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Question Posted Monday April 16 2007, 12:50 pm

How do I let someone know that I don't care about his or her existence? Like you know, the 'temporary' friend type of person thing. The ones that only talk to you to ask what's for homework and stuff...

I have a bunch of those and I need to get rid of all of them. I'd love to tell them to fuck off, but I'm saving my swearwords for someone special. ==

Thanks!


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orphans answered Monday April 16 2007, 6:52 pm:
Many people dont care about your existance either..but that does not bother them from smileying back at you, saying wassup every now and then or even saying "have fun""take care" or whatever. Maybe cause they dont have issues with themselves.
Be sure to make it clear for them how unwanted they are cause pretty much, you ll be doing them a favour. It will feel a little bit weird when you wont get invited on the high school reunion though...
Havea nice trip on the path you are choosing.
It feels so nice when I bump onto people like you on the road, snobbish people of the past. They start talking as if they were locked in a basement for months and you are the first person they see...they wanna exchange phone numbers and hang out nad you are like "nah...Anyways, I ll see you around" and you just had a big ass BBQ and everyone from school showed up except from them, and you rub it in their face cause they NEVER EVER said a "Wassup" or a "Good Luck".
Maybe next time they will be more carefull.
Maybe you should reconsider.

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pacsunnnx3 answered Monday April 16 2007, 6:44 pm:
i would let someone know that i don't care about their existence by completely ignoring them. or if you do talk to them, be really closed ended like saying i don't know, ok, sure, yeah.. things like that i've noticed really piss people off, haha. but for the homework thing i would tell them to find out themself. it's alright to show a little attitude, especially if these homework people are just using you for that. hope i helped<3

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straightup answered Monday April 16 2007, 2:18 pm:
Next time they bother you for homework help or info or whatever, just tell them straight up that you don't appreciate them always asking for your help. Tell them that they should ask someone else because you dont have the time to fill them in on the crap they should already know. It's ok to seem a bit bitchy, expecially if you dont want them around anymore. You don't have to swear at them, but you should be clear and to the point. Just stand up for yourself! You can do it!

Hope that helps!!

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