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ahh lets see..
whats there to say?
helping people is pretty awesome.
you feel like your actually someone
so leave it if you need nething else from me.
i wouldnt wanna leave ne1 sittin there confused.
youu see?

i love running track, hangin out with my friends, i got brown hair, browin eyes, and im five foot..if you were interested..haha

email me if yah wanna.
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i went on vacation for four days without talking to any of my friends except for one for 45 minutes... well im bak and they feel like strangers to me. when 8th grade ends we wont be in high school together and we oviously wont last... right nowi could almost kill myself becuz its coming up too soon... and the vacation and coming bak makes me realize how much i dont like the fact that we wont keep in touch and be as good of friends. (link)
omgsh i felt the same way..well are you guys close friends..cuz if you are i guarantee you guys will stay friwends..i mean i kno not forever cuz i ont think tht show it gunan b for me..but long enuff until you find more friends tht you an let go to the old and hold on to the new..i mean you guys can always talk tho..yah i wanted to kil myself to but dont do it..hehe..just you gotta make shure tht they care for you and tell them how you feel..tell tem tht you cant live w/o them and tell them if they'll take the tyme to always talk to you at least like 5 tymes a week..i mean it will help for a while..then you guys can become stronger friends..and you guys HAVE to hang out. cuz if you went away for 4 days and thought they were stangers..you really needa see who yah wanna hold on too and who yah wanna let go of.



Ok, so I decided that instead of taking the chance having sex with just a condom that I want to go on birth control. Only problem is telling my mom I want to go to the gyno. I know I don't have to tell my parents but I would rather them knowing know then later on. I'm 18 and at college. Any good ways of saying it to them without basically saying I'm having sex? (link)
okay well tell your mom tht you are very responsible and you wanna do all the birth control shyt bcuz you dont want nething bad to happen..tell her tht if you try it and she dont like it then she can stop paying for it..you shud trust you tho if you tell her your being responsible..be careful tho and good luckk!



im moving from fresno texas to birmingham MI, its a wealthy suburb of detroit. im losing my mind because im so scared. i HATE the cold and i won't know anyone. does anyone live there or close to it? can u tell me how it is in the winter and stuff like that? thanks. (link)
its freezing..lyke seriously..michigan..all over michigan is cold..in the winter..dude watch out..pants gloves sweaters..all tht stuff yah gunna need...but in the summer it nice..dont worry you'll get adjusted



ok so im a female 14years old im in eight grade and i guees alot of guys find me really attractive well etleast thats what they all say and so i go out with guys alot liek last time i went out with anyone was like 4 days a go and now i want to go out again with different guy but the problem is that there is 6 guys who like me and i flirt with all of them and stuff and like i flirt with like alot of guys but i mean every girl does at some point but i dont think guys like that much so sometimes i lose them bacause of that but like i think i was born to flirt with guys so am i really that bad or am not the only one who does it and is there anything i should change? (link)
well dont go to the extreme..its rong to do tht on your part and every1 elses..try to focus on one guy..and i mean if yah think all them hott and you wanna flirt..then dont go out w/ ne1 until your shure you really lyke them..tht will make others trust you. guys wont wanna go out w/ sum1 that there not shure wen yah gunna go hitt on another guy..yah kno
hope i helped



In America, is there a certain age you have to be before you are allowed to have sex? It's just that in England you have to be sixteen. (link)
naww it dont really matter..but if yah 18 then your responsible for the shytt yah do..
but other then tht..go do wut yah want!


Hey guys. I'm 14 and I am dying to see the movie Thirteen. I've read the script and I've seen almost every clip there is to see on the internet! The movie is rated R though. I'm pretty sure I can convince my mom to let me see it, but she'd want to see it too.. and the movie has parts where Tracey cuts herself. I cut myself also, and I do not want her to catch on about my self injuries until I'm ready to tell her. Any ideas on what I should do? (link)
alrite first of all..cuttin your self..wut for..its not worth it and you cud like kill yourself..and about the movie..i mean tell your mom tht you like it and you wanna see it..if she questions you..tell her tht you do..you have to get help...its not good to cut yourself and its not worth it..theres other ways you can get yah pain out..and it not cuttin.


ok umm... my boyfrend broke up with me monday because he said he didnt want to get sick of me and neva talk to me again if we broke up later in the year..... so now we're ova but i still hav a crush on him! n hes already movin on to other girls (he likes this girl but she doesnt want to go out with him) how do i get ova this n b like my old self... not miserable?!?!?! i really need help. o ya he still flirts with me n stuff u can tell he still likes me too cuz he calls me everyday n stuff so wat should i do? (link)
well the first thing you gotta do is talk ot him and ask him how he feels about you..tell him you want them honest truth..tht will help you see if he does still have feeling for you or is it just cuz he cant find another grl..so he still finds it enjoyable to flirt w/ yah..yah kno? and if he dont like you..i mean just think..you have to move on sumtyme or another..i mean you always think like i cud never forget about him..bu yah you will..trust me..just think theres so much more to lyfe..hes so not worth it..pple who break up and stay friends were ment to b friends..not more..


Hi, i went to skewl at a catholic skewl, but we lived with my grandmom so we moved away, far away. I like my neew house and all but now i live really far away from my best friends. I miss them a lot and i call them a lot. But i keep getting scared thinking that in like 1 month we wont be friends anymore. Its a scary thought and we probably wont be friends 4ever. But i'm 13 yrs old and it would be great if we could be friends till we get our licenses (driving). Does any1 kno how we can be friends that long? (link)
far far far away? so tht mean you guys can visit like every week or nething? weell i mean you can talk to your mom and ask like if once ever like 2 weeks or like 3 weeks if you can go visit them cuz you miss them..tell her the pple were your at now are cool but you wanna keep in touch w/ your other friends..also..you got aim or aol..you can talk to them everyday on tht..tht makes it so much better..i went to a skool and it was only me..like i hadda leave all m friends and aim is a great way to keep in touch!



There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I also felt bad for Kellen. What should I do? Should I tell Kellen? Or should I leave it alone? (link)
you have to tell her..hes cheatin on her and tht so not cool..and wtf..he 18..lol stay away from him :-) lol..its not rite for him to be doin tht..and for kellen..i dont even see y she w/ him cuz he just gunna keep doin tht..i mean hes 18 he shud b the responsible one.



hey this guy in school he is a guy who likes heavy metal! well anyway he let me listen 2 some of his favorite stuff! and seemed so excited me all his fave songs!! He told me that 2 need 2 have black stuff 2 actually hear this music! i had a shirt under my shirt and i lifted it up and said i'm afraid i don't!! he lifted up his white shirt and his abs wre right there!! ppl keep sayin' we're flirting but he denies it! and i find out that someone talked 2 him about it and that he knows i like him ... what do i do? is he flirting with me or not? i'll rate! :) (link)
yah he prob is flirtin w/ yah..beside tht does he give ne other signs tht he mite like you too..look for tht and then you can see if it was flirtin or not. is he liek the sweet type..cuz mayb he just doin tht to make you feel like shyt..like he flritin w/ yah but doesnt really lyke yah..it happens all the tyme...dont give yah self to him until yah kno for shure..


Ok, at the beginning of the school year in a new city, and at a new school, (I just moved here) the first day of school, theres this guy that asked me out when I never even talked to him once, not knowing him at all. Let's call him Bob. Bob has liked me from the first day of school till today. He's had many other crushes and girlfriends other than me but still likes me and flirts with me. As I got to know him, I started to like him. He isn't that hott, but has a great personality. He's the player type and if I went out with him I wouldn't be able to trust him. I really like him but I don't want to go out with him. I don't know why.. He's got a girlfriend right now and people say I shouldn't go out with him because he is a total man whore. At school he ignores me but glances at me whenever we pass in the hall. Do you have any advice? I'd be greatly appreciated!
[]Confused[]
P.S. I'm 13 and in grade 8 if that helps. (link)
ehh he so isnt worth it. dont spend your tyme lovin a guy tht will never love you back..and will prob break your heart..he dont even look at you in skool? wtf thts shyt. lol..no but i wudnt even think bout him..ah i kno it hard to get over him but i mean just think..do you want him to break your heart in the long run. he prob only asked you out cuz every hott grl he sees he asks them..but wut does it matter to him..and he wants is a gf..



ok my dad has a girlfriend... thats ok with me....but like everyone hates her me , my bro, everyone except my dad... i have told him about it so many times but he doesnt listen and he wont break up with her....am i supposed to hurt my dads feelings and lik not hang around her... the only problem is that my dad is lik never home, so i only get to c him wen i c her...i really dont think its fair....i need help this is ruining my life!

from
i need serious help (link)
you have to talk to him even more..thts about all i can say..tell him tht its not fair tht everytyme you wanna spend tyme w/ him..you have to spend tyme w/ her which you dont like..tell him tht you respect his feelings for her but you wanna hang out w/ him wen she not around..mayb he'll think about it..you cant get them to break up..but you can at least see your dad w/o her being round if your dad realy thinks about it and respects your feelings
hope everything goes well..!
raTe mE!



Okay - lol - I know this is probably a stupid opinion/question/thing, but I wanna know what you guys think. I think it's funny. It's one of those "kids say the darndest things" moments.
Okay.
My guy and I are pretty much engaged, but none of our acquaintances know. His little brother (sam) asked "are you two gonna get married?" and my bf answered in sort of a sarcastic tone "yes. Yes we are, Sam." and we just kind of laughed it off 'cause it's the second time Sam's asked us - and his mom was there, and we're keeping it quiet - and Sam said "I thought Shanna (one of my guy's friends) was your girlfriend." Everyone, including me, laughed. Shanna's one of his closest friends. Doesn't bother me in the least (my closest friends are guys), but I'm curious as to where Sam got that idea...Lol. Thing is, I almost think I should be more concerned than I am (like...I'm not.) about the fact that Sam thought Shanna was my boy's gf. We've been together for over a year. But Sam is only 7. I shouldn't be worried, should I? (link)
no..shanna probably calls alot cuz i mean there friends arent they..? and he prob always hears her name in the house bcuz your name prob not mentioned bcuz your guy dont wanna give away tht you guys are gettin married..

it nothin to worry about



i have to write a 2 page essay, and it has to be double spaced. i have Microsoft Works Word Processor, and i cant figure out how to make it double spaced! (and i cant just press enter after every line because it will get screwed up when i print it) so if anyone knows how to do it tell me, thanks! (link)
is it in the place where you go to format..then paragraph or spacing..and then in there..at the bottom it says single..then theres a pull down thing and then you just go to double!



k me and my boyfriend go to diff skools and live bout 7 mins away from eachother....every wednesday i go to church with him but i go to his house for about an hour furst...and my mom knows this...shes met him, his parents n everything....and still sometimes she gets like annoyed with dropping me off at his house...she likes my bf too she says hes eally nice n stuff...but wat can i tell her to assure her that its safe over his house n stuff.. (link)
well tell her that he wudnt do nething to hurt you..cuz you kno him to well..make shure you say tht his parents are always home cuz she mite get worried..and mayb shes annoyed cuz she dont like you driving you there everyday..mayb it not the fact tht she doesnt want you to be there..take a break from it and only see him like mayb every other week..and if you see in the process tht your mom is happier..then now you kno wut the real problem is.


raTe mE!



How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male (link)
let them feel comfortable arouund you..be yourself and dont start nething way too early in the process of becomeing more then friends..let her no tht you wud never do nething to hurt her..dontt pressure her..cuz even if it as a joke she mite take it seriously..most grlz dont think tht automatically from a guy..but sum doo..



last monday i told my boyfriend that i was running away. (it was a joke) i didnt tell him that it was a joke until tuesday morning. he got all mad at me and ended up breaking up w/ me over it. Now he wont talk to me or even walk past me. i have last hour w/ him (he sits in front of me) what should i do? talk to him or wait until he talks to me? (link)
well tell him tht wen you said tht you were testing him to see wut he wud doo..tell him tht wut you said the other day..wasnt intended for you twoo to end your relationship. 3 months and 2 weeks..i dont think it worth it..he dumped you cuz of tht..whoa..i dont think it even worth it for you to even bother talkin to him..but if yah wanna tell him tht you still love him and tht you'll ever do tht agai..but you have to speak up cuz he wontt!!

raTe mE!



i just got my period any advice on pads, tampons
ill apreciate any advice!! ill rate! (link)
well starting off..i wud where pads for right now..yah there uncomfortable but you do get used to him..theere not gunna kill you..if you want..tr tampons but tampons dont work for every1..



You see, whenever I get my period, I start getting a lot of zits on my face and my back. How do I prevent them whenever I have my period? (link)
i dont think you can prevent them..thts just how you body works...get sum face cleansing tht cleans your pores on your face...tht works well..and dont eat junk food..cuz wen yah on your period..you get tempted to..butt stay away or itll only get worse!



i have some minor scars on my face from zits and stuff. does anyone know how to get rid of them without buying stuff in the store? (link)
well the only thing you can do is just wait till they fade away.trust me they will..in the meanwhile..eat healthy..no junk food cuz tht will only make it worse..and dont use like oil type lotion..itll make it worse!





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