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Hey I am 16 and that girl that everyone asks for advice. I love helping people out. Ask me anything! =)
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is it okay that my boyfriend is 3 years older than me? I'm 13 and he's 16 is that bad?
Well, how well do you know him? Older men tend to take advantage of younger women. But if you know him well and you guys really like eachother dont worry about it. It is perfectly fine. But if you dont know him that well and still want to have him as a boyfriend, although there is nothing wrong with it keep an eye out. Wish you guys the best of luck.
Smiles =)
I'm playing Tony Hawk's Wasteland on xbox 360 and I cannot figure out what a 'Gap' is. Some bum keeps saying, "I'll throw down some gaps. If you can find them, I'll give you cash."
I've done a search on Google and found nothing.
Oh my brother has the game and I am pretty sure a gap is when you jump from like a ramp to another when there a space (gap) in between the ramps. I doesnt have to just be ramps either it could between benches or w/e. If you see a gap between 2 objects jump from one to another.
Hope I helped =D
okk .. if you shave your bikini line, and u get ingrown hairs that scar. are people goin to think you've had like diseases and be all grossed out because of them .. i dont know if i shood do stuff w/ my boyfriend because of it ... i dont want him to get the wrong idea or be like turned off ...
Giiiiiiiiiiiirl I know what you mean. Ingrown hairs, and razor bumps can be so embarasing, butif yourboyfriend ask, which I doubt he will just tell him what it is. I am sure he wont get grossed out. To help against razor burn and ingrown hairs try "Tend Skin" heres the site
http://www.tendskin.us/
here are some tips to avoid razor burn and bumps and all that stuff:
http://www.tendskin.us/avoidrazorbumps.htm
Hope I helped =)
For some reason I feel like I really want to have sex with my brother in law. I don’t know why but I feel very aroused by him. I’m 16 and I live with him and my sister and what can I do so that he will be more attracted to me.
It depends on how you normally act around him. Try so that just you and him can hang out, and obviously you need to look good. Try to look comfortable/sexy. Like some sweat pants and a tank top but let your hair down and if your planing on having sex with him that day wear really sexy underware (if you have a white tanktop try a black bra). Then talk to him in a flirty way and give a smile, not just any smile but a smile that he will notice your attracted to him. Then just play around and let your underware show a little but "by mistake" ofcourse. That should be enough for him to defenatly take notice of you.
If you need more advice feel free to ask =) and
Hope I helped =P
Is this necessary for a girl to remove pubic hairs? or it is enough to remove only from armpits as armpits are visible to any one. I also have hair around my inner hips are ( near ass hole)what about these? PLease advice.
It depends on what you feel confortable with. Obviously most guys perfer shaven but thats up to you unless you are planing to show off that area to some one it is not necessary to shave. My rule would be "If your going to show it shave it" lol but thats just me some guys go for the natural look. You can also make little shapes or whatevevr you want with your pubic hairs like a heart or a little line or a V or w/e , It really is just up to you.
Thirteen Female; My life feels boring but its not at all. There is something seriously wrong and I have no idea what it is. I use things as escapes like reading writing music sometimes even pot but those things ware off while I'm in school. I have no clue what’s wrong with me. I'm always frustrated, tired, tense and sketchy. I have tons of friends and my family life is perfect with the acceptation of my father but I can't blame everything on him. I know what your thinking-shrink. But see I’m not aloud to go to a shrink because of my father and issues so what do I do. My friends are all upper class richies who could never understand. I feel as if everything I do is inflicting pain on me and I can’t stand to even breathe anymore. My friend went to a hospital for depression but she’s fine. I just want to know what to do because all this makes me so out of it all the time and I really miss my friends and family. See there a rip in all this though because when I'm with this one guy I forget everything and I am all myself but at the same time I can't remember what I have to tell him but that's okay because he makes me feel okay. This is also a problem because we talk less and less every day so now I’m like dying. I rate high. And I really am not insane. Believe me.
I dont see why you cant see a "shrink", you dont have to be crazy its for people who fell as if "There is something seriously wrong and I have no idea what it is" Youc ould have depression and you need to find out why. If you feel like that there is obviously something wrong. Once you find out what that it is you can start to feel better, Depression runs in my family so I understand you. I know you are not insane other wise you would not know there was something wrong, you are very sane but you need help and I really would like to know why you cant see a shrink please tell me so I can help you.
My boyfriend and me are on sports.. He’s on baseball and I'm on softball and on Friday after my game we are going to take a shower together in the girls locker room not having sex just taking a shower together… and I was wondering what I should do because I’m scared he’ll be the first boy who ever saw my body… EVER!!
my questions are..
-what if his mom is looking for him(his mom works in the school)
-what should i do with him in there
-what if my coach comes in
I’m 15 and we’ve been going out for a while now.. About 6 months and I just need to know what to do.. Thank!!
Well first of all you need to make sure that nobody comes in there at that time, stay one day for awhile and see if anyone comes in, I guess there would be some people that clean the girls locker room. And if his mom is looking for him I am sure she wont find you guys in the locker room. Just incase when you are going to leave you step out first and make sure the cost is clear. But honestly really think about it, make sure you really like this guy and that you will be comfortable with being naked around eachother.Also remember this is a guy and you never know. You dont want to put yourself in dangerous situation if he wants to do more than just take a shower. I am almost sure he will try to do more but now that I am done preaching on here is some advice.
* It is normal to be nervouse but try not to act nervous, try your hardest to relax
* Before you get ready to go to your game make sure you shaved well (lol)you do not want a hair patch on the side of you leg. Look at yourself naked in the miror and repeat these words "Damn Im sexy" (lol) it helps boost your confidence.
* And basicall just be cute/ sexy. Flirt a bit (as much as you feel comfortable with)Tilt your head back and let the water run over you hair look at him smile ect... If there's soap or w/e help him wash off, and kiss. It all depends what you are comfortable with.
* If he wants to do more dont be afraid to say no. You should never let him try to convince you to do something you dont want to do. And any way heres a good line just in case "I dont want to go that far in a situation like this/ I want it to be safe and intimate when we do that."
Just have fun but be careful, if youd o get caught they might let both of your parents know, and word gets around fast and you might get labeled as a slut.
Hope I helped and if you need more advice feel free to ask. =)
hey, my grade is going on a trip to canobie lake park. i want something cute to wear. im thinking a skirt, some type of tank/cami, flipflops, and a bathing suit. does anybody know any good places to go ESPECIALLY FOR THE BATHING SUIT. links would be great = ].
Holister or Abercombie and Fitch are great places to go shoping for the look you are going for. I lub those stores =), I heard also Aeropostal, and Pac sun are cool.
Hope I helped
hello everyone. Im 14/f/cali and i have a friend that is very close to me with a problem. she told me that her left breast is a b cup and her right breast hasent grown. she wears a padded bra on that side but this makes her so sad and i want to help her . she has already been to the doctor. it still hasent grown (1 year after)have any of u heard of this or have it or HAD it? any advise will help! I will grade you high . thank you so much.
I saw this on a Tyra Banks Show episode. Your friend should wait until she is older because they could even out, but sometimes they dont and she will have to get surgery, either way she would have to wait until she is 18. But the girl on the tyra banks show had a worse case and she was like 20.Your friends problem doesnt sound that bad, but the only thing she can do is wait. Mean while make sure she see's her doctor regularly., and be a good friend dont bother her about it or randomly bring it up.
I want to be a pyschiatrist. I HEARD you need 3-11 years of internship! That means i wont be starting my life until like 30! I want a family by then! How do i find out or if someone else knows how long a real internship is?
How many years of schooling, and etc. Any good information you think would be useful to me would be great
I am o sure but this site will help you:
https://cp.bridges.com/choices/work/Learn.do?id=2910660&inPlan=
the whole site is full of good info just look to the left the tell you a sumary of the job, what they do, skills you need, money they make ect...
Hope I helped
What's the song that goes, "Because I see some ladies tonight that should be hangin with JAY-Z, JAYZ." I couldn't find it on google! I'll rate highhh.
It is called "Excuse Me Miss"
Artist: Jay-Z Lyrics
Song: Excuse Me Miss Lyrics
Heres the lyrics if you want them:
(feat. Pharrell Williams (Neptunes))
[Intro: Jay-Z]
You can't roll a blunt to this one
You gotta, you gotta well, ya gotta light a J
You gotta puff a J on this one {*inhales*
You can't even drink Crist-OWL on this one
You gotta drink Crist-ALL
Buy some red wine, a little Gocha 9-7
This is for the grown and sexy, uhh
[Pharrell - over the end of Jay-Z's intro]
You're so contagious, I can't take it
Have my baby, let's just make it
Ex-cuse me; what's your name?
[Jay-Z]
Yeah, can I get my grown man on for one second?
Cause I see some ladies tonight that should be hangin wit Jay-Z, Jay-Z
(Pharrell: So hot to trot.. la-dy!)
Excuse me miss, what's your name?
Can you come, hang with me?
Possibly, can I take you out, to-night
[Verse One]
You already know what it's hittin for
Ma I got whatever outside and you know what I'm sittin on
50/50 venture with them S dots kickin off
Armadale poppin now, only bring a nigga more
Only thing missin is a Missus
You ain't even gotta do the dishes, got two dishwashers
Got one chef, one maid, all I need is a partner
to play spades with the cards up, ALL TRUST
Who else you gon' run with, the truth is us
Only dudes movin units - Em, Pimp Juice and us
.. it's the Roc in here!
Maebach outside got rock air
PJ's on the runway, Young got air
I don't land at a airport, I call it the clearport
Therefore, I don't wanna hear more
back and forth about who's hot as Young, holla!
[Ph.W.] Sex-cuse me... damn!
[Ph.W.] You're so contagious, I can't take it
[Ph.W.] Have my baby, let's just make it
[Jay-Z] I got my Gocha 9-7 on right now
[Ph.W.] La-dy..
[Jay-Z] You gotta puff a J to this one
[Jay-Z] Can't roll a blunt up to this one boy
[Ph.W.] You're so contagious, I can't take it
[Ph.W.] Have my baby, let's just make it
[Ph.W.] Ex-cuse me; what's your name? (AOWW!)
[Jay-Z] Cause I see some ladies tonight
that should be rollin wit Jay-Z, Jay-Z
[Ph.W.] So hot to trot.. la-dy! What's your name?
[Jay-Z] Cause I see some ladies tonight
that should be rollin wit Jay-Z, Jay-Z
[Ph.W.] You're so foxy girl.. you're so hot to trot..
[Verse Two]
Everybody's like, "He's no item! Please don't like him.
He don't wife 'em, he one nights 'em!"
Now she don't like him, she never met him
Groupies try to take advantage of him, he won't let 'em
He don't need 'em, so he treats 'em like he treats 'em
Better them than me, she don't agree with him
She's mad at that, he's not havin that
So those opposites attract like mag-a-nets
She sees more than the Benz wagon, the friends taggin along
with a flashy nigga braggin on the song
She gets a glimpse of Shawn and she likes that
He 2-ways her, so she writes back
Smiley faces after all of her phrases
Either she the one or I'm caught in "The Matrix"
But fukkit, let the +Fish-burne+
Red or green pill, you live and you learn, c'mon!
[Ph.W.] Sex-cuse me... damn!
[Jay-Z] You gotta throw on your fine linens for this one
[Ph.W.] You're so contagious, I can't take it
[Ph.W.] Have my baby, let's just make it
[Jay-Z] You might go, you mighta gotta go get you some Scooby Doo's
[Ph.W.] La-dy..
[Jay-Z] Gotta throw on ya Scooby Doo's; those are shoes by the way
[Ph.W.] You're so contagious, I can't take it
[Jay-Z] Gotta throw on Scooby Doo's, hehehehe
[Ph.W.] Have my baby, let's just make it
[Ph.W.] Ex-cuse me; what's your name?
[Jay-Z] This for the grown and sexy, only for the grown and sexy
[Ph.W.] So hot to trot.. la-dy! What's your name?
[Jay-Z] Woo!
[Ph.W.] You're so foxy girl.. you're so hot to trot..
[Verse Three]
Love let's go half on a son, I know my past ain't one
you can easily get past, but that chapter is done
... but I'm done readin for now
Remember spades face up, you can believe him for now
But ma you got a f'real f'serious role
I'm bout to give you all the keys and security codes
Bout to show you where the cheese, let you know I ain't playin
But, before I jump out the window, what's your name?
[Ph.W.] Ex-cuse me; what's your name?
[Ph.W.] So hot to trot.. la-dy! What's your name?
[Jay-Z] Woo!
[Ph.W.] You're so foxy girl.. you're so hot to trot..
ok well i drink slim fast i wanna no if it really works and if it does how long will it be before i see results thankz i rate 5s :]
I heard it is not good to drink slim fast. It migth work but it isnt good for your body and you will probably gain the weight back. You should learn to eat healthy foods and drink lots of water, you loser weight the healthy way, excercising will make you lose weight faster.
14/f. So my best guy friend is Tyler. We always talk on the phone, and are always talking to each other, and are always with each other. Of coarse, people started rumors that we were either going out or that he liked me/I liked him. They didn't really bug me that much because I knew it wasn't true and just shook it off and continued to talk to him. But when two of my friends asked him if he liked me and had a whole conversation with him about me, he stopped talking to me. He said he needed to think things through and asked me if it was ok if he continued ignoring me for the next two days. I said it was ok, but it was obviously not. I knew the only reason he was not talking to me was because he didn't want people thinking that he liked me. So on the second day of not talking to him, I lost my temper and yelled at him for not being able to shake off these rumors and that if he was really my friend he wouldn't let them bother him and he would still talk to me. Now I feel bad and I try calling him but he won't answer...I have no idea how to act tomorrow or what to say. Please help.
I RATE HIGH
Well he might actually think that you like him so if you have called many times then stop calling! If you haven’t, then call one last time and say that you are sorry for getting so upset at him, and that you were just mad because you are not used to not talking to him, then tell him to call you when he thinks its ok. Tell him that and don’t call him anymore after that or you might get him annoyed and then he might not ever talk to you again. It could take maybe a day or a week or two before he calls but he will so be patient if you see him say hi but then leave, if he wants to talk he should be the one to start the conversation. And when he does, apologize one more time and then talk to him, NEVER YELL, if he says something that upsets you tell him that you understand but (being really nice) then tell him how you feel. I am sure you 2 will be best buds again though it will feel a little awkward at first. So good luck And hope I helped
Hi..I'm getting married in August and I was wondering if anyone knows any dvd's that are great exercising videos..i will rate high!
CONGRATS!!!
and try Winsor Pilates (I think thats how it is spelled) It is great not only is it a great work out that will make you kinda sore the next day but it is actually relaxing. You should really try it. Tae-boe is great if you want to lose weight around your tummy do tae boe with one of those thingies you put around your stomach to make you sweat more, then the next day do pilates. Switch it up and you'll get in shape quick. I suggest eating healthy foods like fruits and veggies so you'll look great and feel great.
dear sir/maddam
could you please help me to find out what i could use to make my legs fatter because they are very skinny compared to other parts of my body.
thank you
Easy take a protein shake, then grab some weights in your hands. Now Just tipy toe up(keeping your legs straight), and then go back down. This excercise should help your legs get bigger, and you shouldnt want "fat legs" if you are a little over weight dont just work on your legs, do some pilates and then do leg excercises. Thats the only way unless you go to surgery wich is pretty risky.
Hi my name is yousif and i need some advice.Ok here's the thing..i like one of my cousins who is also a twin..they are almost identical but i can know which is who and naturally i like one more than the other..this is probably my biggest crush so far(i hope you dont think its weird to like your cousin)..the problem is i donno if she likes me back..i see her once a week in my granpa's house(we go to different schools and have different friends)..and when we do see each other we r always in the same room with our relatives(including our parents)..i can tell she is the shy kind..sometimes i stare at her(i cant help it) and she knows it but she always looks away or to the floor..im not worried about other guys(especially strangers)because she rejects guys she dont know(im not saying shes a coquette)..anyway can u plzzz help me know if she likes me back without having to make a move or do something funny in front of my relatives..im running out of people to ask and im more desperate for an answer than ever..she just looks damn good even without makeup(couldnt help writing it)..thank u
Hey sorry I got your message so late but you have a serious issue. I don’t think it is weird at all but a relationship with your cousin would not be very healthy. And if you two do go out the family will not be too happy about it, on top of that if you break up imagine how horrible that would be. I suggest you find someone else. Anyway almost everyone has that hot cousin, most people ignore it. I know you must feel horrible but try and find another girl. If it doesn’t work out and u still like her then there’s only one thing you can do.
*You have to talk to her, this is a big step and you have to be ok with the fact that she might totally freak out but I help you with how to avoid that. As far as knowing if she likes you, you should have an idea. And if she notices you looking at her does she look at you too? Just look out for signs. You really should have an idea though. If you think she does talk to her.
***Tell her you need to talk to her in private, don’t straight out tell her either, say something like
\"(Her name here) ummm what do you think of me? \"
She will answer something like
\"Uhmmmm...your a cool kid... I guess\"
She obviously won’t say she likes you, that is when you have to say something like
You: \"just a cool kid right\"
Her:\"huh? \"
You: \"well do you find me attractive? \"
Then you will hear one of these answers
Either: \"uh yea I guess\"
Or: \"what are you talking about your my cousin\"
If she answered the first one say: \"look I feel really weird about this because you are my cousin but I think I like you. \"
If she answers the second one make something up like: \"because there’s this girl I like and I don’t know if she would find me attractive. \"
Please answer me back based on your age I can tell you what to do, a younger girl would take things differently.
And I really would like to hear how things went, whatever happens you will still need more advice; either on how to move on, or how to make the relationship work.
Really hope I helped
When i was 6 i was put up for adaption..and i lost touch with all of my brothers and sisters. Well one of my 5 siblings was also put up for adaption after me. I recently found her on myspace and i sent her a message..and im nervous like she was on today and i sent her a message but she dosent answer its like she dosent even care..what should i do??
much lovee
lila
Don’t jump to conclusions; she probably just hasn’t gotten your message. Also she could have been trying to answer back but couldn’t, this could happen if you profile was going under "Routine Maintenance" this happens to all profiles and it sucks, but just be patient if a week passes send her another message maybe she didn’t get the first one.
Hope I helped and good luck =)
well my ex and i went out for about 6 months and i got really attached and then she broke up with me at the valentines day dance. well i still have strong feelings for her, but she has a b/f now and im really missing her. well she says she is missing me back and she says she still loves me, but yet she wont brake up with her current b/f to be with me. im starting to fall in love with one of her friends from soccer but i still love my ex more than her friend bu tim getting the feeling my ex is just making up that she misses me, and i told her if she doesnt brake up with her current b/f for me im gonna ask someone else out, but she doesnt know that its her friend from soccer that i like. idk wut to do. plz help me.
If you people broke up, you broke up for a reason, and she has moved on. I would definatly not suggest going out with her friend, especially if they are good friends. Forget about her and her friend, find someone else, and if she does still like you she will come crawling back, then it will be your turn to decide wether to forgive her or not. And if she doesn't come bak she wasnt right for you in the first place.
Hope I helped and if you need more advice feel free to ask.
how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)?
There is no right or wrong age, you will know when you are ready. As long as you are old enough to know to use protection and as long as you find the right guy that you trust. Then its ok but if you have to ask, chances are your not ready.
so as most of you know i WAS in a relationship with a abusive guy and i told him that i want to break up with him..and he brok two of my ribs...and gave me a cuncution...:-(
but on the flip side hes goin to juvey!! and i realized (thanks to ALL of u!!!!!) that he was an a** hole. plain and simple..and all i get are threatining letters/phone calls..but what i am afraid of is his friends. his friends stick by him 100%..and my house got TP (toilet paperd) and lilke a dead rat was on my door step (says my mom) and like i got threating letters in my locker saying "bitch if u tell ill kill you" or "we know you told hoe, were ganna do what jake did" (jake rapped me.)
so PLZ help!!!!
These guys are threatening your life! You have to call the police and no one will call you a baby for it, trust me this is some serious stuff and these guys are a**holes! Im glad you got away from that old boyfriend, stay away from these people and never be by yourself. They gave good advice here by saying to take the notes as evidence. Dont ever communicate with your ex, EVER, if he calls dont accept the calls. Just get to the police, you have to make sure nobody will hurt you again, you sound like a great girl and you are very brave. Dont let these a**holes ruin your life.
please get back to me and tell me how everything went, I wish you the best of luck and Im sure everything will work out just fine.