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okay well my name is Kimberly a future model therapist here!!! i love helping people with there problems or helping them solve there own problems. i am 14 an i live in california
shopping is my life, and when i dont have a alptop i just get on the internet through my sidekick 3 when i am in the car driving to somewhere fab lol.i have long wavy surfer kind of girl red sorta brownish hair. i a skateboard, surf, playsoccer, run track, and im on the swim team. i love abercrombie and fitch, hollister is okay along with american eagle. love old navy's pjs and aeropastles pj's!!! pac suns clothes are awesome(volcom baby)love oversized sunglasses an ripped jeans. i hang out with guys and girls and have a crush on one of my guy friend -winkwink- lol i am very outgoing an random
peace out!!!
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my freshman year i got accepted to one of the top performing art schools in the nation for vocal performance!! i was so excited!! ever since i heard about it ive wanted to go....My dream ever since i could remember was to be a singer...when i attended school for the first few weeks i noticed that there was a music male teacher that i would always catch looking at me....about 2 months into school, he told me to stay after class because he wanted to enter a song id written in a major record label contest. I walked into his room and he told me to sit on the piano bench and he'd be right back. So i did as he said and got my music out and waited. When he came back he shut the door and locked it he said that he locked it "because he didn't want to be bothered with the janitors" so i didn't think anything of it, kinda thought it was wierd (music rooms are soundproof) but anyway, he sat down next to me and placed his hand on my upper thigh and said im so proud of the progress your making in my class, you're deffinately going to acheive your dream and go somewhere with your talent" he put his arm around my shoulder and acted like he was grabbing my music, and he pushed it off the side on "accident" so i bent down to grab it, and as i bent down he grabbed my butt. and i told him to stop. but then he sternly said, "if you want to pass the class and win the comptetion you'll let me do what i want. Trust me, you want me on your side. I can give you everything you want." I sat back down, giving him another chance, hoping he would stop, but it just got worse as time went on. Long story short, he ended up raping me.
When i threatned him that i would tell, he just said "do you really want to leave this school?? you're parents would take you out of here and you wouldn't get ot pursue your dream anymore." and after i thought about it i realized that i wanted to be a singer more than anything else, and this school would help me out so much. So i continued to put up with it...
This situation has been continuing on and off for about 2 1/2 years now. I haven't told anyone, becuase i don't want to run the risk of anyone finding out becuase then i wouldnt be able to go to this school anymore. I just really feel like i need to talk to someone, but i don't know who to talk to. I don't feel comfortable telling my boyfriend, bestfriend, or anyone whats going on.
What should i do? I want to continue achieving my goals, and the school helps out with this alot, but at the same time i want the abuse to stop. I'm sorry this is so long, thanks so much for taking your time to help.

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omg!!! tell someone!!!!
ya know if you tell the police they will arrest him an he wont go to the school not you
and then it will become a big story on the news an you'll be famous an once your famous there will be lots of opening for acting singing dancing all sorts of things(this happened to my cousin)
im am just so scared for you
please tell someone dont keep it in side
he will suffer an have his dreams crsuhed not you


ok so there is this girl im pretty good friends with and i like her alot but i dont know how to tell her. i dont talk to her too much in person, but i used to talk to her alot on the phone and i talk to her all the tiem on the computer. she leaves me little comments like "loser1 (link)
well since your shy try telling her on the computer like
say "hey um(her name)i sorta.. no really like you an i wanted to know if you feel the same way to"

now as a girl her calling you loser means she is toally flirting so i think you have a chance an dont be shy
you being shy around her is a major turn off to some girls


15/F
My dad is a coach for a basketball team. Well my dad and my ex's dad coach together. Well I think he likes me but I dont know. Today at lunch he came up to me and said something and i replied well you don't love me. He then said yes i do thats why i come to basketball practice and the games. Does that mean he likes me or is that just a response? Please help, anything and everything is appreciated!!! (link)
it means he totally likes you!!!!!


for my moms wedding, my present to her is that im going to sing .. does anyone have any good songs .. the wedding isnt for awhile but i want to pick a song so i can practice =] (link)
stolen-dashboard confessionals


13/f last night i think i interuppted my parents having sex. my mom yelled at me through the door because it was locked and i knocked on it. it was like 10:45 pm. my parents never go to bed that early and they never shut the door and lock it. is this a sighn of ur parents having sex?? im just curious and i didnt think my parents still did that stuff. should i ask my mom or should i just let it go?? its really bugging me!!! (link)
ew ew ew lol
anyway
maybe they were but really it doesnt matter
like you dont have to ask that is embarressing
if they were it is gross but you don't need to know
that is just my opinion
and if it bothered you just ask you mom
then if they were then ask if they'd do it like in a hotel or when im not home because its gross


Hey iam 17 years old and i have this really bad cussing habit that iam trying to stop.
How do i stop? (link)
i use to have the same problem but anyway
just replace the cuss with other words tht start with the same letter
like instead of saying F***
say freakin
hope i helped


I'm still not over my ex after seven months. It still gets me down. So does anyone have any sad/heartbreaking/makes you want to scream/that type of love songs? Anything EXCEPT rap and r&b. Thanks! (link)
goodbye to you - michelle branch
stoeln-dashboard confessionals
already over- orson
ever so sweet-the early november
waste my time-tila tequila

how these help


I like this kid.... lets call him *bob*...... bob had a gf but she broke up with him cuz he cheated on her...... lets call his ex gf marie.... and the girl he cheated with alex.....i don't know why but i still like him....all my friends say i shouldn't like him because what he did to marie but i still like him and he's really nice to me and alot of people say he likes me, and he's gunna ask me out..... should i go out with him? (link)
i'd go out with him i mean
you know that song listen to your heart
well listen to yours
dont just do what people think you should justbecause of what he did once
its not like he is the biggest player
of the school
an if he then just be prepared to be cheated on


is there any way to make my boobs grow? haha i know this sounds weird but.. yea thanks. (link)
you can never make them grow
well when you get older an your not happy with the size
plastic surgery
but try push up bras


some lyrics to this song are.. "we can write our names here in the mud" and i think it might go "with no one here to see it" [[along those lines]]

it kind of sounded like blink 182 but i dont think it was

if anyone knows this song name plz tell me!

thanks && hearts (link)
oh i know that song its on my ipod
The Refreshments Down Together


what are some songs about like friendship and love? and songs about like the beach or california thanks (link)
island in the sun-weezer
beverly hills-weezer
stars are blind-paris hilton
on the outside looking in-jordan pruitt
my lack of skill-the early november
chemical react-aly and aj
goodbye to you-michelle branch

all i can really think of now


female-
one day i'd love to have an advice column in a teen magizine. does anybody know what classes i can take in high school. and what classes to take in college.what requirements are their are for this job. i dont know what type of degree i need or anything. plez help. thanks (link)
i think journalism classes or phsycology classes


I started my period for the first time on December 3, and it ended December 11. Also, i was supposed to start again on December 30, because it was 4 weeks later. However, i haven`t started yet, and it`s been a week. is it normal for 5 weeks and a day to be between my periods?
Thanks. (link)
okay when you FIRST start
it might just happen one time an your next one maybe next month year or so
an once you get that second one you get ever month


what are ocean waves for your hair..pictures would be nicee. thanks :] (link)
try searching it on google.com or www.ask.com


i need some exercise tips; i want to tone my inner thighs, my hips, and majorly flatten my stomach. Thanks (link)
you should try to eat healthy things, excersise(run, sit-ups, crunches,exc.)maybe you should also join a sports team,(swimming,volly-ball,dancing, or gymnastics)and drink LOT AND LOTS of water! hope this helps!


Hi, I'm having troubles with my BFF. Every time I make plans with my other friends, and then she calls and asks me if I can play. Then I say I already made Plans with (Friend). She gets all mad. Sometimes I have to lie to her! What should I do!

P.S Write as soon as possible because I already made plans with one of my friends, and she might call me later!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:) :) (link)
tell her i have plans already and if she has a problem with it then deal.


Okay, this guy Karl in my biology class likes me, but I don't like him the same way. I mean he's a really sweet nice guy and all, but I don't know what to do. My friend told me that he likes me, and later in Bio. class i heard people her across the room talking with him and two other people about it. I pretended I did'nt hear anything because I was so far away. but anways, If he says anything about it to me, what should I do? I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

Also im female and 16 (link)
Say something like, if he asks you out just say that you are busy and leave it at that.i donno what you should do after that.


I'm really into making hemp necklaces and stuff. I have two pretty good necklaces that I have made. But....
My question is: Is hemp supposed to be itchy for a while untill it gets more worn in? Or could that be that I just dont have a good quaility?
Do you know any websites that have alot of different stuff about hemp, like how to's, pic's just stuff like that. Thanks alot! (link)
you need to get it worn in. then it won't be as ittchy!!


So my hair's really flat and im using that anti-flat sunsilk shampoo. I shampoo and condition regularly, wait for my hair to dry just for a little while then ill use the antiflat cream for my hair.

so my question is how do i use the products so my hair isnt so flat like what they show the girls in the comercial before using their products, or does is it just the shampoo that doesnt do anythihng? (link)
Try drying your hair.


We are working on a contest piece in choir. The song is called Dirait Ton. I have the song, but i want the lyrics. I can find them ANYWHERE! I've tried search engines,but all i ever get are french sites. Thank you sooooo much! (link)
Go to google.com and you will be on the web, stay on the web. Search Dirait Ton and in () write the song. It should work, but if it didn't then I'm sorry.




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