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I'm in 3 year University, studying Business. I have been in a 2 year relationship with a guy I love very much. I'm very open and I do not get embarassed. Feel free to ask me anything under the sun!
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my name is bre i amd 13. i reallly like this guy. he calls me hott and stufff. and always makes jokes like one time i was laying down and he said, " i am going to be on you in a few seconds" andd he wants to makeout out with me because he told me. and my friend. and me and my friend are going to a movie with him and hid friend saturday and i know something is bound to happen! i dont know how to makeout!!!!!! i am not scared at all i just dont know. i know a million people have asked this question. and i am sorry. Do your instincts really kick in? i sure hope.
love BRii (link)
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Just make sure there isnt much saliva in your mouth. You can swallow with your mouth open - just push your toungue to the back of your mouth. Practice a bit. You dont have to pucker your lips like people do in movies and so on - just hold them together and move in when he does, SLOWLY! And make sure that the tongue isnt too crazy, just a few little in and outs and play with his tongue a but. TRY NOT TO BREATHE THROUGH YOUR MOUTH!! its all about breathing through your nose. you dont want to breathe into his mouth!! Again, Breathing through your nose with your mouth open, just stick your tongue at the back of your throat... although im sure you have breathed through your nose before. ahahhaha
and.. since you guys are only 13.. he will probably not really know what hes doing either. so follow these tips and you will be better than him!!!
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I know everyone has crazy thoughts... but mine are a bit strange. Like "overly crazy" and need the appropriate attention and medication
So here's the deal:
Ever since I was a little girl (I'm 13/f now), I would come up with these weird thoughts that if I did something that looked cool and I wanted to do it again, it wouldn't look cool if I did it again. I don't think that way anymore. But now I think even worse thoughts. As years grew by this thinking has become worse.
Sometimes when I'm up high on like a deck over a hotel looking at the view, I feel like I'm going to lose control and jump off. But then it got even worse. And this is what really scares me. I sleepwalk, so I feel like I'm going to harm someone in my sleep... and it really disturbs me. My brother annoys me a lot and sometimes the rest of my family does to, (because I'm on the computer all day could be why I'm so annoyed because it puts you in a bad mood. But I never used to be I don't think.) and I feel like once I'm older that I'm going to be one of those people with a mental illness that's going to kill somebody because of it.
Also, I think I have O.C.D. (Obsessive Compulsize Disorder) because when I'm on the neopets boards I'll keep looking up to make sure I'm on the right topic, or it's the right username etc. etc. I'm not sure if I'm just anxious or what!
I may also have A.D.D.
So those things may be connected.
I am also going through a minor depression that is becoming more mild, less and less ever since I talked about it with my mom... which is good but may have something to do with it.
Does any of what I've described seem like a disease/illness? Could you send me a link or something or explain what type of mental problem this could be? I'm scared to know the truth... but the later I find out, the worse.
THANK YOU for your time, and thank you for reading this because it was so long.
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Most people who have a mental illness dont think they are mentall ill. Definately have a talk with your mom and tell her how you feel- hopefully you are close enough with her to be able to do so. Say that you would like to see a doctor to help find what is the problem and why it is happening.
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Can someone please give me the courge to tell her how i feel. i'm 20/F and i've been in luv with my friend Lara for a long time. she is my only friend i knew her from HS. and i dont know who to go to. Can someone tell me something to get my will to comfront her about my feelings.
please.
did this very happen to you or someone you know? explain if did.
And if yes did they like you back or not? were they still your friend?
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All I can say is, you have to tell her how you feel. Plan out what you are going to say, and just go for it. You only live once. You will not know if she likes you back until you ask her! Nothing will come of it if you dont speak up.
You will most likely regret the things you dont do, more than the things you do. Just build up that confidence and follow your gut.
I have a very close girlfriend too and I consider myself to be bisexual. But I have a boyfriend now and she knows that I am really close to her and she is ok with that. I'm sure if you and Lara are close enough, she will understand. She may be slightly weirded out at first, but she will overcome that soon enough.
Best of luck!
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when you book a deluxe hotel room, and they supply you with chocolates, bath robes, towels, wine etc, they expect you to use, and take all that dont they? like they dont charge you for it, if you drink the wine, or eat the fruit, or take the robes?? thanks (link)
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Just to be sure, call room service/the front desk to verify. I would assume the charges are included in the room rental. Aside from booze in the fridge.. Like I said, just double check on those things.
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How do I let someone know that I don't care about his or her existence? Like you know, the 'temporary' friend type of person thing. The ones that only talk to you to ask what's for homework and stuff...
I have a bunch of those and I need to get rid of all of them. I'd love to tell them to fuck off, but I'm saving my swearwords for someone special. ==
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Next time they bother you for homework help or info or whatever, just tell them straight up that you don't appreciate them always asking for your help. Tell them that they should ask someone else because you dont have the time to fill them in on the crap they should already know. It's ok to seem a bit bitchy, expecially if you dont want them around anymore. You don't have to swear at them, but you should be clear and to the point. Just stand up for yourself! You can do it!
Hope that helps!!
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omg i soooo like this guy and i found out from one person that he likes me bk but idk if its true we are having a dance @ my schoolwere the girls ask the guys shud i ask him i really dont wanna be rejected!!!
luv always
confused and in luv!! (link)
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hey! was this a personal message? it showed up in my inbox.. im still kinda new with this whole thing.
If it was a personal message to me im flattered!
Here goes:
If you really like him, I totally think you should do it. Here's why: You only live once. There are only two things that could happen, either he accepts, or he rejects. Like this person said, he likes you back. Asking him is a risk you must take. He might really like you and he might not have the courage to tell you that. Either way - absolutely nothing can come from not asking him. Sometimes you just need to hold your head up high, and get things done on your own. You know what I mean? You have to give it a shot. So when you are at school, and you feel like you look really good, just get that confidence together and do it. I know you can, and dont be afraid. If he doesnt accept, it might be becasue he is too nervous to go with you. But at least now he knows you like him.
I went through junior high and high school IN LOVE with this guy, and I never told him. And we never talked. And we never went out...Nothing happened becuase I didnt let anything happen. I regret it.
Life is short, You only live once, and most importantly - you will always regret the things you dont do, more than the things you do.
Good luck!
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Ok. I'm really confused. I've a couple of questions about fingering:
1. How deep do you have to go 'in there' to pop the cherry?
2. Does it pop after finger is insterted for 2cm only?
3. If it does pop, does the blood look like period blood or different (like blekh skin leftovers or something)?
My period finished yesterday. I was fingered today and found blood on my panties afterwards. Is it 'leftovers' from my period or was my cherry popped? And again, it wasn't more than 2cm deep but it hurt like !@#$.
Sorry for making this disgusting but I need answers.
Thanks loads in advance.
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It probably was either
A)'left over period'
B) since the fingering hurt so bad, he may have ripped you inside a bit, and it blead.
It's ok - maybe you are just super tight or maybe there wasnt enough lube and too much friction. Go SLOW. Make him do it really slowly and gently. I'm not sure if it was your cherry, its possible, but I dont know how hard he was fingering you. It's also possible that you have already popped it from physical activity like horse back riding, and other things like that.
If it was a cut from him, it will heal naturally. Remember to take it slow next time and try to relax your muscles, I know its hard becuase you might be nervous, but try your best!! It will feel a lot better soon.
Good luck.
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Female, 23
When i was at school i had a best friend, when we were about 12 she used to bully me and write nasty songs about me, but i used to take it because i didnt really have anyone else
That all stopped in about a year, but then i started to do the same to her when i was about 15 up until i was 17. I'd be horrible and bitchy alot of the time and write songs and draw horrible pictures of her.
I know it sounds like we werent friends but we actually were and would hang out all the time with our other mutual friends, it was when i was with these friends that i was at my bitchiest, when we were alone it was fine.
Anyway, it's now 8 years ago since we left school, it got ill and still am suffering with mental illnesses which started when i was 17, i was isoclated (i still am, but not a bad) and didnt have a future as far as i was concerned, or a present because i was pretty much bedbound for 3 years, so i just lived in the past, the past was all i thought about (i still do alot now but i'm learning to move forward and think about now and my future), It's in this time that i realised that i was such a horrible bully (i only bullied people that bullied me,i was bullied by tons of people at school, it wasnt like i picked on inocent victims).
I never realised at the time that i was a bully or i would have stopped but now i feel extremely guilty about it and it's really stressing me out and playing on my mind every single day and i'm dreaming about this girl too.
I want to know if it would be a good idea to write to her (if i can find out her address, i know her old phone number but thats it), and apologise for being so horrible to her. It was 8 years ago so i dont know if she would even care or if it would make a difference, but we were friends all way though secondry school so it must have had some impact on her.
I just want her to know that i'm truly sorry for what i did to her.
Do you think it would help, or help you if you had a letter of this kind?
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I think that you should write the letter. It will give you some closure for all of the things you went through back then. It's never too late to forgive and be forgiven. Im sure, at age 23, she would be able to see how it affected you, and how you now feel about everything. She will probably appologize too becuase by the sounds of things, you both bullied each other. If I was her, I would be very touched that you had thought to appologize and explain. Go for it. Let me know how it goes... somehow.
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I'm a teenager and my periods have been regular for quite some time. My problem is with cravings. I'm on a strict diet- and I can't deal with always being bombarded with random cravings for unhealthy food. It's unbelievable how intense they are- like I feel as though I should kill myself if I can't get the food I'm craving.
How do I stop these?
they always ruin my dieting efforts. (link)
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If your cravings last for more than 15 minutes, have a taste of what you crave. You can't keep ignoring them because you will just PIG out later. You can pretty much eat whatever you want-but in moderation.
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It happened before but its happened 5 times today.. He threw up in the morning some chicken he had ate! Is it basically just getting out of his system or should i be worried.. Its definitely not blood.. Most of its just regular like Water/ Saliva but its colored like yellowish as usual.. Respond ASAP! (link)
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If your dog eats iams, stop immediately.
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ive never been fingered but my bf is gonna finger me soon i think..and we're close and im ready and everything i just want to know will i bleed, like on his fingers? i use tampons so does that mean th hymen is already stretched out/popped? (link)
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Make sure he only uses one finger to start out. And after a couple times, you might want to use two. But it depends on how comfortable you are with it. As for the bleeding, you'll never know until it happens. He knows that this is your first time (I assume?) and it is possible that you might bleed. Just make sure he goes slow and there is lots of LUBE! (spit, lube, or you may have enough of your own!)
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are eggs actually really high in cholesterol? i heard that they are (like 71% daily value) and i also heard that having one or two hardboiled eggs a day won't hurt you. does anyone know the real facts? (link)
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Im not sure about hard broiled eggs, but I read in a Health magazine that you should eat two eggs a day, but only one yoke. the white part is good.
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15/f. Is it possible to be at such an early age?
1. I don't trust ANYONE. Not even my parents. Nobody understands. Nobody WANTS to understand. They don't want it to be their problem. They shrug it off. My parents make up excuses to not have to deal with me, since I'm at the *uncontrolled teen* stage of my life.
2. I cut myself
3. I don't talk to anyone. I'm antisocial, and I seem to hate everyone/everything.
4. I cry for no reason. I'm very sensitive and have gone through a lot of personal pain in my life. (getting raped).
5. My parents's pressure over school is KILLING me
6. I seem to have the need to be PERFECT at all times, and it's driving me CRAZY.
7. I think life is worthless. I think *I'M* worthless. I'm incredibly pessimistic.
8. I want to see a therapist and have had suicidal thoughts.
9. I have a really serious case of OCD.
10. Nobody in school like me. People reject me/ignore me, and never want to talk to me. I have absolutely NO friends. And the people that ARE supposedly my friends, have no trust from me. I believe they're there to just use me and screw me over. I don't consider them anyone towards me.
11. I have no one to talk to. Nobody to spill my feelings onto and have them help me.
There are many more *symptoms*. But I didn't want to make it too long. This is pretty much an outline of what is happening to me. Am I seriously depressed? (link)
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Yes, you are probably depressed. It would almost be unheard of if you were depressed due to these personal experiences. It is O.K. You will go tell your doctor, she will prescribe some medication, and you will feel better. You should see a therapist, or just talk to me whenever you feel badly and I will listen. I want to listen, and I want to help. I'm 19/f and I am optimistic and caring. Life will get better, you just need to start fixing yourself up. You can get the help you need, just see your family doctor and she will help you from there.
message me.
Best of luck.
msn is lesley_27 @ hot...if you have msn.
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okay,
so im going to a music fesival in june, and i have to camp for approximatly a week. i am due to start my period half way through that week. so is there anyway that i can prevent my period just for that month? otherwise it will make things very difficult. or have i left it too late? (im from the UK)
any help is greatly appreciated.
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The pill is the only thing that can stop it. It has to be the pill that has equal amounts of progesterone and estrogen. so all the pills will be the same color - like alesse. if you are on it or antoher pill, instead of taking the sugar pills where your period would be, jsut start taking the next package right away.
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How do I become more fashionable.. I'm a guy, and no... I'm not gay. But I wanna be more fashionable, but not like preppy fashionable.. just like being able to have a good sense of style.. I like all colors except like baby blue pink and pastelish colors... And my favorite kind of shoes are Vans Slip-ons.. and I have a pair to match all of my clothes so far.. but I just need some clothes that will look good on me, and will match... Could you suggest any stores that aren't preppy i.e. American Eagle, Abercrombie, etc. (link)
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what ever you do, dont pop your collars or wear giant belt buckles.
shop around a bit and give some stores you havent been in a chance. Maybe take a girlfriend with you too.
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hello. Okay so the prom is april 28th. I have green eyes and dark brown hair. my dress is a dark purple. I'm thinking that the smokey eye would look good, except i can't seem to figure out how to do it. it just doesn't look the same when i do it? Does anybody have any tips or instructions or any other ideas to help me out?
it would be greatly appreciated!
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pruple will make your green eyes pop.
first, use a foundation on your face, nothing powdery or heavy. - unless you have a really nice complexion.
use a light pink blush on the apples of your cheeks, sweet the brush in an upward motion towards your temples.
a very light nutural color on your lips, just a gloss even
get a purple eyeliner or shadow and put the eyeliner on yuor top lids and the bottom, but make it lighter on the bottom, and only from the middle of the lid to the outer corner. put a shimmery white /gold color right under your eyebrows.
black mascara too. and that should be nice and simple and natural.
if you want a more intense look, i would say you could put a bit of purple eyeshadow on, but dont over do it. a hit of purple to match with the dress is nice, but too much matching could be a little much.
your choice!
hope i helped.
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I feel as if I'm driffing a way from him because we would argue but making love after was good. Now I feel as if I have no feelings for him, he made love to me but I have nothing for him I couldn't come because there was a block I felt it and I couldn't come because of it. I care for him but I don't know if I still love him in the way I used too. Help me if any one can. (link)
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Sometimes time apart can be a good thing. I'm not saying you should take time apart becuase that is of course your call. Im not married, but I have been in a relationship for 4 years now. Sometimes I feel the same way, but its usually becuase I have an interest in someone else, a small crush if you will, but it passes and I then realise how lucky I am to have such a great partner who is there for me always. Is there anyone else you might have feelings for? How long have you been feeling this way? If it has been a long time, then you should start asking yourself some serious questions, and try to understand the root of this situation. Have you told your husband how you feel? You should definately sit down with him and just tell him every thing you have been thinking. It might help him realize that things need to change, and the relationship needs to change. It will work itself out from there. And just remember, sometimes we need to work for things and fight for them, and sometimes what is meant to be will be. Listen to your feelings and dont hold them in.
I hope this has helped. Think positively and be strong.
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14/f. Haha I feel stupid asking this but people say they trim their pubes. How do you do this? How short should you go? And when you shave your bikini line, how do you not get the razer bumps? And any other information about grooming down there would be helpful. (link)
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Make sure you have a new sharp razor, use shaving creme or soap, and shave with the grain. so basically shave the opposite way you shave your legs - downwards, instead of up which is against the grain. also - I see the other responses say to put a lot of lotion on it after - but if you do put lotion on, I would suggest that it be a gentle lotion and not be scented, becuase it can sometimes irritate the pores and cause ingrown hairs and so on.
After the first few times you shave, it should be smoother and you should get less bumps afterwards.
Also - dont shave it everyday, that will also make the skin more irritated. ALSO - if you are planning for a day at the beach or something like that, wait a while before you shave either the day before or the day of, becuase the longer the hair, Id say no longer than... 1cm, the smoother the shave will be because the hair will be softer.
Good luck!
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Is there anyone in the Spring, Tx area that maybe wants to work out with me? I used to have a gym membership but I figured it might be kind of useless if I can do other things at home. I just want someone that will run, jog, ride bikes, swim, play tennis with me. :]
Thanks
p.s. I don't need any smart comments about how I shouldn't look for people online or any clearly obvious answers. I've had my share of "know-it-alls" and I have my own common sense, I don't need yours. (link)
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you are dumb.
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where do you buy the tattoo necklaces. theyre chokers and all twisted. (link)
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You really shouldnt wear these things. They are very out of style.
I would suggest a long silver chain, with any kind of pendant thingy on it. if you are goth, maybe a skull and cross bones, or a star if you are fabulous, or a heart or anything like that. you can change pendants too. MUCH BETTER!!!
but probably claires or something like that.
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