A while ago, I told my friend about a crush that I had. Since I was afraid that she would freak out, I told her that I didnt like him any more but I do. Now I learned that she likes him a little too!!! I even just had a dream about him. Should I tell her that I still like him a lot or let her have him?
I went through the exact same situation a year back. I must say it is a very complicated and delicate situation. And sometimes very confusing too. First of all, you should go and tell your friend about your feelings for this guy. I think your friend should know about it no matter how hard it is for you to tell her. Try discussing it with her and laughing it off, if she is a good friend then she will realise it's not worth a fight with you. And as far as the guy is concerned, if he pursues one of you then go ahead (but then make sure both of you are cool with the other going out with him otherwise trust me guys are not worth a fight, i had had a fight with my bff just because of my crush and it resulted into a mess) but if he doesnt then you guys should not try to fight over it.
Hope I helped.
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how do i trust my boyfrienda around other grils i really love him and i dont wont to lost him
Well, trusting someone always comes with time. Time and again your boyfriend will prove it to you if he is worthy of your trust.
And if he truly loves you girl, you dont have to worry about the things he does around other girls because he won't ever let you down. And if he lies to you, then he doesnt deserve you.
I myself know how difficult it is to trust your boyfriend but have faith in him. If he is worthy of you, he will prove it. And you will know it!
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me and my best friend are thinking about trying out the whole friends with benefits thing because neither of us are ready for a relationship yet. but from stories i've heard, friends with benefits doesn't usually work out. what do you think?
I think you should not try it.
Being just friends and doing this casual thing will hurt both of you and your relashionship will never be able to be the same again. If you get attached to your friend then you would never be able to be the same way around him.
I have seen this. There was this friend of mine and she was very very close friends with this guy and because of this stint in between they HATE each other now. They never want to see each other and litreally abuse each other.
I am sure you dont want to be in that situation one day, so I think you should just remain friends!
But at the end it is your decision, sit down and think about it..
Hope I helped.
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I have a best friend or so i thought he was and something happened between us and now were not as close. he knows a secret that involves me and he wont tell me what it is about. I know its silly to get into a fight over this its just that he told me he cant tell me because he doesnt want to break the trust of the person who told him. but he told somebody else about it and she told me what he said. So he lied and is being a hypocrite about not telling secrets. this may seem like a dumb thing to get into a fight over but this isnt the first time hes done something like this. My other best friend can't stand him becuase she thinks hes a bad person and after what he did now i'm starting to believe her. He's a bad person and we haven't spoken in a week and we normally text everyday. I don't know what to do.
Best friends are like soulmates. They are meant to trust each other more than anyone else (except thier parents, of course). I feel he isnt acting as your best friend. If he would have considered you a very very close friend he wouldn't have done something like this. And would have told you that secret no matter what. I feel you should go talk this out with him but you shouldn't trust him that much. Try finding friends who are always truthfull to you no matter how bitter the truth is because at the end these are the friends you have to bank upon when you are in a bad condition and you need to have TRUST!
Hope I helped.
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