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its always about him
my boyfriend and i have been together for over year and we got so serious, when we started dating he used to make me feel really good , he sends me amazing messages and i knew i loved him but now he doesnt show me he really cares and he does alot of things that make me feel like he doesnt care, he tells me he looks at porn and i see it on his computer, i thnk he doesnt love me because he looks at porn, we have sex then y is he interested in lookin at other girls and im attractive, please tell me wat to do and if how im thinking is wrong.
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You've gota understand how a guys mind works. If a guy looks at porn it DOESN'T mean he doesn't find you attractice, and it DOESN'T mean that he doesn't love you or that the sex isn't good enough.
Porn is just porn, to (most) guys its just a tool that helps them get off. Now you may say "well we have sex he shouldn't have to" but (assuming you are both teens still?) guys have different sex drives to women. When guys go into puberty they masturbate all the time, and I mean ALL the time. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a liar, or not normal.
Thats the porn thing out the way, I just wanted to make that clear that its normal and nothing to do with anything your doing.
Now about him not showing you that he cares, well it sounds like you need to have a talk about it. Try to find out wot got you into each other in the first place and rekindle it. Relationships just go stale for periods sometimes. With a bit of effort, if you loved each other like you said you did, I'm sure you can both be happy again.
Good luck:)
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I con't want to sound mean, rude or cruel, but DUMP HIM!!!!!!!! he is a pervert!!!!!!!!!!!!! ewwwwwwww! i would dump him if he was looking any girl other than me. And to tell you that he does look at it!!!!!!!Nex thting you no he'll start taking porn pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok slow down. you need to find facts obviously he likes to do things that make you self concious. talk to him if he doesnt care hes not worth your time. if he does care hes a keeper.
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