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Gender: Female
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Age: 15
AIM: MiSZ BUBL3GUM XX
Member Since: February 27, 2005
Answers: 66
Last Update: April 14, 2005
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hey... im 14/f and i weigh 91 lbs. and ppl think im aneroxic and when i say im not they say im belimic! and im not and think that making urself throw up and not eating is gross. i eat all the time like almost everytime u see me i have food in my hand haha and i can eat something and say im full and then like an hour later i'll say im hungrey again. I have a fast metabolism and i really wanna try n gain weight, my new years resolution is to get over 100 lbs. so please can someone help me on trying to gain weight! thanks bunchez (link)
Well my friend iz the same way n itold her to eat alot of those popsicles that are funge i think they called fungicles i dunno and she did during the summer and she goianed about 5 pounds and the average person a day eats up to 2,000-2,500 calories a day so if you want to gain wait you eat 3,000 calories or more


14/f
My boyfriend and I have been going out around 3 1/2 months. I really love him so much. I want to kiss but the only time we ever see each other is at school. The rare times when we are actually alone we don't take advantage of it. we can't seem to talk romantic or get in the mood. Sometimes I really want to kiss him but it would be so awkward since we weren't even being romantic. He wouldn't expect it so he'd probably pull away or sumthing. I'm too scared to talk to him about it. Please help me! (link)
Well it seems like you guys are ready to kiss but i think he is kind of to shy to also but since you dont spend alot of time try to spend more time and a good time to kiss him iz maybe in a movie that is kinda of romantic


Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
Ill rate high!
PLease Help!!!
*Overweight?* (link)
Girl please you do not way to much and if u lose 10 more pounds you would look aneracent(dont know how to spell... but if you really do want to lose weith do a lot of sit ups and crunches and walk alot and run alot and try cutting down on the chunk food and soda


My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him? (link)
He might be to shy about it and if he does love you and you love him you shouldnt be to shy to say anything....or maybe he just wants to take it slow


okay - two of my best friends have boyfriends (total geeky boyfriends, but boyfriend non the less) anyway, during the week, like in school and stuff, they are all like making plans with me for over the weekend and stuff, then the weekend comes, and i call em, and there parents tell me they are out.. well.. the point to the story is that they are lying to me all the time, its bugging me.. they tell me that they dont spend enough time with them and that they always spend time with me, when in all actuallity, i only see them at school.. i mean.. i dont have a boyfriend, and i feel like because of it, they dont want to hang out with me anymore.. anyway, this weekend, we were all supposed to go skating, and they told me like 10 mins before skating begins, they call me and tell me that they want to be alone with their friend.. my mom drives by this local park later that day, and sees them with they boyfriends (friend 1 with friend 2's bf wrestling and friend 2 with friend 1's boyfriend wrestling) they consider THAT a date.. i ahev tried to talk to them about it, but they always get mad at ME!! HELP!! (link)
Well maybe if you just tell them that you only ang out with them at school and if they keep lying to you,you could just forget about them because if they lye to you they are not good friends


Im 17/m and here is my problem. Ok Im a senior and prom is comming up soon. Well I have two people in mind to ask out. The first is in my class and I know she likes me. I kinda like her but not as much as she likes me. The other is in 10th grade. I like her but I dont know if she likes me. So now you see my problem. Help please.
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First ask out the one that you like the most so when you go to prom you would be happy with your date but if she says no you will always have that other girl to ask


Does anyone know where I can find one of those tshirts that say "I need a hug" or something like that?? Or does anyone know where I can find any other cute tshirts that say cute stuff like that?? I've been looking for them for like forever and I cant find any!! Thanks!! (link)
Ok, this might seem funny if you dont go there but if you go to target they always have a lot of shirts there with cute sayings...or you can go somewere like an amusement park and get a customized one


Hi! I just bought a pair of Etnies...and didn't watch the salesgirl lace them. I switched the laces and was wondering if anyone knew how to lace shoes straight across in bars, aka not crisscross! Thanks I'll rate high if it works!! (link)
I know how to but im sorry i cant explain it on the computer


ok. theres this boy in my 2nd block class and i have never talked to him before, although i think hes waay hott. sometimes whenever the teacher says something funny or they play some weird music on the bulletin, we always turn around and look at each other and laugh. its like we have known each other for a long time and we're friends...but we have never talked before! The other night I dreamt that he talked to me and the next day he actually did talk to me for the first time! i joined in on the conversation he was having with my friend. he didn't say much to me, because I hadn't said very much, but it was a start. i don't know why though me and him look at each other a lot! and we laugh too! we don't even know each other, hes a complete stranger to me, but when he do that and look n laugh, i feel like i've known him forever! my friends think he likes me...is that even possible? i'm terribly sorry this is soo long! i'll rate VERY good i promise! sorry again!

~ Wondering if there's a "connection" ~ (link)
He could like you but if you feel like you known him for a long time evan though you didnt you might like him to and not evan know about it and there could be a connection or maybe you could just be friends


ok.. i put on my base and the rest of my makeup..and my face just seems shiney, like its reflecting the light. I have no idea what that means or how i can make it not shiney..any ideas? (link)
So it wont be shinny in stead of cream or whatever use powder


this is kinda long so bear with me! :)

a lot of the friends i made were from middle school and we've been friends throughout high school. the thing is, they were a-ok people in middle school. but when high school rolls around it appears that they've changed into hypocritical, outspoken, dramatic, and selfish people. don't get me wrong, i'm not exaggerating nor am i taking things out of context. if you met them, you'd know! take for example a girl who makes fun of the fat people in our school, when she weighs 200 lbs. a girl who complains and whines over an A- on a test. someone who cannot accept the fact that they are wrong. someone who doesn't make any effort for your birthday, or christmas, when every year you get them something.

because of their "new" personality traits, i dropped them because they did not fit my basic ideal aspects in a friend anymore. and whenever i find a new friend, in the end they end up betraying my trust, using me for money, or being just plain inconsiderate to a point that i cannot tolerate anymore.

note, this has happened with nearly 95% of the friends i've had my entire lifetime...

i'm not a bad person for them to be obligated to do such things, but i do admit that i can be a little too trusting and naive at times. is that what they're taking advantage of, or is there something else...? why would they do this to me?

also, because these experiences have given me a new perspective on friendships (not to trust people so easily!), how do i know if i can fully trust someone and that they will be a good friend??? (link)
I have a best friend and i love her so much sometimes i feel like i dont trust her but i know that she will never lie to my or tell anyone my secrets so you just have to feel like that is a good enough person to trust and if u cant trust them make it so they cant trust you


okay here's the deal : i'm from a girls sch , about 50 of us have been selected for this programme where we will combine with this all guys school and learn together and stuff . We will be going over to their school . the thing is , there are about 150 students in that boys school under this programme at my level .Even though we won't be going there until next year , this thought still freaks me out cos it's like there are going to be so many guys there , and they're all going to think i'm weird and stuff cos i wear glasses and am going to get braces soon . i heard these guys are pretty mean and they tease girls who aren't gorgeous and make fun of them. I am not that bad looking despite my glasses and stuff and am slim and long-legged .okay so the question is : how to fit in ? how to look better with glasses and braces ? just don't tell me something about being myself and not caring what others think cos everyone knows that thats pure bullshit . (link)
Wel first you could wear contacts so then you dont need your glasses but there is no way i could help you with you braces braces look good on some people and if they still make fun of you dont listen to them


ok im startin to like a gurl and i want to get to kno her more wat r sume good convo starters and things to ask and talk about?
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Youcould ask her her favorite movie, singer, whens her birthday whats her favorite color...ect...


i went out with this one guy at the beginning of the year and we went out for 3 weeks and then i dumped him and then he still liked me after that so he gave me a necklace for my birthday and then i went out w/ him again because i liked him again and then i dumped him again after 2 weeks and now like 3 months later i just realized that i still like him and the reason i dumped him before is because we talked more and everything wayy more when we were friends but i really like him again and now i'm like totally sad that he's going to be going out w/ a girl that's 2 years older than him and me and him are the same age..but idk how to tell him that i really like him again..because he keeps telling me that he never got over me and he still likes me a lot but now he's gonna go out w/ another girl..what should i say to him because i don't wanna go out w/ him again because i don't wanna risk the dumping situation again but i wanna be that friends w/ benefits type thing..how can i tell him that?? (link)
Just tell him your true feelings..If he isnt to shy to tell you..you shouldnt be to shy to tell him and this could be your only chance to get him back


I'm looking for girls with any make-up tips to give!!! ANYTHING helps. Also I'm looking for someone who's willing to send me pictures of themselves with some neat eye shadow looks and tell me how to do them. Thanks (link)
Well first you need to try and see what colors u look good in(dark or light)and u could i.m.at...piinkbabii781xx or..xobabigurl781ox me and i could give you more advice and some pictures


if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
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No alot of gurls make out with each other but that doesnt mean they are lesbians and it was a dare that means someone told you to do it not that u wanted to do it


I dont even know where to start. I'm 19/f I've just recently lost my job, me and mom are arguing all the time now i've just lost my boyfriend (He does say hes not sure what he wants, his hearts telling him to stay then his head and family are saying leave) He has dumped me though. I cry all the time and feel down. How can i pick my self back up i dont want to be depressed. I do have a history of self harm and dont want to go back. Please please help. :-( (link)
I am usually depressed alot to but then I went to a mental health consilour to talk to about that stuff they really help and then you could tell someone how you feel or maybe you could make a journal with all your thoughts


me and my boo have been going out for 2 weeks we love each other alot and we really wanna make out!!
but how do i?

please help (link)
I cant tell you how to kiss you just have to let it happen n let him do all the work


How can I get my breasts to be bigger without implants. 14/F. (link)
To tell u the truth i dont kno how to do that but maybe if u drink alot of milk and eat lots of chocolate but then that would make your butt bigger to


i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
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Tell him how you feel because he might feel the same ay but he could be shy about it to. And if you dont say nothing he could start going out with that girl liz and then you and him might not have another chance together.




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