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18/female.
just wondering, can someone just go right into having sex? i know i get really wet really easily so foreplay wouldnt be necessary for me BUT i was wondering about the guy? i'm not into the whole foreplay thing, so i was hoping that we could just go right into sex but i don't know if thats possible!? (link)
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thats depending on the gurl when you guys start to get busy take control and go right for it see what he says and what he likes because some guys dnt like four play as well and maybe glad they found someone who feels the same i hope i helped goodluck
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I like this girl that goes to my sckool and stuff we have alot of classes together we talk and stuff and she invites me to go places with her friends but i always say no because im scared to go somewere with her friends and i want to know if i should go with her or what should i just ask her out pls help me (link)
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eighter hang out with her and friends and see how it goes or casual ask her to hang out with just the to of yu hope i helped good luck
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17/f
Helllpppp!!! I have what I think iss a water bubble underneath my left breast. I don't even think is a water bubble but it feels like it..anyways its quite big & it looks pinkish & the thing that scares me the most is. IT DOESN'T HURT. Which means it could be a cyst..I don't want to tell my mom because I'm terrified of what it is myself.. (link)
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i know your scared to find out what it is but what if it gets worse don't you want to find out what it is instead of being surprised? and hey i could be nothing i think you should go get it checked out and be smart about it hope i help good luck
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my boyfriend and i were laying in bed together, and i gave him a handjob. he didn't ejaculate, but he almost did.. soon after, i was laying in the same spot where he was with no underwear or anything. also, he fingered me after. i've heard of something called "pre-cum" and how it could get you pregnant, so is it possible that he could have "pre-came" and it could have gotten on me from the sheets or his fingers, and i could have gotten pregnant? (link)
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yes pre cum can get u pregnant but please do not worry there wouldn't be enough pre cum on his fingers and he couldn't go up deep enough so dont worry but if your worried try to be more careful hope i helped
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Ok, i have been talking to this girl since the beginning of the semester this year at college. We met in our english class. I have developed feelings for this girl. We hung out last week and had a really good time. I want to hangout with her again this week. If we hangout do you think that it would be appropriate for me to try and kiss her? Why or why not.
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depending how shes acting if shes acting more as a friend tred carefully to make her understand that you want more but if shes flirty and you think shes into you sure why not if the mood is good and timing you could kill it. and look at it this way if you kiss her and she lets you good than your in there lol but if she doesnt let you kiss her at least you know where her feelings lay and if she still wants to hang out than take it slow so eigther way your going to get you answer
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15/f
I am dating this girl Lexi and I really don't want to lose her. I have done some things recently that aren't good choices when I wasn't with her. She knows what I did though. And I think that they scare her a little and she is worried that I would do something like cheat on her or break her heart. And I love her from the bottom of my heart and my whole being. I couldn't stand to lose her. She's already almost left me once because our best friend Tuesday made her believe that I was going to leave her for a guy. I had to convince her other wise, and I was scared the whole time. Do you have any advice on what I should do to help her trust me and help her believe I won't break her heart? (link)
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yes stop giving her reasons to not trust you or giving her signs that you want to break her heart silly trust is one of the hardiest things to gain but the eaisest to break think about that i hope i helped good luck
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18/f
Okay so my boyfriend and I were having sex and the condom broke... he never came or anything, but im still scared. I'm not on birth control or anything. He tells me not to worry because he didnt cum, but its there a chance the pre cum can have sperm in it? Should I go take plan B, or just calm down? (link)
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ok hun yes pre cum can get you pregnet and if ur really worried take the plan B test but relax dont worry your self for nothing when you worry you start psyching your self out and its a mess this has happened to me before and i was fine if he didnt cum than you have a better chance ok. i hope i helped good luck
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my boyfriend and I recently had sex it was my first time so i was on bottom. Next time he wants me on top but since ive never done it before id like to know what exactly you do and if there are tips in making it a better experience for him. (link)
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ok so when ur on top of him rock back and forth in a circluar motions and do what feels good to you if u want to go slow than go but if you want to rock there world go the pace yur gonna prob want :) lmao i hope i helped good luck and go get him
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ok so im in college and i was talking to this one guy and we really hit it off and his friend liked me but the guy that i was orignally talking too does him alot so i said whatever and i really started to like his friend and well we talk and all but sometimes he acts like he likes and than doesnt he told me he liked me before than when i was trying to talk to him he tells me he doesnt like anybody but that same day he invited me to hang out and he made a move im so cinfused what do i do drop him or do waht hes doing i dnt want him to think its a booty call (link)
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wow its strange how were in the same position so im going to tell you what i did when he made a move i told him why should we do this if you dont like me and he confused to me that he did like me and i told how i felt i said dont play me and we got into this whole big thing but i would talk to him seriouslly and tell him to stop playing mind games remeber when yur being serious he will be serious let it see where it takes you, and if you feel you go no where after that than drop him gurl you dont want to fall for a lost cause . good luck and keep me informed and ill help any way i can
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I have known this girl for about 5 years, and she considers me her best friend (not necessarily mutual). I have been noticing some things I do not like about her. I'm 23 and she's 22--it's been happening since right when we were younger Now I am very easy going usually and I can talk a lot too, but she is not very polite about things like when she talks she interrupts ALL THE TIME. She also seems to act like just because she goes to the gym now she is the prettiest girl in the world--she's always acted like this before, but it's even more now. I don't go to the gym and am a size 6--I am curvy kind of like the shape of Kate Winselt and I am very proud of it and love it--my bf does too:) She has said things, since going to the gym like "Oh yeah, didn't you gain weight? How much?" Just because I made the mistake of mentioning it. Now, this does NOT make me insecure about that I look like-- I want to get that clear, because I really love my body size 2 (like I was) or size 6. I find it kind of fake that she brings it up like she's curious though. I feel like she has other motives and that is what bothers me about it.
Also, she seems angry when we go to this bar and I always get in free. She said to me on the phone the other day "It's cause you dress sexy." I dress in black dress pants and short sleeved tops (I'm actually quite conservative for my age) when I go out, so that was an excuse! She then told me the same door guy said to her when I wasn't out with her one time, "Oh! I should have let you in. You're lookin good!" I didn't see the pt of that, since I don't brag that I always get in free, even dressed in a classy way, I just get in and when someone asks I say I don't know how much it is cause I didn't pay.
It seems that she needs to make some excuse for me getting in like she said one time "Oh cause he's a white guy." Cause I am white and he is and she's Hispanic. I guess I am giving this example, because it seems like she always has to be on top when it comes to her friends, and when she isn't she will make excuses for why someone else gets male attention and she doesn't, when she usually does all the time.
She even does this with little things. For instance, out in public she always nags me to go to the bathroom with her--which I have always despised--going to bathroom in groups. She will then cut in front of me if I am in front, even if I have a good lead on her to where we are going. It's like she always has to be "on top" figuratively and literally. I don't know what to do, but it is getting on my nerves so much I think I will blow up soon at her. I mean, she is a good friend, whenever I was in a bad state with my bf she was always there for me, but this is making what good things she has done seem less and less important (link)
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i use to have the same problem shes jealous shes not comfertable with her body and you are so she trys to bring yu down to make herself feel better honestly tell her how you feel and if things dont change its just goiing to get worse you knw what imean i kno you dont want to be mean but shes having major issues and if you dont adress them than nothings going to change yu know i hope i helped let me kno if you need any more help with this beleive me i kno good luck oh and p.s im glad you dont let her bring yu down because when you do than shell do it worse
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So, I have this friend whose parent's are really strict and kinda dumb at times. My friend tells others that I'm her best friend. And everyone keeps asking me if its true. So i tell my friend not to go around telling people im her best friend. She embarasses me infront of her crush. My friend is kinda disgusting. She keeps a cat at home and the litter box is INSIDE the house. this is like a wild cat. My friend kisses the cat and its kinda disgusting. My friend leaves food (cheese) on the couch for the cat to eat..and the cat sleeps on her bed...CAT FLEAS AND GERMS SPREAD. My friend also teases people about their names and their skin color. I laugh at this..but inside i know that this isnt good to laugh at. She think of me as a good friend. But I don't really like her. And I can't tell her anything which will harm her. My crush used to HATE me coz of her. My friend farts and she lies and say its the cat who farted. it really stinked that time.
-.- anyways...i don't really like being her friend. but i dont want to show/tell her anything that will harm her...Her parents are really strict too.. (link)
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ok hun im going to tell yu something yuo dont want to hear but you know its true. why are talking to her than you being 2 face alittle lean away from her yu know drift away yu dont want her as a friend yu dont have to tell her anything just drift away and if it doesnt work suck it up and tell her because its not fair to you nor her hope i helped
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My friend Jessica is Going out with Jason. Jason's Friend told Jessica that Jason had a lot of girls from nearby cities in his phone, and their numbers. He talked about how Jason always talks about them. Later on that night, Jessica calls Jason using a playful voice...she then realizes that he can't tell that its not her voice!.......so basically, it seems that her boyfriend is talking to girls without her knowing or flirting with them and all that. Jessica is my friend and i really care about her. When she goes to school tomorrow, what is a good way to confront her boyfriend about the whole situation without putting jason's friend in out there and without making it look like she was trying to trick him? (link)
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if ur friend already knows hun thats her choice shes the one being played and just tell her to confront him but dont use any names just be like "are you talking to other gurls i already know the answer so answer wisley" than let her decide if she doesnt know tell her u dont want it blowin up in yur face besides theres plenty of other fishes in the sea i hope i helped good luck
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Hi. 17/f.
I never had sex with my boyfriend by hee might have touched his agaisnt mineee but he never camee.
its been 32 days and i stil haven't gotten my period.
and my stomach is feeling weird..and i feel nauseous.
what could this mean? am i getting it mixed up with period symptoms??
please help me, i'm kind of freaking out. (link)
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gurl let me tell you that has happen to me so many times and ive never got pregnant stress can stop your period just try to relax and wait another week i think your be fine my period came 3 months late one time and i took 2 home pregnancy test and i was good so i wouldn't worry bout it he didn't cum ok if he has a lot pree cum than thats not good but i dout its enough 2 worry hope i helped
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22/F
So I just saw my ex last night for the first time in a month. When I first saw him he hugged me and wouldn't let me go. We ended up talking and I kissed him he kept turning his cheek because he doesn't want to hurt me...but yet everytime I kissed him he turned red and start his nervous giggling laugh. A one point his "soldier saluted". We turned our break up into a "break"...I want to find ways to make this work we are both in love and right now that we're not together we're just content and NOT happy!
Any suggestions? (link)
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than whats stopping him and whats stopping you obviously you guys didnt do enough talking if you want to make it work find out whats wrong and how it can be fixed and i hope it works out i love happy endings hope i helped
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so i had this boyfriend about 3 years ago, B. B and i seemed to get really close but after about 2 months, he ended it, saying he wanted to go out with someone he could see more often. i was really really upset about it for a while, since i was going to give him my virginity. but after a while, i moved on. but it took about 2 or 3 months.
now i have another boyfriend, M, that ive been seeing on and off for about a year and a half, mostly on, though. and when we're off, it usually doesnt last too long. we love eachother like crazy and have had sex many times. im glad that i have him and have never felt more close to any other guy. but M and B are best friends. and sometimes B will come over and hang out with M and i, and i guess things are ok between us now. our history together is basically buried and none of us have brought it up for several months. we dont see eachother that often now, but when we do, i find myself starting to like him again. but i really dont want to. hes turned into the most arrogant person ive ever met. hes naturally a flirt, and when he and i are around eachother i start flirting with him and i get really horny and start fantasizing. but again, i dont want to! i dont like him anymore and i love my boyfriend, so why is this happening? (link)
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he was your first you had deep feelings for and he ended it and there was no closure so maybe you never got over him like you thought you did and now that you see him he flirts and gets you going to play with you silly hes arrogent and your just proving his point be strong and be care full dont let something good pass away because your hormones got in the way your playing with fire and if your not carefull you could get burned
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so I have been with this boy for probably like 2 weeks.
but im wondering when we should kiss?
we havent yet, and he would be my first.
any suggestions on what to do?
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do you feel chemistry to kiss do you want kiss him ask yourself those questions first and if the answers are yes than go for the kill he may thank you lol hope i helped
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Long story short, I talked to this girl everyday for a couple months over the summer, and when she moved back to school I asked her out, only for her to say it was complicated because of an old relationship. She never straight up said "no," but that's basically the jist of what she said. Anyway, our conversations started to dwindle a bit right after that, it was a little awkward. But we kept talking, and we're back to talking nearly everyday now, hanging out on the weekends, etc. I'm nervous to ask her again, but here's my question. Girls, if a guy said he liked you and you didn't like him back, would you keep talking to him? She knows how I feel, and yet if she doesn't feel the same way why would she talk to me? (link)
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the same reason why guys do it/ ok but it could be 3 things ok
1.) if she doesnt like you shes talking to you because you make her feel good and wanted thinking if she ever gets lonely your always there sort of her back up you shes probley insecure and needs to have somebody shes using you OR
2.)ok how does she treat you does she treat you as a freind and you miss read the signals or does she touch the border line and lead you on if so its number l if not maybe she thinks you guys are just friends until its made clear OR
3.) she could of releaized that you would be the better choice and shes comin around opening up.
but depending on how shes acting if shes talking and flirting to other guys i would be forward i know its going to be hard but it'll be worse and do more damage if you fall for her completely and she not even stumble say " Listen we've been talkin and flirting just to make sure were on the same page What is this" OR "so are we just talking like a friend or are we talking talking" But if she doesnt flirt and gives her attention to you mostly than be more gentle you dont want to rush her or pressure her you just want to know whats up. so something like jokingly say when she says or hints something to you joke and pull one of these. "If you dnt stop i may start to think you like me" and give her a cute smile. hope i helped you and remember its not what you say its how you say it oh and body language says alot lol sorry wrote so much just wanted to cover every aspect good luck
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hi im a senior in high school and i live in san jose and and for college i want to go to school in san diego (its either university of san diego or san diego state) but my grades are 2.3 ish and i haven't taken my SATs yet im thinking if i should go community college in san jose or san diego to transfer, my cousin lives in san diego so i could live her. Which option is better?
A.) go to community college in san jose for 2 years and transfer to UCSD or SDSU?
B.) go to community college in san diego and after 2 years transfer to UCSD or SDSU?
which one is better? and why? (link)
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ok honestly i had the same problem it depends how you are if you think you could go to a 4 yr skool right away more power to you i would pick going to San Diego for the your major get all your bull crap classes done itll be cheaper and give you a good feel of the college setting and how the work is done and studies show kids who go to a community college usually suceed better than just going to a four year so good luck with whatever you choose i hope you helped and chances are your a senior and havent took your SATs you mostly wnt get into a four year skool this semester it takes a few months for them to grade it and if you go to a community you dont have to take your sat i beleive good luck
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What to wear to an interview at hooters? What would YOU wear? (link)
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wear something sexy and duh show some cleavege show them why your hooters material look sexi but not like a porn star lol go get them
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Can anyone give me a good example of sexism in advertising? An example would be either an article or a commercial or video link
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oh there every where expecially the commericals for vigra male enhancers for axe for radio
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