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hello, i have so many pimple like scars in my bikini line. i don't know how to get rid of them. i can't wear any bikini bottom because of that. are there ways to remove these, any home remedy also.

for my scars i use retinol. I've been on it for awhile and its working great, but my scars are still there so i cant tell you if it will get rid of them all the way or not. Its a prescription only medication that you can get from your dermatologist. They'll probably wanna see the scars though which might be kind of awkward! If you can't go to a dermatologist, then there is over the counter stuff that you can buy. I tried scar zone and that doesnt work very well for me. I also tried miderma (i don't know if i spelled that right) and i wasn't on it for long enough to see if it worked or not because it's so expensive. I dont know of any home remedies but i guess you could try putting concealer over them. Although if you're wearing a bikini you'd probably be going in the water, so it would have to be waterproof.

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I am looking for an ipod stereo for Christmas I have found one that i like so far, but i want the perfect one.
Things i am looking for it to have.-
Plugs in to wall
Charges ipod
Plays c.d.s
Nothing big just plan and simple
Between 20-30$
Black
load speckers
So my question is- what ipod stereo do you have why do you like it were did you get it from, blah blah blah thanks:)

I have an ihome. I got it awhile ago, but when i got it it was a lot more than 20-30 dollars.. maybe 100. I got it from best buy. I like it a lot because it's also like a fancy alarm clock and you can set it to make you wake up to your ipod instead of an obnoxious beep. You can also have it play your music for like an hour and then have it fade out as you're going to sleep. I'm pretty sure it also comes in black. You can play cds with almost any ipod stereo as long as you have a cd player. there is a cord that you can get that has like the headphone jack cords on both sides and you just plug one into the speaker and one itno the stereo. It's pretty loud, but it's small so it's not ridiculously loud. I don't think you're going to find anything small with loud speakers that charges your ipod for only 20-30 dollars :-/

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me and my boy friend have bin together for near enough two years weve always fought through evri thing together and stayed strong but i asked him if he truly still loved me he sd yes but then sd its different between us and its best for me if were not together he says im young and beautifull and should live my life but i dnt think he understands i want to spend it with him he keeps saying it will be best for me is he just trying to break up with me nicely wb x

I'm not totally sure exactly what your asking so just to clarify: Are you asking if he's just trying to be nice about breaking up with you or if he's just doing whats best for you? or something along those lines? haha I'll answer that and i'm sorry if its totally not what you're asking lol

I'm not exactly sure how old you are or what your romantic history is. I'm guessing that you're about my age from the way you write (no offense or anything haha i write the same way) But yeah I was in a pretty similar situation and I can definitely see where the guy is coming from. I had a boyfriend from the middle of sophomore year to the middle of my senior year of high school. I loved him so much and I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and blah blah blah.. but the problem was that that was my first serious relationship so i didnt really have anything to compare him to.

I think you should listen to your (ex?)-boyfriend. If he's just breaking up with you because he thinks its whats best for you, then you can date other people to get an idea of what you want in a romantic partner, and if after you date a few other guys and still think he is the one, then you can go back to him and live happily ever after. If he is just trying to break up with you in a nice way, then he doesnt want to be with you, and he's kinda pussying out (no offense to him) by not being honest with you about his reasons, so you shouldnt be with him anyways.

I don't really know what he's doing because i've never met him but my guess for most guys would be that he might have gotten a little bit scared if you told him that you wanted to be with him forever and just made an excuse to break up with you nicely. For this guy though, since youve been together for about two years and you stayed strong and what not, he might be just looking out for your best interest. Or maybe he wants to date other people too to find out if you're the right girl for him.

Hope that helped a lil bit!

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I'm a 17yr old female,at home on a break from school.I'm very idle n need advice on what to do with my free time.

I'm on the same boat as you (idle 17 year old girl) haha. But yeah here are some things I try to do when i have free time instead of just wasting it online or whatever:
1) I sometimes like to stretch. I want to be able to do a split so i sometimes work on that in my spare time.
2) I do fitness stuff. I think you're supposed to get a minimum of half an hour of cardio exercise a day to maintain a healthy heart so that's half an hour right now. I also do crutches and wall sits and push ups to get more toned
3) call a friend! It's nice to just hang out with your friends sometimes even though its not the most productive way to spend your time
4) paint your nails or put on a face mask or something. It's a nice way to kill some time and it will make you feel pretty :)
5) I know you're just talking about one break so i dont know if this really applies to you or not but I like to volunteer in some of my spare time. It looks good for colleges and it feels good to be helping out a cause you believe in
6) again im not sure how much this applies to you since you're just being idle for one break, but you could try to get a job.
7) read a book. I know it doesnt sound so fun but if you find a good book it isnt so bad and i find that time goes by pretty fast when i'm reading. It also makes you sound smarter if you can like reference a book in a conversation.. haha! and you'll have a better vocabulary too.
8) If all else fails and you're really bored and have nothing to do, watching movies, watching tv, or playing computer games is a nice way to make the day go by faster than just doing nothing. Sims is a personal favorite of mine haha

I dont really know if you're into the same things as me but I hope this gave you at least some ideas on what to do with your time.. good luck!

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So I've been having sex with my boyfriend and everything is fine. We have done missionary or just me on top, and there have been no issues.

But if we try a position from where he is coming from behind, it's extremely painful! I feel like he's pushing into the front of my belly [like a painful cramp]. No matter if we go slow, fast, nothing changes. It just hurts.

Any idea why???

maybe try arching your back more. Not like a cat when it's scared but the opposite of that. I've never had pain while doing that but it feel sooo much better if i arch my back. haha but hope that works for you. Good luck. Oh and also maybe if he has a rather large member then ask him not to put it all the way in and see if that hurts any less haha

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how do i know if have got a wifi conection at my house so i can get facebook on my ipod touch

if you mean your own wifi network, then you would know because to have one you need a wireless router. So wireless internet is the same as wifi. If you're talking about stealing a wifinetwork from your neighbors (which is sooo annoying so you shouldnt do it) then look on your computer for all of the wireless connections and your neighbors ones should show up

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Yesterday I was going through Facebook groups the contains my high school, and I found of a group of a graduated class from the 90s or so.
Curious, I clicked it and went to pictures.
There was a picture there of someone in the hallway of my school back in the 90s, way before we had a ton of renovations and stuff like that done.
It looked so empty compared to today.
And now I've become a bit obsessed with finding pictures of the inside of my school from the 90s or older to view.
How can I find more? Because I looked at all the groups on Facebook and no other group has anything.

Asking my principal would be pointless, he's a mean old grumpy man who keeps EVERTHING hidden and a secret.

I know at my school they keep a record of all of the yearbooks in the library. There wont be photos specifically of the school but there will obviously be photos with the school in it. Check to see if your school does this. If not, maybe you could ask a teacher or something whos been there for awhile.

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During the summer, I met this guy. And for months we have been hanging out, and our relationship is growing very strong. The problem is, I'm 14, and he's 17.. And he's leaving for university next year, so we've decided that we're not going to become boyfriend and girlfriend, just be a couple.. Well, the thing is, he wants to go all the way with me.. And I don't know if i'm ready! I'm still a virgin and I don't know how I can be sure that I trust him enough, to know he's not just using me for a piece of "skin" please help!!

I'd say that if you're having these doubts, its probably better not to. I wish i waited for a guy who really cared about me. If he's 17 and your 14 and he knows you're a virgin and he doesnt want to be your boyfriend then my guess would be that he just wants to bag a virgin. Especially if he's like pressuring you into it. I guess I have a pretty negative view because of my past experiences though so he might have totally good intentions. See what happens if you say you dont wanna have sex.

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Ok so I am a guy and obviously I know what climax is for a guy but what is climax for girls? What happens?

(Can you tell I am a virgin?)

Thank you!

haha thats kinda a hard question because it's really different for every girl... like some girls will like cum and others wont.. and it's really not a question that only virgins ask.. haha i had a bf who would always have to ask me if i climaxed or not... i guess maybe the best way to tell is if a girl is all like worked up and moaning and her face is all weird and then she like shakes a lil bit and then relaxes haha.. kinda hard to explain.. sorry

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okay, i know that no one's face is perfectly symmetrical, but mine is so different on my left side than my right. my eye like droops down naturally or something and my other eye looks normal, and my eyebrows are different, too. no one has ever told me anything about it and i don't pay attention enough to notice in the mirror but when i see pictures of myself it's so noticeable. it makes me really self-conscious, is anyone else like this? or am i just worrying too much?

I have almost the same problem! Except with me its eyebrows and my nostrils and i notice it in the mirror, or on my webcam, not in pictures. No one else has ever mentioned this to me. Honestly, I dont think that people look at other peoples faces as carefully as they look at their own. I'm extremely self conscious about my eyebrows, but ive actually heard from other people that im beautiful! haha that's definitely a stretch but the point is that i'm sure its much more obvious to you than it is to anyone else. We're much harder on ourselves than on others haha

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I am thinking about how things will go when I have sex and I know it hurts when you have sex for the first time, but I really want to know: did you have an orgasm the night you lost your virginity??

Is it possible if it always hurts too?

i did :) but not from sex. The guy ate me out first and it was amazzinnggg. You should have your guy do that for you because it will also probably make the sex hurt less since you'll be relaxed and wet.

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Hi i am a guy and I am going to be having sex with my girlfriend soon but i need to know something. how fast do girls orgasm? I don't know how long i could go for since it is my first time but i want it to be good for her.

it really depends on the girl. Some girls can in like a few minutes and other girls it will take half an hour or more, and some girls cant even orgasm at all.

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what is the order of sex? like does a guy have to be hard to have sex? when a guy is hard do you have to give him a blowjob? should a blowjob happen before sex?

um yeah a guy has to be hard to have sex. and most guys will probably expect blow jobs before sex but its not like its impossible to have sex without giving a guy a blowjob. Oh and you can give a guy a blowjob even if he's not hard.. but he prob will be haha...
and i guess the order is like kissing, groping, taking clothes off.. hand job/ fingering.. oral.. and then actual sex haha or something like that
hope that helped

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Where can i find pictures with questions for facebook?
so i see on my friends profile, i get tagged in pictures where it say " how did we meet" or " what if i died today, what would you tell me"? ... Where can i find a link to stuff like this?

i dont know where you can find a link, but go to the picture that you're tagged in that you want to use and if you're on a windows: right click and do save picture as or something like that and then you can upload it to facebook. If you're on a mac, then just drag the picture onto your desktop and then upload it to facebook

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for people who get really wet when they're turned on does sex for the first time hurt?

didnt hurt me.. but my hymen was already broken before i had sex so thats probably part of it. If you still have your hymen than its pretty much gonna hurt no matter how wet you are... being wet doesnt help having a guy pushing up against it until it breaks :-/ sorryyyy

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whats a girls bra size if she measures 37 1/2 inches around her boobs and 30 1/2 inches under her boobs...

thats about a 34c, maybe depending on the store a 34d, but you're really supposed to measure over not under. If you're wondering what size bra you should buy at a certain store, then go to that stores website and they should have a size chart and directions on how to measure. Like you're probably a different size at victoria's secret versus like any other store.

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I currently have about 28GB of photographs and need somewhere to store them. There will be more to come. They're saved onto CDs right now, but the whole thing is getting tedious what with CDs not holding very much. Would a 64GB flashdrive be a good investment? What else can you recommend? I'm hoping not to spend over a hundred dollars, but I'm willing to if necessary. I don't want to lose these pictures!!

a 64GB flash drive would work.. but it might be better to just go with an external hard drive. They're bigger physically, but they also will hold a lot more for your money.

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How can i make it so that i can go on two screen names at once? Every time I log on, i can only see one. I have a mac so i use AIM 4.7.

go to aim.com. sign in with your username and password that you use for aim. on the top right corner under your username it will say my account, click on that and then click linked screen names and add all of the screen names you want to be connected.

That should work. I have a mac too and it worked for me

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I know this isn't about sex but i didn't no what to put it under lol.


So I think Obama should have never became president
I think hi is an idiot.

So i want to know people who did vote for him why you did what were your reasons?
Cause if you think hes ganna pay for your bills and provide for you hes not.

I just wanna know everyones reason for why they voted for him or why you didn't vote for him.
Also a lot of people including me, Think he manly won cause he is black and i think if that is true witch i think it is i think thats wrong.
My resons are because I think racism is wrong and if people vote for him only because he's black just means your being racist. Now you might note be but your basing your decision on the color of his skin i and i think thats horriable.
I bet if he was a white man he would not of one or he wouldn't of one for the reasons he did.

PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS OVENSIVLY IM JUST SPREEDING MY OPINION ON WHAT I BELIEVIE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE OR THINK.

I totally agree with you. Theres no way he would have even been in the running for president if he was white. Which is very unfortunate. I'm not sure i would call him an idiot, but i'd definitely say that he's book smart, not street smart and he is way under qualified to run our country and has made very bad decisions and will probably continue to do so.

The only explanation that i have for him being president other than that he's black is the alternative.
McCain is VERY old, already slightly senile, he could easily get worse or even die in four years (what he would have been president for). And i think the possibility of sarah being president scared a lot of people. I dont know whether or not she was dumb, but she was a horrible speaker which kind of made her come off that way.
There is also the independent party, but the media was so mad at the independent party for letting bush win that they got almost no coverage and no one knew about them so it was pretty much impossible for their candidate (i dont even remember who it was lol) to win.

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(sorry i'm not sure if this is in the right subject but it seems about right) hi, i am 13 years old, i weigh 108 pounds and i am 5'8. about 4 months ago i weighed 153 pounds. everyday i force myself not to eat to a point where the hunger hurts so bad that i end up cutting my wrist just so i forget about the hunger pain. and whenever i do eat, its hardly anything and if i eat over about 400 calories or if i feel like i've eaten way too much i force myself to throw up (and i know that only bulimic people do that, but i dont binge like they do, only when i feel like i have eaten alot, and alot for me is like a pb & j sandwich). I really want to stop for me, and my friends all think that i am going to kill myself, i am so pale and weak and i really want to stop, but just the thought of eating and food makes me want to throw up. someone please please help me, i want to stop but i dont know how!

I know you dont want to tell your parents but i think you'll have to. It sounds like you're in a lot of trouble and that you really need help. Your parents have probably noticed that you've lost weight and look pale and dont eat so im guessing that they probably know something is up anyways. You should try to go see a psychiatrist. Maybe even talk to your school councilor before you talk to your parents if you're comfortable with telling him/her about that sort of stuff. But thats not a way to avoid telling your parents because im pretty sure that they're required by law to tell parents abou that sort of thing. He/she could help you find a way to tell your parents. Good luck!

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