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Q: I'm a tiny little person (13/f) and my mom wants me to exercise. Aside from burning off fat and staying at a healthy weight, why is it important to exercise?
because its keeps you healthy which helps to pervent sicknesses and makes you live longer.. yupp

..:jenny

Q: dear wify,
should i name my dog spike?
love hubby
umm.. go for it?

Q: like how can i fix a boot heel if it breaks!!!!
superglue.

Q: Alright well, theres this kid and if I don't talk to him I start missing him. And when I ask myself if I like him I say no. But then when I miss him I start thinking I really do like him. I think im confused. Hes not really my type but hes so fun to talk to, and hes so funny. He understands all my weird jokes. Were like the same person but differnt genders. I dont get why I keep telling myself that I dont like him. I get frustraited about it too. I think that that is what my question is. So if you can tell me why I keep telling myself I dont like him, that would be great. Thank you!
Mabye you keep telling yourself that you dont like him because you really dont. You may just concider him a good guy friend (which is always good to have). If he makes you laugh and hes fun to talk to start hanging out with him more, im sorry that i cant tell you how your feeling, but you could end up becoming best friends, or ever something more, thats up to you. I hope this helped!

..:jenny

Q: I'm going to buy the Nitendo (sp?) DS and I'm not sure which game to get, Zoo tycoon or Super Mairo. I'm 14/f and I hate the games that are like really hard to beat but with some chanlege and I've played both games befor. Which one do you reccomend?
Will, rate too!!!!!
Thanks!
i would recomend zoo tycoo.. also mabye you should try the sims.

..:jenny

Q: I need to get a new perfume, and I want my boyfriend to like it. What are some inexpensive (under $35) perfumes that guys will like? I started wearing JLO Still, but my boyfriend never even commented it.. and also my mom said it smelled bad. Any other suggestions?
try curious from britney spears, ralph from ralph lauren, or now from abrecrombie and fitch

but guys can be dumb and dont usually comment on sent.. mabye your hair so dont worry if he doesnt.

..:jenny

Q: Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this.
i know you have had a lot of answers but please take the time to read this:

to be honnest with you i think that its very immature for you to be concidering having a baby on purpose, and obously if your asking about it your not 100% sure that you want one.. here are some reasons why i think you should wait:
1. your gonna be in 10th or 11th grade..so are you going to drop out of high school, and if you did that what kind or future would you be providing for your child?
2. you'll need help raising this child and if your parents dont love you as you say, whos gonna help? because i hope your not planning on the father sticking around forever.

coming from a single parent home, with a young mother, who works with teenage mothers now, i hate to tell you but its total bull s*** that younger mothers are closer to thier chldren, most end up having someone else rais them anyways..
BABYSITTING IS DIFFERENT THEN RAISING A CHILD!!

something to think about: re-read you question and count how many times its says "I" its not you it will be another life that you will be in charge of, so dont be selfish.. and by the way your parents dont hate you, they may say things when they are angry or not, but my parents (the young mother and the drug attic) say stuff and i i know.. my mom.. doesnt mean it, try talking to them first before you do something drastic.

..:jenny

Q: what are some good things to ask for for christmas ecause i want some things but like my dad asks me and i dont really know what i want i want a tiffanys necklace but i dont wanna seem like a spoiled stuck up priss so im not gonna sk but i need some good things to ask for
well first off i just want to say to the person who flipped out on you that if it offended them that much dont take the time to answer it next time..
anyways ask for whatever you want but gift cards to your favorite store would be best if you dont want to seem like a priss.

..:jenny

Q: how do you get the things like on your pictures the caption underneathe ho do you make it pretty nad stuff with like the words on top of words and how do you get 12 top friends and change the stuf like look at whatevers friendss to other things like this girls

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=11275657&Mytoken=D139B21C-1322-10B5-3A90658644E5746538494770
i ahh i am soo adicted to my myspace !!

but if you want to put words or herats on your myspace, before you upload it, go to paint and add whatever you like.. i know all about myspace so if you have anymore questions just go to my advice collum and ask.

..:jenny

Q: what is a good way to get lower abs/ a flat tummy. what are some exercising techniques or healthier eatin habbits, anything anyone will recommened thank you sooo much! =)
my friend has a ps2 game that helps you work your abs and other body parts, but other than that sit ups and running will do just fine, just remeber to eat healthy.

Q: what's a good way to learn how to kiss? And i don't wanna hear "practice on your hand" or "don't worry about it, it'll just come naturally" is there any other way i can practice without that?
if your a girl you could always ask one of your more "exspereanced friends" other then that i think you may be stuck kissing yourself.

Q: oh man my best freind is dating the girl i like the most. I like him a lot but i like her too.
WHAT DO I DO?
talk to him about it. see how much he really likes her and if you like her as much as you say it should only matter if shes happy.. even though it would be better if she was happy with you..

Q: mah friend used to like this kid named billy, she liked him forever but he never liked her back. Now she has a boyfriend and I like billy. She doesnt know, and she still likes billy also. I think that she cant have her cake and eat it too.. since she has a boy friend she should get over billy. what should i do? billy said that he likes me and might wanna go out with me, should i go out with him and for get about mah friend or what?

please i rate well!
Jackie
remember that friends will most likly last longer then boyfriends, and you never know she may be perfectly fine with the idea since shes wrapped up in her own relationship, if you just talk to her first. tell her that you like him and that he likes you, and ask her how she would feal if you guys went out.

..:jenny

Q: my grass is brown :( what should i do !?!
and it snowed yesturday and now the ground is white..
well if it snowed.. i doubt the grass will grow untill it melts.. in the srping. sorry !

..:jenny

Q: ALL RATE 5's FOR ALL!!!!!!
Does anyone know any wired diets that worked pretty good like i heard if u drink cran berry juice of 72 hours its will take off a couple pounds thats probaly not true but anyone any wired diets like that
ill rate 5's for all!!!!!!
theres something my mom read in a book once that was like if you only eat those water shoots things in chinese rice for a day you like rejouvinate your body.. haha that doesnt help at all but i thought that id tell you anyways.
good luck!
..:jenny

Q: i am 13/f and my parents have been divorced since i was 2...i live with my mom on weekdays and every other weekend i go to my dads house and spend the night...my mom is remarried and my dad has i g/f that i really like...well last friday was my party so i didnt go to my dads on his weekend. on saturday morning i called my dad and he didnt want to come pick me up..when i got there (from my mom) his g/f was over and they had slept together...my dad asked me if i thought he was a bad person... so i have 2 questions-
1. should i tell my mom about her sleeping over there...becasue i dont really want to go to my dads and if my mom hears i wont have to spend the night at my dads.
2. is it mean for me to not want to go to my dads house...the age is 13 when you get to choose if you go or not but i dont know if i should go.

Sorry it was so long..i will rate high!
1. its ok if you want to talk to your mom about it, but it would be best if you also talked to your dad. its always good to be able to talk to your mom about things like this, but this kind of situation is between you and your father. its sounds like he would understand if you told him you were not ready to be staying over if she was there too, no matter how much you like her. anyways the point is i think it would be good to tell your mom, its always good to keep her involved, but it would be better if you were the onhe to talk to your dad about it, not her.
2. no it is not mean for you not to want to go to your dads house. trust me i feel the same way. as long as your happy, besides mabye its just a brake you need, and youll want to see him later on.
i hope everything goes ok for you!

..:jenny

Q: im 14 and iv only had two boyfriends, but its like boys dont even notice me. what should i do?
Its not that boys dont like you, mabye they are afriad to aproach you. I know that this may be hard to believe because parents say it all the time, but SOME boys are afraid to ask someone out that they really have feelings for, or they are afraid of rejection. Mabye you should try making the first move.

Q: Hey .. does anyone know some good websites where i can just listen to music ? Not from xanga or anything .. most of them dont work anyway. But please if you can give me some sites thatd be awesome ! Thanks ..
www.purevolume.com

Q: iimm like 125 pounds!!!!! i am only 14 and i am like 5 feet dont u think thats wicked fat!?!?!? well what should i do to get skiinny i feel like a fat cow and i dont like to wear athingsuites and stuff infront off people i need to get skinny by summer what hsould i do? i rate high!!
Its up to you. You do not need to be skinny like many other people out there, but if you feel like you need to lose wieght to make yourself helathier, then try a no sweets diet, and a little exersize. You'll be surprised how far that can go.

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thecarsdownthehill
hey there! my name is jenny and im from massachusetts. ill be happy to answer any of your questions and i dont know who they are from so feel free to ask me anything. I havnt told any of my friends about this site so if you happen to land here, do me a favor and put it in your profile or send me to your friends so spred it around. thank you!



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