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HEY YALL!!! Feel free to leave ANY questions that u might have for me and i'll answer them for you as soon as possible.
Much Luv!! xoxo ♥

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ok, well i like my brothers friend.. lets call him... BOB, ok well BOB likes me too and we always talk and hang out and we've kissed and he sometimes gets all playful touchy but just like flirting and stuff and i wanna go out with him but hes afraid my brother will get insanely pissed off at him.. I talked to my brother and he was like "whatever.. hes cool so i dont care" so i was like, sweet. Well i dont wanna ask this guy out cus i just dont, im not scared or nething but i wanna talk to him about "us" but i dont know how.. i dont think this is making sense.. BUT ANYWAYS i dont know how to talk to him about it.. its reatrded cus i can usually go up to a guy and tell him i think hes hot or that i like him and stuff and they would be like "sweet" or something BUT i CANT with BOB... What would you do if you were in my situation?... I rate high..

15/F

i would talk to "bob" and tell him how u feel about him. mention to him that u talked to your brother and he said he's fine with it..see what happens with this..u never kno..hope i helped xox

is there any way that you can delete a guestion from your my guestions link?

don think so cus when u write a question its says your question cannot be edited so u probably cant delete it either..hope i helped xoxo

Hey, do you guys know any styling products that you can put in your hair while its damp and makes it straight when you blow dry it? Thanks

john frieda straightening serum..xox

ok this gurl likes me and i like her yadda yadda yadda...but she says taht she doenst know if she can take it the next step because i dont go to church regularly...if i did, then she said she would take our relationship further...but i hardly ever go to church...and i usually work on sundays...wat should i do?

Theres really nothing you can do..i mean if shes looking for someone whos very religious u shouldnt change who you are and whether u go to church or not unless YOU want to..maybe if u giv her a good explanation she'll change her mind..otherwise its time to move on..xoxo kara

16-F There is this boy Jon and last year I really liked him but I never really talked to him. Anyways this year were always talking and were pretty close. We've hung out twice in the past month bc we're both busy. We've made out and he's gone up my shirt. He says he likes me like that and says hes not using me but I dunno something in my head is saying he's using me. When ever I hang out or talk to him he says stuff about fingering me. Whenever I move his hands or say no he tells me how pretty I am or how much he likes me and says how close we've gotten. We're not going out but I think we're headed there. So my question is do u think he's using me and if not do you think I need to lighten up and do stuff with him or forget him and move on. thanx

Don't ever let anyone pressure u into doing somthin u dont want to do or u dont feel comforatable doing ESPECIALLY a guy. If you really like him then u should talk to him and tell him in a nice way that u dont like it when he says and does that stuff to u. In no way should u lighten up a bit. follow your instincts and dont feel guilty for telling him no. Follow your own beliefs on this one..and if he continues to act this way dont settle for him, there are so many more guys out there. ..xoxo kara

Ive started at a new school last week on september 8(im a freshman)in my old school i was the type of girl who hung out with guys alot and guys were always talking to me but here they dont ive only talked to like 3 guys that are in my classes and we dont evan talk in the halls!all im asking is that ive only been there for 5 days eventually when things start to like flowing better(cuz were all a lil confused still)do guys start talking to people more?

Exactly u answered your own question. lol..after a month or so everyone will start to get more comforatable with eachother and you sure to make more guy friends..at least thats what happened for me. Try to focus on having gurls as friends too, its good to have a mixture of both. hope i helped answer your question..xoxo

alot of people think that i'm bi polar. i get mood swings like you would not believe... for instance today i was having a great time in algebra and then i walked out of the classroom so pissed off and i was like biting everyones head off. i had major depression for 2 years but then i got over it and i was okay up until about maybe a month or 2 ago when people started saying that i had moodswings and within the last month alot of people said that i might be bipolar. could this be possible? should i see a doctor? i don't want to worry my mom again because when i had major depression that was like a really bad time for my entire family. what should i do?

The best thing to do is talk to your mom and tell her how u feel. im sure u dont want to stay like this. chances r is that u could be bi polar. After u discuss this with your mom hopefully u can get to a good doctor who can prescribe you the right medication that u need so u wont feel this way anymore..dont let it go things will only get worse! hope i helped..xoxo

Sometimes, I'd say about once a month, I'll wake up unable to move or speak, all I'll be able to control is my eyes. During this time I can't control my breathing either, my body is still in automatic mode. After about 10-30 secs of focusing on moving a single part of my body, I'll be able to move my entire body again. My mom who's a psych student says that I wake up during a certain stage of REM sleep; though I'd like another opinion. Has anyone been through this, or does anyone have any insight as to what this is?

I'm not exactly sure what this is but i most definitely think that u should see a doctor who can help u out..sorry i could'nt giv u more information..xox

there is this boy who b sweatin me..everywhere i go he follow..but he is a nice friend.but sometimes he just get annoying. How can i tell him to back off..but without hurting his feeling?

ok, well if u mean sweatin u like sex then theres a very good reason he's followin u. U see most gurls when they have sex look at the emotional side and want to be with that person, this time it seems like its the other way around. Explain to him that u were'nt lookin for a relationship n didnt expect one. Although he might not feel so great after u tell him this..its the only way to break the ice. hope i helped and understood wut u meant,,if i didnt tell me what u meant pls do i dont get confused! thanks for listening..xoxo kara

ok so today i was talking to the kid i like and it was great! we really connected. but i dont think he likes me. how can i approach him and sound like im his friend but not sound like i like him?

yey i kno who art thou is!!!!!! sure u say no way jose but i can help u out missy. i think u should get a ride home..then u will have completed your goal

dearest one. my puppy gizmo is the best puppy in the world. when i came home from school today she was wagging her tail so excited to see me. i taped my lap to tell her to come sit with me but she wouldnt do it. please help... what should i do? im so depressed over this.
~~Karen~~

dearest one..i understand how this is tugging at your heart,,your lovely puppy seems to be in a crisis right now and its up to u to help her..maybe she isnt getting the right nutrients so therefore she is turning against u??do u feed her daily? DO U! DO U! u best recognize the choices u are going to have to make right now..and make them wisely ..giv that puppy some miccy d's yep!! ahhha ok thats wud up ..i love thou truly ..blood of the womb karen..good luck muffin

i stayed home today cuz im really sick..and like my face has gotten SOOOO dry from it like around my nose and under my chin and under my eyes..does neone know somthing that'll help? like hand lotion? but isn't that for ur hand..and i kinda need somthin that'll work fast cuz i got skool tomorrow well thanx

Aveeno moisturizing lotion for extra dry skin....it works great on me..hope this works!..xox

I have this really bad problem with acne. Its weird and i never heard of anybody else having it. I like to pop my zits. I know thats gross, but i just cant help myself. its like an addiction, i love the way it feels. Its almost like how a cutter feels when they cut themselves. Its a type of release. Im not being covered with scars, because ive been popping them for several years. I want to stop but i cant seem to stop. When i tell people they think its a joke. I'm afraid to take off my shirt in public now. What should i do before i become one big crater!!!

For your face i reccomend proactive..i've heard it works wonders...If thats to pricey or you've already tried it..try natures cure, there acne herbal supplements. u take one in the morning and one at nite and its suppose to help clear up acne..hope this information helps..xoxo kara

Theres this girl i really like thats in my class. The problem is my best friend likes her a lot too. He works with her so we both see each other a lot. I dont want to lose my best friend but i think she likes me more than she likes him. What should i do?

My advice to u is to talk to him and tell him how u feel, if he's a good enough friend he will understand. He should also understand that u like her too, so there are two sides to this situation. Since you dont know for SURE that she like u more, u should wait for her to tell u how she feels, if she even has intimate feelings for either one of you...Ultimately this girl should not come between u and your bestfriends friendship with eachother. Remember relationships come and go but friends are FOREVER. xoxo

Theres this girl in my class. I really like her, but shes usually not the type i would go after. Shes really hyper all the time and always going after the "bad boys". She hangs around me a lot before class, and even has a pet name for me. She keeps asking me when am i going to take her out to go driving. Is she just being nice or does she really like me? I'm not the bad boy type, thats why this is puzzling me.

Just becus she is after the "bad boy" type doesnt mean every guy she likes is going to fit into that category, girls are confusing sometimes, and my guess to u is that she's hinting that she either likes you or she just thinks u seem like a cool person to hangout with sometime. If shes also asking you when ur gonna take her out to go driving dont hold back..ask her!! she obviously likes u on some kind of level its just your job to figure out which one.. hope i helped...xoxo kara

Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast.

If he truly care about you, and BELIEVE me, you will find out soon enough, then he wont pressure u into kissing him just yet. if you've been going out for quite sometime now and you still dont feel comforatable kissing him, then maybe theres somthing telling you that you arent ready for a serious boyfriend yet. give it some time it'll come to u on its own. And if he's giving u the cold shoulder and acting all shady its definitely time to move on girl! ..xoxo kara

This question is for my boyfriend. Whenever he tries to go to sleep he cant. He says he stays up all night just tossing and turning. He has tried everything. He takes a warm shower before bed because he said that makes him tired and he will drink a warm glass of milk, he has even tried sleeping pills--they dont seem to work too well. He says that wen hes just laying there everything is racing through his head of what he has to do the next day what he should of done today, how conversations went during the day, basically ANYTHING. I'm all out of ideas for him and so isnt he because he has said this has been happening for a while. Hes not a doctor person and refuses to go. Hes 19. Any one know anything?
Thank You!!

Try valerian root. It's a non- prescribed herbal supplement. It doesnt exhaust u , it slowly makes u relax until u fall asleep. It's also great because then u wont wake up feeling groggy as a result of taking sleeping pills. try em out n see how they work ...hope i helped! xoxo kara

Im in the army, been with my girlfriend 5 years. Im leaving again for iraq for the 2nd, should i ask her to marry me before i ago, just incase i dont come back. i love her with all my heart, i would give my life for her. but do you guys ever have the feeling how do you know if they are the one. its just so mind boggling to me. and advice would help.
thanks
josh

This seems like a hard question to answer. No one can really tell u to marry this woman except for YOU. Chances are, this trip to iraq, and being apart for a long period of time, will make your relationship even better, and you'll grow to love and appreciate eachother even more than before..its your decision to make so think hard!
im sorry i couldnt giv u an exact answer but this is a decision youll have to make on your own..hope i helped out a bit..xoxo

I wanted to find some good love quotes and stuff and wanted to know if anyone could help me out. thanx a bunch! and i will rate you.

hotquotes.com

Hi ! Ok here it goes..This summer i broke up with my boy friend of 10 months for a guy i met on the internet ! Now me and my new boy friend are really close and i love him alot ! But recently i started hanging out with my ex and i still love him too..what should i do ?????

i think that u should def stick to someone other then internet..i mean sure u feel this connection but theres somthing holding u back..its on the internet. I know it feels right in the moment but chances are this internet thing probably wont work out in the future. If u still like you ex go for it, at least you'll get to see him in person. Follow your heart and see where it leads you. hope i helped out a bit..thanks for listening...kara xoxo

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