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What are some things guys do when they like a girl? Not like what they do to their girlfriend, but what they do to flirt with someone they like and want to notice them. Also, what do guys really like in girls. (Answer truthfully please)

Thanks in advance. (link)
well it depends on the guy. wish i could say more but i cant


Well I like a few guys. I`ll tell you about them.

Cameron - Hes sweet & cute but he likes alot of people. My best friend once dated him & still loves him. He will flirt with me & then flirt with somone else next period, its kinda painful.

Jesse - Hes a real sweet kid. & we dated once before. He was a amazing boyfriend but i broke up with him over somthing stupid. & now i like him again. He just got out of a realationship with one of my friends.

Kyle - Well he has never had a girlfriend before & i dont think he is boyfriend material but hes fun to be around.

* all the names were changed.

I dont know what to do. (link)
jesse. but talk to his ex before you do anything dont be blunt though. and tell her youre sorry.


What are some good excuses to get a guy's number or screen name that you like? (link)
just ask him. simple as that you dont need an "excuse" if he doesnt like oh well theres other fish in the sea.


I feed my gold fish fish flakes is it better to vary their diets or keep them on the one food substance. If it is better to vary their diets what are the different foods on south australia can you buy...

thanks in advance (link)
vary their diet. they can also eat earth worms and it gives them protein. (i talked to a professional about my goldfish)


hi, i was thinking of breeding my budgies, and was just thinking of making my own hand rearing food, just incase the parents abbandon them. im thinking ahead just incase. what do i need to put in the mixture? thanx if you can tell me:) (link)
umm thats something you ask a professional someone could tell you the wrong thing and the babies might die. find a bird breeder to talk to.


I'm the kind of girl who always though suicide was horrible and whoever even thought about it was physco. All my parents do is call me worthless and a f**king bitch and telling me to move out and my dad would even say he hopes I die. I get blamed for everything in this house and get told that I'm a lazy piece of s**t. They treat my little brother like he's perfect and can do no wrong. He can stay home from school when he wants and end up doing whatever he wants even though he stayed home. I stayed home on a 4 hour school day and now I'm grounded and not allowed to do anything. Everytime I want to talk to my mom about how I'm feeling she just goes on about how I'm a disrespectful b**ch and she tells me to move out. I told her I wanted to move out and now she won't let me and she said if I go anywhere she'll call the police on me and she'll send me away because she doesn't care. There's so much more to the story but I don't know what to do anymore. This has been happening to me for a long time and I cry at least everyday and I just want to kill myself now because I can't take this anymore. Does anyone have any advice? pleaseeee

15/f (link)
your being abused, verbally. dont kill yourself go to the police. they will take you away from that horrible place and put you somwhere where people will love you. lots of people are going to tell you that youre overeacting, but ignore them. you are NOT overeacting.


My best guy friend has recently unloaded all his problems; I found out his dad's cheating on his mom, his grandpa died (his grandpa was like his excape from his parents) his parents continuesly fight, his grades are slipping, and he's been coming to school with alot of bruises latley.

I don't know how to handle this. I really like him and I want to help, but what should I say to him? What should I do? (link)
tell him you love him your there for him whenever he needs. nothing is better than someone sweet. but you really do have to be there for him. give him your number and call him at least three times a week. unless he calls you. do whatever you can to turn him around...and talk to an adult about those bruises.



i am in desperate need of advice. i'm absolutely miserable. ok i really like this guy. i know he liked me last year & i was 99% sure he still did until my friend told me he was dating this girl.

here's the part i don't understand. when they walk together in the hall, she's talking and he looks so clueless and bored like it's taking all of his brainpower to not start drooling from boredum. when he sees me he stares at me. if he hears my voice when hes at his locker he stops what hes doing & looks at me. we flirt all the time, whenever i see him in the hall we say 'i love youu' to each other ... i dont know we are so cute i really thought he still liked me. sooo why is he going out with this girl? when my friend saw them at the mosvies together she said he didnt even pay attention to this girl, he was into the movie the whole time. he totally acts likes hes into me. wshat should i dooo ? should i give him the silent treatment or should i continue being normal like i dont care ?

also, i invited him to a party thing im having this month, should i remind him about it or pretend i never invited him ? (link)
i think hes trying too make you jealous. dont do the same it could make things worse. tell him you like that youre sorry and you dont wanna ruin his relationship. then walk away. if trying to make you jealous he will break up with her and chase after you. dont be mean about though ok?


ok well theres this guy at skool that i kinda been havin my eye on for bout the last month or so but im not sure if he likes me or not bc i only get to see him at lunch and somewhat in gym...like i sit with him and a couple other friends at lunch and occasionly ill just be randomly lookin round bc im done eating and im bored and ill find him staring at me but idk if hes staring or just zoning out and happens to be in my general direction...and he basicly picks on me somewhat alot...and at the last dance i wanted to ask him to dance but i didnt want to like freak him out or anything but i found out after the dance that he was looking for someone to dance with so next dance im planning on askin him to dance if hes single and all that...but like i mainly catch him staring at me somewhat alot and he kinda picks on me...so u think he likes me? (link)
Im in that situation too. hes probably trying to hide his feelings. im not promising anything. ask him to a dance the worst that can happen is he will turn you down. if he does dont let him bring you down. wow i should follow my own advice.


I'm a virgin and I want to stay a virgin until marriage. Don't get my wrong; this question is not about fighting perr pressure to change my mind. Actually, I'm worried about my friends. There are only 4 girls in my church youth group including me. The other three have all lost their virginity. (My youth group age range is 11-15 btw) One of them is a slut, mostly because she's gulliable and likes guys WAY TOO MUCH. Another one of them, my cousin, lost her virginity to a player, and now has fallen for another player, who is a guy in my youth group! He's the brother of the slut, and he's a manwhore, too. She's determined to make him fall in love with her, even if it means using her body to tempt him. She made a video for her of herself acting sexy and talking dirty. Luckily she hasn't given it to him yet. Now, outside my youth group... One of my long-time crushes (age 14) who also goes to church and was our 8th grade valedictorian... he's a teen father. He got his girlfriend pregnant. And she's only 14, too. So, I'm really scared. I don't want my friends to get STDs or get pregnant. I want them to have morals. Plus, if they are acting like this... is there anyone left out there besides me whose still decent? These people are Christians, you'd think they'd have some sense! But they don't! I'm already worried that I'm never going to be able to find a husband that hasn't been with another girl... Yet I'm so powerless because if I boss around my friends, they won't be my friends anymore. HELP! & Sorry this is so long! (link)
hey ive seen longer. tell your friends how you feel. if they dont care theyre beyond saving. you might be tempted to destroy that tape but dont do it. try to get her to. tell them youre worried about it should help. if it doesnt im sorry.


My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance (link)
the answer is pretty simple call him. if you dont have his # ask him for it. dont be shy.


Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now. We are both in the 9th grade and he is best friends with my brother. Well he gave me my first kiss and we always kiss but its only pop kissing. I want to make out with him but im too shy. i have never done it in my life and im very nervous. I dont know how to do it or if im bad. I know he wants to do it because he even said it but he knows im shy so hes not going to force me. But i dont want to make him wait and we know we both want it. So what should i do?
Your help is very apreciated..thanks! (link)
ignore princesses lamo advice. dont worry things will fall into place eventually. if he said he wants to what makes you so nervous? if you love him tell him. just hang out with him and it will just happen when its ready to.


1) I have a widow's hump (which is like the top of my spine sticking out of the back of my neck), short hair just under my ears, a wide frame and alot of loose fat on my back, sides, face, neck tummy and legs (so pretty much everywhere), I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO WEAR THAT I AM COMFY IN THAT ISN'T TOO EXPENSIVE!

2) For the past few months i have found myself really depressed/hyper and up and down with my mood, i am usually a quiet person but i am getting really mouthy and big-headed lately, especially with my teachers. I don't know whether it is because i have one short period flow every third month or whether i am actually depressive.

Please help

love extremely confused english girl, chickpea
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
to answer #1 its not reallly something people can help you with. Unless they have similar problems.

for #2 if you think you may be depressive talk to a counseler or someone you trust. if you find out your not depressive and its the short period flow. try to control yourself. you might mess up your relationships with other people.


im a lesbian, i know it. i always fantasize abou girls and i hate it because the country i live in is really strict and girls dont do this kinda thing, but i wanna be with a girl so badi dont know wat 2 do (link)
oh im sorry! im not lez but im not prejudiced either. do what you thinks is righ and it will turn out fine.


14/f well 15 tomorrow =].. Im a Freshmen and i like many guys but there is this one that I really really like... He is a Junior (16) and really sweet, funny, and really hot..so the story is
I usaully take my lunch to school but I decided to buy it one day, and while I was in line he came up behind me (me and my friend were the last one is line before him) and he just started talking to me and me and him talked till we got to the lunch thing (thats about 30 min.) and after school I was about to walk home with abunch of my friends and he came up to one of my guy friends and started talking to him (he knows him from church) and then he hugged him bye (hes not guy he was just playing around) then he came up to me and was like i dont know you but I will hug you bye... ok so that was about 2 weeks ago, we talk every day but only about 5-10 minutes a day, and he always hugs me bye and just randoms pokes me and trys to get my attention.. Well he added me on myspace and I read his about me section and it said that he really cant keep a girl friend and that he is a big flirt ... well is he just flirting with me or maybe does he like me (link)
he isnt worth it girl, if you get with him and he flirts with other girls you'll be crushed don't put urself in that situation.


Ok, my problem is kind of difficult here and i would really appreciate if someone would help me...the hting is, is well i moved away from my old school about 4 years ago... i liked this kid while i was there.. he was my best friend too and we were younger when i moved..and now his parents are divorced..he's changed a lot, I saw him the other day at a football game but when he saw he just gave me a little smile and when i was smiling at him and then walked to his friends...i dontk now if he was giving me a smile cuz i was or cuz he remembers me.. i really like him and miss him along with my other friends...I really want to make friends again with him but i dont know how..when he's with his friends he insults me because i'm with my new school friends..but he doesnt act that way always i want to tell him i like him but i'm scared he'll laugh or something like that, i'm just scared but i really like him.. (link)
that jerk! sorry that wasnt helpful. if he wants to be your friend he wouldnt do that to you. he'd stick up for you.tell him how you feel. but whatever you do dont go for revenge you are above him. and you always will be.


How do I know if my boyfriend REALLY loves me?
we've been together for close to six months.
i know it's very quick, but after about 1 month, he told me he loved me..
But how can I be sure it's true love and not lust or just a deep like?

How can I be sure it's the real thing, a real love?

Because..i know in my heart that I love this guy. :) (link)
you dont know. but if you are really compatible things will stay happy and nice. if your not....well theres not much you can do. but it sounds like true love to me


my boyfriend has very low self esteem and I can't figure out how to get it back up. i've told him how amazing he is and everything, but its still not helping. I don't know how to help him. he keeps asking me to help him and i don't know what to do! (link)
wow! what makes him happy? whether helps or not you have to keep trying because you care. try to get him to talk to you. he'll come around


my boyfriend and i have been together for over year and we got so serious, when we started dating he used to make me feel really good , he sends me amazing messages and i knew i loved him but now he doesnt show me he really cares and he does alot of things that make me feel like he doesnt care, he tells me he looks at porn and i see it on his computer, i thnk he doesnt love me because he looks at porn, we have sex then y is he interested in lookin at other girls and im attractive, please tell me wat to do and if how im thinking is wrong. (link)
ok slow down. you need to find facts obviously he likes to do things that make you self concious. talk to him if he doesnt care hes not worth your time. if he does care hes a keeper.


Alright I think I have depression or am bipolar or something. You see, most of the time I am so happy and I just have a positive outlook on life. But other times, like right now, I totally hate myself and think no one likes me, which I know isn't true. But I can't get this feeling of low self confidence away and idk what's causing it. It's stopping me from having fun with my friends, and that even depresses me more, I don't even enjoy going out sometimes because I fell like evryone is so much better than me and doesn't want me around. I have a great life and I just wish I could not be so down all the time. I sometimes start crying for no reason and just am in a really terrible mood, and then I feel like I'm wasting time I could have been happy. I've been trying my hardest to be positive and happy, but more and more often I've just felt really low and don't like doing the things I used to love anymore. And it's probably the reason why all of my friends have boyfriends and I'm not as close with as many people as I used to be. And I'm not just complaining; I really think something's wrong here. I've been considering telling my mom that i think I have depressin and to take me to a doctor but I'm sure she won't understand. She gets mad if I tell her I've had a bad day at school, because she says I have no reason to be sad. I don't even thinks that she thinks depression is real. So what should I do? Tell my mom? And even if I do, how would I bring it up? Thanks so much for your help. (link)
i am diagnosed with bipolar and you need to talk to someone better safe than sorry. your mom can help you talk to her talk to a friend some adult you trust you need help. dont wait any longer.




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