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What are some signs (big signs and also just the little ones) to tell that your ex boyfriend likes you again?

Please help :)
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some signs are when he buy you flowers,call you late nights,do romantic stuff or look for things that he did when you and him were getting together,BUT DON'T ASK HIM OR TELL HIM THAT HE WANTS TO GO OUT WIT YOU.for more advices ask me at bekoe1994@yahoo.com


I'm about to go over to my boyfriends house tommorow, and I need some tips on what to do that will really turn him on. I mean I'm not planning on having sex, but I wanna make him hot. any ideas?

oh yeah, and please don't say "smile a lot" or "be sweet". I want to know some actions to do. thanks (link)
you could like squeeze your boobs from time to time,touch yourself in a sexual way,smack his ass,touch his penis.


I understand what you are saying but is their a dating website for people my age. I am only 13. I'm not in the 18's. (link)
yes there is.chatavenue.com or myspace.com,bebo.com,xanga.com,bloggers.com.i tried chatavenue.com and its great.


Okay, so I really really like this boy James. But he hates me. For no reason! Omg. Hes so sweet/cute/fine and I really like him. People try to convince me he likes me but I just know he doesn't. I know this sounds dumb and all but I started cutting myself just because I think my life was horrible [in my opinion] and now this to make it worse! I cant stand It but i like him so much. I want to stop cutting SO bad because its really not the right thing! Please help me with suggestions to stop! I really dont wanna ruin my life by a stupid mistake I made.


Sincerely,
Bloody Wrists. (link)
you should first stop cuttin urself,tell james how you feel and if he doesnt like you just find someone else to like.


I need a girlfriend and I am shy around girls. Can someone give me advice on how to meet someone. (link)
i have friends that have the same problem one suggestion is that you be an online dater.you should go to match.com 0r chatavenue.com to find your one true love.i have another suggestion-you could go up to the gurl and somewhat ask a question or make a comment.if you need more advice e-mail me at bekoe1994@yahoo.com


sorry if its a little long.

Me and my best friend always fight. Like i know friends fight and stuff, but not like us. We are always yelling at each other. Well when we fight i just get mad at her but she gets REALLY mean. She will start sayin all this bad stuff about me and it really hurts my feelings. I dont think she understands that. Like today we got in a fight. she wanted me to go somewhere with her and i was like well im gonnabe honest and not make up a lie, i just dont really feel like going. Thinking that because i was telling the trush she would be like okay. But instepd she was like thats stupid your borring im gonnna invite someone elese your missing all the fun and like rubbing it in and all this stuff. I dont understand her and it makes me mad. I dont wanna keep fighing like this. what should i do? (link)
you need a new best friend,it might be hard for you but that what it boils down too.your friend doint think your exciting,fun and nice anymore she probably gets tired of you.she takes advantage of you and it seems like you use to take her orders before and now you tell her something she dosen't wanna hear like the answer "no".


Hi. My name is nickie. I'm 13 yrs. old and still haven't had my first kiss yet. There's this guy i really like and i'm goin to his b-day before the summer's over. I really wanna have my first kiss, and I'm pretty sure he likes me because we flirt all the time. Do you think I should go for it? (link)
i think that you should get to know him better rather than tryin get your first kiss and not sayin that isn't great,just get to spend sometime alone with the bouy then flirt and a then focus about the first kiss.


Well me and my girlfriend have been going out two months on the 23 of this month and i'm trying to think of some good gifts that won't cost a fortune(i'm 13 she's 13, low budget)
I was thinkin of gettin her rose's but i'm not quite sure if i should get her anything else.
any suggestions? I'd apreciate it
Thanks (link)
roses are not enough you need to buy her a gift basket with sweet chcolates,a picture of you an her,of course roses,hearts and other things like jewelery.


okay it's true, i'm practically in love with my bestfriend, j.c. what should i do if we're separated and have different teachers. i mean after all he's still my bestfriend. and i don't have his number, so what? (link)
so just don't show your feelin when you are hurt about jc.if this advice do not that mean i tried my best.


Summer is what i've always loved about my life, but now it's the worse, see i need school. yeah i know this sounds crazy but i do. see i have this friend, he's my best friend and i've known him since i can remember. His name is J.C., and he's now all i can think about. People used to always ask if we were bfs and gfs but we always said no. we tell everyone that we're like brother's and sister's to eachother, but people think that we're secretly dating, but we're not. well it was the truth. even though we acted like it. we would always sit by eachother and tell eachother everything. We would make up nick names for eachother, not gushy ones though. We even told eachother that we are the best friends anyone couls ever have. I've known him ever since i could remember. Well everytime i hear stuff or see couples or hear sappy sounds, BOOM he pops up in my mind and down comes a frown. I'm hoping he's in my homeroom this year, and i don't what to do if he's not. What should i do if he's not? Am i in love? Does he love me? Do i like him? Does he like me?

Please help. (link)
okay i have the same problem too with this girl name shakira-the exact same problem.if j.c is not in your homeroom next year of course you will feel hurt but try not to show it outside then the rumor about jc and you will continue.yes you are in love with your best friend.if you have his number try to pretend its someone else and ask him if he like you,and others that you feel like askin him.try not to talk about yourself too much then he will find out its you.try to discise your voice.the main idea of this is that you are in love with your best friend.if you tell him face to face that might ruin your friendship forver.


i've got a broken leg and it has to stay in a cast for weeks. I mean, ages! Im stuck with not a lot to do so im just eating loads of rubbish and im worried im gonna get fat.

how can i exercise so that i dont put on loadsa weight without actually hurtin my leg real bad? (link)
try doin situps,stretch you arms and the other leg.thise may not help so try eating foods somedays.


I have been dating 'Fred' for 3 weeks now. We normally talk every day for like an hour, but recently Fred has been very 'busy'. Once he just didn't want to talk to me and other times he just had some stupid excuse. He never calls me back or anything like that. I haven't seen him in a while, either. He says he is not mad at me or anything like that, but for some reason I get the feeling that he is avoiding me. Am I overreacting or should I actually say something? Because I honestly don't know what's going on, and I can't help but be slightly worried. (link)
there is two things fred his probably doing.he is propbably cheating on you and don't want you to find out or he just need time away from you.try just leave him alone for a while and see if he will start back callin.if three months pass by and notin then he is defintley up to something.




say I like this guy, and I do, I think he likes me too. I mean, he sends all the right signals and we flirt a ton. But Im friends with his younger sister, his best friend hooked up with me awhile ago, and we are on the same swim team, so theres a few obstacles ffor you. I want to make some sort of move. I dont know what though. He gives me rides home and stuff and we also go out to eat after most practices. If anyone had any ideas...that'd be great. (link)
continue doing what you doing make him feel what your fellin by doin sey things and start flirting with him.ask his sister liltle things like how many girls have he been goin out with.then after some time not too fast tell him what you are fellin


When I was about 13, I decided that I never want to get married and I still feel this way and believe that I will always feel this way. I guess it does kind of reflect on my family because both my parents have been married multiple times but it isn't just because of that. It seems as if married means nothing anymore to most people (not all people, I know). So I don't know, people are always telling me that not all marriages end and that mine doesn't have to be all bad like my parents and I know that but I just dont see myself getting married. Does anyone else feel this is way or am I alone? Please don't tell me reason why marriage is so great and how if it's the right person it'll work because I've heard it all before. 17/f


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a fw weeks ago i said am never goin to have kids.i noticed that alll kids are not he same.the people who tell you not all marriages end the same are right so i think you should get married when you have the chance because gettin married might reslove all your problem and expaned life.


Hey all. Well, I'm 14/f and I'm going to an all-girl Physics camp this Monday. I was wondering how to introduce myself, start up a conversation, and make friends with other people because I don't know them and I don't want it to seem weird and creepy. I'm known as being friendly, and I want to keep that title. Also, I'm about to enter high school next month, and I would like to use these tips for that as well. I would also really appreciate it if you guys could give me topics to talk about because I don't like awkward silence. Thanks a bunch! (link)
okay these are accurate answers!!.tell them things you like to do for fun,tell about your family.always have a smile on you face.tell what great foods you like,what movies you like,what boys you like.don't be too noisey.examine everyone by being quiet.watch all the girls see how they interact with others then after a day start makin friends.


Ok... I am in a bad way. I am constantly telling myself something is wrong with myself... I have a disease, or I have cancer, or something worse, and it spirals. I can never shake these thoughts, when I know in reality that I am simply a normal, happy, and healthy human being. But, because of these thoughts, it has been noted that I am slowly spiraling into depression, when I seem to already have a bi-polar disorder, and I have been told that those two do not make such a hot combination. I really wish I could stop these thoughts, and get my life back on track. I used to do all these activities... Almost every sport I could get my hands on, student council, energy club, drama camp... and I just suddenly dropped out of everything. I want my life back... Anyone have any ideas on how to stop these thoughts and maybe stear me back to my old life?

~Savanna (link)
you probably need a thrapist to talk to now and then to share you feelings and everdaay thoughts.you nee to set goals for yourself if you are dropping out into everthing you try.if you or when you pass your goal reward yourself.


I've liked this guy for about 10 months and he went out with me for sympathy because he felt sorry for me. Should i just give up and move on or should i keep trying to get him? (link)
you should just move on with your life.he probably don't like you and your wasting your time.


I have been going out with this guy a few states away, he calls and we instant message. the fact is, i really do like him, just not how he wants me to. he is 2 years younger, and is uncumfortable with talking about love and stuff,i still want the freind ship, and i still like him sort of, but i want more, wht should i do!?! (link)
look just tell him the truth.thats one option.the is just go along with it and when he tries to flirt just quickly change the subject.




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