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My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them?

You should confront your friend & ask her why she's flirting w/ your guy. Say that it bugs you & that you wish that she'd stop. If that doesn't work, either try hooking her up w/ a guy or else maybe it's time to end this friendship. Hope that helps!

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ok im the girl who had a problem with a guy being....obsessive about my butt. well i hit his hand away and stuff like that did everything that u guys tld me to. i even told on him about i guess sexual harrassment because i was in spanish and we were taking siestas and he came and layed on me. well none of the teachers see it cus hes "slick" so they wont do anything about it. i dont want to go like file a suit and sue him but like i do want him to stop. hes going to my hs so i figured he'd stop because there will b plenty other girls for him to....run after. but i want to kno wut i should do about the school not helping me.

You should report him to the principal.

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Does anyone else have flashbacks about things they regretted doing or things other people did that unnerved you? I have never done LSD or anything like that. I know they aren't real. It doesn't keep me from doing things, but it makes me shrug sometimes in reaction to it.

I have tons of those. Like the other day, I was just sitting around watching MTV and then I all of a sudden had a flashback that was about when I was like 5 years old.

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hi..im 14 and i still havent even had my first kiss yet. Nor even a boyfriend...ive been asked out before and i just get to nervous to respond. Also, i dont know what to do when im with a guy. Like when i liked this one dude and i sat by him on a charter bus and he was holding my hand and i just was like freaking out and i didnt know what to do...i turned around...what do i do??

**tHaNkS**

It's ok that you've never been kissed or had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed either, and neither has my best friend. And we're 14, too! Anyways, I'd just have to say try & be comfortable around guys. True you can't act like u do around ur girlfriends, but just try to be outgoing. If a guy holds ur hand, just smile & keep holding it.

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If you stop eating will the size of ur boobs and ur butt go down and im just asking???>????

Yeah. My friend stopped eating & she used to be really curvy. Now there's nothing to her.

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When i was 7 my brother and i sucked each other's dicks and felt each other in the ass and we both liked it. we did this like every night and one time we were caught. we still do it anyway. now im 14 and so is he (were twins). is this normal?

Dude, that's messed up!!!!!

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I want to get a thong. I am almost 12 and my mom says I am too young! Whenever I ask her she said "Hell no Jennifer! How many fuc*ing times do I have to tell you?!" How can I convince her to let my buy one without her getting mad and yelling at me..... AGAIN!!!

You shouldn't buy one behind her back, because I know from experience that it doesn't do you any good. I bought a thong behind my mom's back, and she somehow found out. She got mad at me for not telling her that I bought one. So I'd just say that you should ask your mom for a specific reason why she won't let you buy one.

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i have blonde...little bit lower then shouldner length hair. its kinda shaped like a mullet. but cuter lol. and it goes diagnol from the bangs to behing my ear. anyways.. need a way to style it. and im not poor but my family is having a bit of money problems right now...where can i get cheap clothes that still look really "cool"? i wanna look good 4 my soon 2 be boyfriend and i really really need some new clothes lol. well, thanks 4 any help! bye!

Some good places to buy cheap & cute clothes are JCPenney, Sears, Target, K-Mart, and even Walmart. You have to look really hard to find something at K-Mart, though.

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HERE IT GOES!!
I answer Questions but its time for YOU to HELP me.
I know this guy "Keagen" and I totally like him! I THINK he likes me but I can't be sure! I don't know of I should tell him how i feel or not. we can't date til' were 16 but thats not the problem. I mean we have been alone togather before and stuff but its hard for me to really know. when i think of him i feel as if im floating and there is nothinkg better in the world than thinking of him! i have this feeling at pit of my stomic when ever ithink of him i can't get rid fo it! i think of him even if im trying not too! when he see's me he is allways watchinkg me and when he looks at me its different then when other guys look at me. his voice sound TOTALLY different when he talks to me. its like he is be EXTRA sweet to me! and he is guy that goofs off ALOT! i just don't know what to do! last year i sent him a valentine marked and "the cat" well the next time he saw me he said "hello cat" well i lied and said that i didn't send him a card but when told him that his face just fell! like he was dissapointed! so I REALLY need some advice! PLEASE help! should i tell him or not? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sincerely
KATHLEEN

Tell him how you feel! He might like ya back!

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my friend ........ likes me and i dont like him and i heard from my friends and alot of other people that he is going to ask me out but i dont like him. i dont know what to do i dont want to go out with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings because he really likes me and a laot of people say i should go out with ........ but i dont like him what should i do ????????

OMG that's like the same thing that happened to me tonite!

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Ok, everyone thinks that I have the perfect life. people are always telling me that i am a dumb blonde who never has any problems. They think that i have always been rich and always have been perky and all that stuff. That is not my life storym there is so much more than that. How do i get them to understand without telling them that i had a bad life?
Blondie

Welcome to my world. Everyone thinks that I'm totally perfect, like I'm just a ditzy blonde (even though I'm a brunette) with no problems at all. I think you should do what I did a few weeks ago, and that's to show that you're not perfect. If you mess up on something, talk about it. Be happy that you aren't perfect!

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Ok. I'm going to go to a murder mystery dinner party thing, and I have no idea how to play. Could someone briefly explain how you play? I'm worried I'll make a complete fool of myself and ruin the game...

Ask someone how to play!

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is it a bad thing to fall asleep while ur babysitting a 3 yearold in summer while thre in a pool?

~>confused

Uh duh!

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Why do women whine about equality but still expect guys to pay for stuff and open doors and all that crap?

Only the bitchy women do that.

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I'm not really a social person, even though I do like having friends. The problem is that sometimes they call me up and I just don't feel like going out, and they get all insulted about the fact that I'd rather curl up with a book than party with them. I have a lot more "me" time than the average person, and I like it that way, but they don't get it. I've lied to them about other stuff going on but feel bad about that. How can I tell them I'm not in a going out mood without hurting their feelings?

Maybe you don't know the feeling. You should go out more, instead of hanging out at home. Too much alone time is bad for you!

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What's a good way to meet new people?

Some good places are dances, raves (if you're old enough), the mall, and school, definitely.

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The radio station I listen to cranks out the cheesy pop tunes until I'm ready to explode some one/thing. Does this give me permission to send them hatemail until they play some REAL music? (and it is the only radio station in the area, besides classical)

Well, sort of. You could just send them a letter, asking why they don't play rap, rock, or whatever kind of music you like.

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About the girls ask guys out thing, won't the guys think that the girl should pay for the movie ticket if she asked him out
*confused*

No, guys usually try to pay, for some odd reason.

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Who's better?
Britney or Christina

Personally, I like Britney more. She doesn't dress as sleazy as Xtina, Brit has a more classy style. Xtina has a great voice, but she's just dissing everyone these days, including some of my favorite artists.

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I want to dye my hair blue... no... I MUST dye my hair blue! bright blue! the problem is that I have dark hair and I've never dyed it before and I think I have to bleach it blonde first then dye it blue for the color to show up. Is that going to ruin my hair and make it all crackly and nasty?

My friend dyed her hair blue, and she has naturally dark hair. She got it bleached, and then dyed, but my Mom, who's a hairstylist, said that they can do it w/o bleach.

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