him right there on the spot. its not worth going through and it might get in his head that thats not cool. hope i helped!

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i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!?

ok boy your ex sounds alot like me. lol. well ok he obviously still has feelings for you and when he said he didnt love you anymore he didnt mean it and was probably talking out of rage. ask him what it is he has to tell you. it might be that he still likes you. do you still have any feelings for him? if so, give him another shot. if not, tell him you dont. and that you two are just friends. hope i helped you!

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hey yah the guy i liked said i was ugly so should i confront him?

haha i had this same problem. just let it go. a guy who says that sort of stuff either really likes you and wants to get your attention, or really means it. so try to forget about it. but dont stop liking him. hope i helped!

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Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ...

well if i were you, id come right out and ask him if you and him could ever really be together.. if you could make it in the longrun. if he says "no" or "i dont know" then break up with him. if its a "yes" then he obviously likes you for you and wants to keep this going. remember your going into highschool and there are plenty of more boys there too.. ones who live closer and might be more clear as to what they want. hope i helped!

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OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!!

hmm.. well if he really did like his friend, he wouldnt be flirting with you or anything. so dont worry! you dont even know this . and if he does break up with her, it may not even be just because of you. but love only comes so often in life.. so if it comes along take a risk. just dont worry about this other , its not like they've broken up YET! hope i helped!

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Last question today i swear ..
Well whenever my best friend is around her boyfriend she id relly mean to me and starts like changing what do i do?

tell her that shes being a total meanie when shes around her boyfriend. if she doesnt stop it then just dont hang out with her when shes with her boyfriend. you guys can still be good friends just let that be a time when you gotta give each other space! hope i helped! xox -holli

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13/Female...I have jouvenile diabetes, which is sad because everyday, i have to prick my finger everyday BUT i'm used to it so it doesnt matter. anyway, i'm going to school next monday (i have never been to regular school, only homeschool) and im thinking that everyone will make fun of me because during class, i will have to go to the bathroom and prick my finger. im afraid everyone will make fun of me :( How do i explain to them that this is okay and im just a normal human being and im just like everyone else?

hey there! if its one thing ive learned in all my years of school, its to not care what people think. but i know that probably doesnt help much since your wanting to make a good impression right? most schools are not what you think they are. alot of kids are so sweet and so supportive of people! they arent anything like you see in the movies or on tv or whatnot. if anything says anything mean about it, just tell them what you just told me in the question. and if they STILL bug you about it, just forget it or tell the principal. my school has a system where nobody gets bullied, or picked on by anyone. its really good. so check with your school and see if they have something like that. hope i helped! xox -holli

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