Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


cherry poppin?


Question Posted Monday April 16 2007, 10:53 am

Ok. I'm really confused. I've a couple of questions about fingering:

1. How deep do you have to go 'in there' to pop the cherry?

2. Does it pop after finger is insterted for 2cm only?

3. If it does pop, does the blood look like period blood or different (like blekh skin leftovers or something)?

My period finished yesterday. I was fingered today and found blood on my panties afterwards. Is it 'leftovers' from my period or was my cherry popped? And again, it wasn't more than 2cm deep but it hurt like !@#$.

Sorry for making this disgusting but I need answers.

Thanks loads in advance.


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?


solidadvice4teens answered Monday April 16 2007, 4:52 pm:
Your hymen isn't actually popped at all. It's stretched and in all probability it has already been stretched without you knowing it. Masturbation and or tampon use will do it. It's a mucuous mebrane that partially protects your vaginal opening. If you use tampons it's been stretched.

If you don't use tampons and it hasn't been stretched before you'll experience mild discomfort from pentration and perhaps a small amount of blood. If it has not been stretched pentration regardless of depth will make it stretched.

Unfortunately, I cannot answer the second half of the question about whether it's period blood or blood from this activity. I'm not female but I'm sure someone else will be able to handle part 2 of the question for you.

[ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question
]




straightup answered Monday April 16 2007, 12:35 pm:
It probably was either
A)'left over period'
B) since the fingering hurt so bad, he may have ripped you inside a bit, and it blead.

It's ok - maybe you are just super tight or maybe there wasnt enough lube and too much friction. Go SLOW. Make him do it really slowly and gently. I'm not sure if it was your cherry, its possible, but I dont know how hard he was fingering you. It's also possible that you have already popped it from physical activity like horse back riding, and other things like that.

If it was a cut from him, it will heal naturally. Remember to take it slow next time and try to relax your muscles, I know its hard becuase you might be nervous, but try your best!! It will feel a lot better soon.
Good luck.

[ straightup's advice column | Ask straightup A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: fingering
Next Question >>> "down there"

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker