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I'm Kelli...if you ask me advise, you will get an honest answer, maybe some of you won't like it, but that's just my style. I don't sugar coat things to make it easier to swallow, I give it like I see it. That being said, I am actually a sweet person but I have my own opinion!

I have been through some tough times in my life so I really do know what I am talking about. Yeah, and I hate writing these things because I never know what to say!!!!

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Well ok i go to this YMCA Camp at Summer, & well its summer, so anyways, i met a boy named Devin, & i like him ... ALOT! well my friends Alex & Damien say me and Devin make a cute couple and Damien told Alex that he though Devin liked me. & alex told me Damien said that. && Kolton, (Devins Best friend) said "Hey! Devin want's you!! he likes you & stuff" but then Devin makes a face & goes "Ewww. Gross, Sicko!" So i really don't know what to think. Should i give up on love? because thats what i feal like doing right about now, High ratings for just trying. Please. this situation is bugging me, bad! =]

I think you need to talk to Devin away from people, especially his friends! Because boys often deny and sometimes even mock or say "eww. Gross, sicko" when they are confronted by their friends about liking a girl, but are a lot better if the girl asks them face to face about it, so yeah....I hope I helped!

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Okay, My name is Stephanie and my Boyfriends name is Anthony!! I really want to stay with him he is a real sweety but every one makes funn of me for going out with him!! What should i do brake up with him??

Will rate!!!

Please help!!!
Stephanie

Personally, I would say screw what everybody else is saying because if you like him and he likes you, nothing anyone says matters! you deffinatly should NOT break up with him! Besides, what is everyone saying? is he younger than you, older than you, or does he look "different" and that's why you are being made fun of? because none of that stuff matters if you truely like him!! i hope I helped!

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well ok-i wanted to know-im a 32A and im 13-but i was flat chested in the beginning of the year-is this a good rate for growing? also--i got padded 32As,so if i go swimming in a bathing suit,would people notice the difference between my bra padded and just my swimsuit wich isnt?i never wore the padded bras in public yet,so should i wait till it gets to school time? much help is appreciated-thank you :) :) :)

Yeah, this is a pretty normal rate to be growing. I really don't think anyone will notice.. i mean, suits make you look smaller no matter what, so IF anyone notices, which like NO ONE will, they'll chalk it all up to that. i'm sure it won't look like you stuffed.

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I have to go on a cruise with my family and I get sea sick really easily. Is there anything to stop me from getting sick like that?

Umm.. they have these things called like sea bands or something (they probably have them at your local drugstore so you can just ask someone who works there) and they have little white balls on them and you put those right over where you would take your pulse, also, yo ucan try motion sickness pills, but they tend to make you drousy. So, I hope I helped!

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Hey today I asked my husband to fix me 2 pop-tarts you'd think all the work involved was poppin em' in the toaster but no he puts butter on the back of them. Have yall ever heard of this? 5's for all thoughts.

No, I've never heard of it either, but maybe it helps then not to burn in the toaster??!! I don't know, but your husband sounds sweet to think to do that if it's true!

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yesterday at my basketball game, i twisted my ankle & couldn't play. it's swollen & a bit bruised, but i can limp. i can't put all my weight on it. my mom is going to go get me a wrap for it but i'm not quite sure which one. are there ace bandages that wrap around your whole ankle & the bottom of your foot?? it's like i can barely walk. any ideas??

thanks!!

Hey. i'm sorry to hear about your ankle! yeah, they have ace bandages in all kinds of sizes. i think there are like regular and really wide ones, i would get the regular ones because then it's easier to wrap. Or, you could go to your docter, and they might give you what's called an air cast. I hope this was helpful to you and your ankle feels better soon!!

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hey! well i have a problem...my best friend has this boyfriend that nobody likes and personally me and him hate each other but for some reason she still goes out with him..god who knows why. but im not gonna try and break them up because they have like twice and they keep gettin back together. well whenever we are by cute guys she always flirts with them when she has a BOYFRIEND. a couple nights ago we picked up her guy friend kevin and when he was walkin up to my car she was like ohh look how hott he looks! and she always lies to her boyfriend..like he called when we were with kevin and she is like im just with kristen (me)! and nobody else..and hes like no i can hear someone else..who are you with? and shes like nobody..and when she gets off the phone she continues to flirt with him. also when i was at my cousins she has this really cute neighbor and he came over for a bit to chill with my cousin and then she was like all flirtin with him and jumped on him because she wanted "shotgun" and wouldnt get off of him! i dont know it seriously bugs me and im like ohhh you were flirtin with him! and i tried talkin to her and sayin you have a boyfriend..if you flirt with other guys then why are you still with your boyfriend? and shes like because i like him! i dont know she is my best friend..ive tryed talking to her..she just bugs me when she is around guys! ...what do you think i should do in this situation?
i will rate 5 for anyone who helps
thanks.

Hey... it sounds like your friend doesn't have a good relationship with her boyfriend, i know you know this, but maybe you could try to point this out to her. She says she's with him because she likes him, but yet she lies to him and goes around flirting with other guys behind her back. It sounds to me like you have already pointed this out to her, but maybe you could try a different approach? It might make her mad, and probably isn't the best idea, but if you get desperate and I mean like REALLY desperate, you could try telling the guys she flirts with that she has a boyfriend. I'm sorry about how you feel.. i hope I helped a litte!

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ok well im doing the seventeen workout in the june issue and it says its a 15 minute workout but it only takes me 4 minutes and it makes me really mad because i dont no what im doing wrong help me

oh and i do exactaly what it says in workout


i rate high

First off, do you feel like you are doing anytying, like, are you sore the next morning or maybe a little still, because that means that you are working new mousles. This may not help, but maybe you could try doing the workout a little slower, you know not rushing, if you know what I mean. Well, I hope this helps! PS .. Why did you give me a TWO??!!

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13/f, my grandmother used to be okay, never used to get into my way, always feeding us, and helping us. I went to this award banquet, and she didn't like what I was wearing. When she described what I should wear, it was a wedding dress. I explained that for this occasion, you just wear simple things, but she didn't listen. I went the way I looked anyhow. Everyone who passed us, she would say, you see how that person has that... and other what nonsense. She said how my breasts were sticking out. Bra or no bra, of course it would show, I have breasts, wouldn't the shape and size of it show? Now for graduation, she's forcing to dress up in some wedding gown thing. My mom had to tell her no. My grandmother thinks that I'm dressing the wrong way. What's her problem?

That's just kinda the way grandparents are! they are from a totally different time when girls wore skirts and dresses and guys were always gentlemen around girls, so the way your grandma is acting is normal. I hope this answers your question.

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im going away soon for vacation and i never been on a plane before this will be my first time. i dont know what to expect here are some questions i would like to get answered

should i be scared
alot of people say to chew gum should i?
willl i get sick?
what should i do to keep busy?

Ok, 1.no you shouldn't be scared, there really isn't anything to be afraid of, 2.chewing gum has alwasy worked for me, it helps with the pressure in your ears, 3. I don't know if you will get sick, but if you have a history of getting sick in the car or something, take a motion sickness pill in some apple sause(because the have a kind of gross taste) before boarding the plane, 4. the pill will make you very sleepy, so that is one thing, or if it is a long flight, they usually play movies, or you can bring books/magazines or like a CD player to keep you busy! I hope I helped!!!

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Hey I'm going to a party and my period is still irregualr so theres a very good chance that I'll be on it during the party/sleepover because in May I had it from the 23-30th or somrething like that so I'm expecting to have for the sleepover. And I'm kinda scared to wear a tampon to sleep because I don't want to get TTS but I know a ton of people who do. So like I'm not totally sure what to do. I mean if ther is a way to wear a tampon I will but I just don't know weather to not sleep over (but I don't really have a reason not the besided that one), wear a pad, or tampon. So any advice will we great.

WILL RATE.

You should go to that sleepover!!!! Wearing a tampon to bed is perfectly fine, as long as you put a new one in when you guys go to sleep (if you do :) ) and a new one in when you wake up in the morning, and if you wake up in the middle of the night, i couldn't hurt to change it then too. Trust me, the girls who got TSS probably just didn't change their tampon enough, so that's why, as long as you change it regularly, you will be just fine! Have fun at the sleepover!

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My b-day is July 1st and I REALLLY want to have a party like extremly badly but my house is really small and I want to invite about 25 girls. Its a little late to have a pool party and I just don't know what I could do for a party. I'm going to be 15 and I've only had like 2 b-day parties ever and I have a list of 25 girls already but I just don't know what to do. Any ideas are great WILL RATE

Ok, do you have any parks near by? Or maybe like a picnic area? Because then you could have all the girls meet you there and you could have pizza or something and music and just hangout..or if you have a big enough back/fron yard, you could do that there too. I hope this was helpful!

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someone said;

"I got my permit"

what does the person mean? thanks..
I rate

It means that they have been through drivers training and passed and can now drive with anyone over 21 that has a license.

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Okay im 14/f(i just turned 14 MAy 6)And ive been talking to this guy (He just turned 16 like last weekend) Well i think our relationship is moving to the point of b/f g/f .... but like i need to find out a way to tell my mom about the ages without her flipping because my mom is very strict and i mean strict.. i mean ive never really had a boyfriend befor so i have no clue what to say and i cant not tell her because one of my sisters will tell her and i will be in deep crap... so how do i tell her about this guy without her flipping out... like exsactly what do i say???

Ok... first, this boyfriend in question, is he a generally good guy? you know, repectful, kind, the basics. What I think you should do is make sure that he is on the same page as you are, to prevent your mom from getting really angry. If he is, invite him to meet your mom and let her see for herself that he is a good guy!! You have to figure out what to say, but i'm sure you will come up with something! But above all, you HAVE to be honest about it!! Because if you AREN'T and your mom finds out the truth, then you'll be in some big trouble! And if you ARE then maybe she will be more open. I hope everything goes well!

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