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Hey ya'll! My name's ~*Heather*~ and somehow you've stumbled upon my column! Congrats! :P Well, I'm 18 years old and I live in Missouri with my mom and my beautiful cat Corey. :D



Some of my ~*Likes*~ are the beach, exercising, cosmetics, strawberries, cats, this site, Subway, 24, tv, movies, alterative and trance music, teen magazines, shopping, tanning, cheerleading, CSI: Miami, crime shows, The O.C., cartoons, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Britney Spears, and Hilary Duff!



Some of my ~*Dislikes*~ are arrogance, ignorance, ppul who caint spewl, cottage cheese, Vanilla Coke, bosiness, co-dependence, being yelled at, being treated like an idiot.



Please don't be hesitant to ask me a question! I'll be happy to answer anything you bring to me! Add me to your favorites if you like and I'll add you back!

advice

how come that whenever i ask a question... (not even bad or sexual or anything) that the mods delete them! i asked one about a friend problem and a hair problem and the mods deleted them! whats up with that? if ur reading this then this is the 1st one in 4ever they didnt delete!
THANX IN ADVANCE!

Maybe your questions have been asked billions of times before.

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ok...im 17/m senior and ive never been n a relationship...ive been on dates with 2 ppl in my life and the last one i went out w/ 3 times...but thats done...i been told a lot recently how good ilook and how hott i am, but this is way new for me....i dont think ive ever even gotten a look from a gurl till now...im a popular guy, not the most, but every1 knows me...im a funny guy...but wats wrong w/ me...i mean i just got my first kiss! wtf...help plz. ha

Nothing's wrong with you. Just a "late bloomer". :)

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Sorry if this question has been asked before!!

You see, i wash my hair everyday, and it always smells soo good like my shampoo! I let it airdry, + it naturally goes curly.
The thing is, i straighten my hair; a lot, with the CHI [ceramic hairstyling iron.. it's my saviour!! :D hehe] my hair isn't dead, but it always smells kind of.. well, burnt i guess. So my question is, how can i get it to not smell like that? lol. It's kind of embarassing because people are always playing with my hair, and if i can smell it, i'm pretty sure they can too. Is there any kind of product you can put in afterwards to give it a nice smelling scent? Some sprays i've tried have only made it frizzy :S

thank you in advance guys!!

I think you answered your own question. If you straighten your hair too much you'll fry it!!!

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whats a good place to get icons for ur livejournal? (not aim buddy icons but the bigger pics that ppl use for their journals)
thanx
-lauren

Look on Livejournal.

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ok well i love my make-up....but i need some good kinds....like as for eyeliner i use wet n wild or sometimes nyc pencil.....but i want it so it stays on longer and i can get it as dark as possible...is there a cheap kind (under $5) that will give me that effect? wut about liquid? thanx!


I'm not sure how much Maybelline eyeliner is but I love their stuff the most. :)

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All my "friends" are ganging up on me. They are making me choose them or the guy i love... what do i do? please i really need help

Anyone who makes you choose isn't worthy of being your friend. That's just wrong, they should never make you choose.

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Please, do the people on here a favor and type correctly, instead of wrtin lyk dis cuz ppl lyk muh cnt red dat. No offence, but save the lingo for Instant Message.


Thanks loves

I think people will write however they wanna write. There's no law against typing lyk DIZ.

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ok @ school like everybody wheres makeup and stuff and i want to too. not just because everybody is wearing it but because i feel ugly. but i dont know anythin about it!!! so can you tell me whats the best kind of like foundation or powder?! what is pressed powder?! and dosent makeup wash off in the rain?! thank you so much and i rate really good if that matters to you! thanks.

It's good you want to wear makeup! :) Enhancing your features is never bad! I don't think you should worry about your friends making fun of you...you're doing what YOU want and they don't have to agree.

Best foundation ~ I love using the Wet N Wild concealer sticks. They work great!

Pressed powder is just face powder that's pressed together into a compact.

If you get the right make-up it won't wash off in the rain normally.

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i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on?

Maybelline has great eyeliner.

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what does it mean when u get fingered?

When someone sticks their fingers in a girl's vagina and just moves them around to make her feel good.

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ok well.. my boyfriend asked my if we could have mutual oral.. BUT i dont know wut it is!! some1 help me to know wut hes sayyin!! i need to kno!!

It's called 69 and normally the girl gets on top of the guy with her vagina in his face, and the girl's face in the guy's area.

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If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..??

I don't know many girls who think their vaginas actually look good. I didn't at first and was afraid of a guy going down there but then it felt so good and I just got used to it. Guys don't care about the smell...if they did they wouldn't do it. So I just say let the guy do his thang. ;)

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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

Uh no. Abortions aren't free sweetie. Thank GOD. You shouldn't get an abortion anyway. Give the baby up for adoption.

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what kinda of sites could i go to and get help about sex and teenage pregnancey?

I know one that has some stuff http://www.beinggirl.com

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

It varies for every girl.

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

That's normal. I've had my period since I was 12, and the most I've had mine is 4 days. Be thankful! :P

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

Guys really shouldn't wear two condoms. It doesn't help any more than one condom would. Get birth control hunni.

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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.

I don't agree. I think you have a pretty bad attitude about sex, and I just think you think because you're in high school, you should have sex.

People DO wait until marriage to have sex.

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what do i need to do to prepare for sex-physically, not mentally bc im ready with that :-D thanx

Be prepared for it to hurt.

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okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it!

You're normal. I'm sure they'll grow out of that stage, just be patient. :)

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