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Everyone seems to have a problem with age I dont see why its just the some person being born a different time. What do you think?
well it's not just age that's in question, it's maturity. i'm not really sure if you're talking sexually/relationships or not but it's illegal for anyone over 18 to do anything sexually with someone under 18. kids under a certain age shouldn't be exposed to things like that so there are laws to protect them. if someone who is a lot younger is in a relationship with someone much older, they might be pressured to do things they are not ready for simply because the older person is ready for them. older people tend to be more mature and have more experience. but in a sense you are right. i believe that age shouldn't matter if you are truly in love. :) hope this helped
Is there a good way to lose weight in the face and neck? cuz I have a really chubby face and neck. any advice?
chubby cheeks 21/f
you can't really lose weight in just that area. if you go on a diet or exercise you will lose weight all over your body AND in your face. good luck :)
I just found out, that my BESTFRIEND is bi.
I mean, i thought she was for the longest time, and i did ask her, but she got super mad at me and said no. But, she told this girl she was hot/cute and she was embarrassed because she told her. And then she asked her if she would kiss her. But i dont know. I mean, i kinda want to forget about it. But when i see her, it reminds me again. I dont want to ask her, again though. But then i do. I mean, what should i say to her?
i dont think you should pressure her any more about this because she might get angry or defensive. i know a lot of people that are gay/bisexual and it was really hard for them to come out to their friends because they thought they would not be accepted. just let your friend know that you will still be best friends no matter waht. and you will accept her for who she is and not whether she likes girls or boys. let her know that she can trust you with anything. she will come to you with her secret when she is ready =) if you really want to ask her, which is understandable haha, then MAKE SURE she knows you arent going to judge her.
female
i've had sex a fair amount of times, and i never have orgasmed ! it sucks, and i really want to.
also, my pussys been kinda loose ever since before i had sex, could this be a sign of sexual abuse as a child ? when i lost my virginity the guy was like 'are you sure youre a virgin because you dont feel like it !'
i dont know , could that be the reason i dont orgasm ?
any answers and advice are welcome :)
everyone is different. theres nothing wrong with you and theres no real way to tell if someone is a virgin or not. he may have just had sex with girls that were tighter, but that doesnt really matter and hes an asshole for making that comment. i dont think you couldve been sexually abused as a child because that is a very traumatic event and you would most likely remember it. being sexually abused as a child probably wouldnt be the reason you dont orgasm anyways. maybe you just arent that into it? has it been with the same guy every time? because if it has maybe hes the reason youve never orgasmed.
I was curious as to what year that range rover made thier best vehicle my friend claims that it was 1993 but does not claim why. I want to know if any one knows?
i dont think you can really pick a year that range rover made their 'best' vehicle. everyone has different taste in cars so a car that someone thinks is 'the best' may be the worst according to someone else. does your friend mean best as in can go the fastest? or gets the best mileage? or is the safest? you cant really pick which one is the 'best' unless you know the category they're talking about.
I was just wondering why people ask questions about their boyfriends and other innapropriate things that no one needs to be talking about. Doesn't anyone agree with me?
no, this is a good place to ask these types of questions. this website is a place where people can deal with their problems by asking others for advice without having to give their names. it's anonymous. so they don't feel as stupid asking questions =) IT'S A GOOD THING. trust me.
I know this guy from liverpool (england) and i'm from the united states. instead of 'bye' he says 'pee'. maybe it's not instead of bye, but it IS at the end of every time we talk. What could he be mistaking it for?
haha maybe he's mistaking it for 'peace'?
like he's trying to sound american or something?
that's kinda funny =)
if this isn't right, maybe you could ask him what he means by 'pee'?
what exactly is a "rough patch" in a relationship?
a 'rough patch' is a period of time where you fight a lot. basically you just don't get along for awhile.
usually a relationship is going pretty well and then you hit a 'rough patch'. it's something you usually get over and are able to move on to the better things in your relationship =)
I had sex with my boyfriend on saturday. He has really long and gross pubic hair. Anyway, on sunday I got my period and when I pulled out my tampon, I had one of his pubic hairs on it. What am I supposed to do? Do I tell him, should I not be really grossed out cus I am. I'm pretty much looking for opinions really. Any input would be great.
TELL HIM! that's gross. just tell him you prefer it when guys trim. or you can be more subtle and ask him if he prefers it when girls trim/shave? hopefully he will ask the same question back and then you can hint to him that you want him to shave/trim without being mean :)
My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated my ex (he was controling) last few nights i have been going to my friends watching movies holding each other and he gave me a back massage and i kissed him them turned into making out and then more. i dont feel bad about it.. i loved it and has made me like my friend alot lot more. and i havent been thinking about my ex.. is it wrong?? is it to soon for me?? how do you know... also i have a two year old who was attached to my ex. hes a little confussed on why we left.
i don't think that's wrong. it's good that you're getting over it fast. i think you may just be replacing your ex with this new guy though. like he's just filling your ex's place. which isn't really a good thing, but for now if it's making you feel better then it's fine. just make sure that this new guy is one that you want to be with. tell your 2 year old that people get in fights sometimes and they decide they don't want to live together anymore. just tell him that you and your ex are still friends, you just aren't the kind of friends that live together. just think about this: if you didn't have this new guy would you feel bad about your ex? like would you still be thinking about him? if the answer is yes, you might want to reconsider your situation. i also think you should have a talk with your ex. confront him about his cheating and ask him to explain himself. good luck =)
whenever im masterbating& stimulating my clit, it really only takes me a few seconds to get an orgasm. i would say it takes less than 10 seconds. and then after i get one, i dont feel sexual anymore. is this normal?
yes, it is completely normal. your body is satisfied after you orgasm so you don't feel horny anymore. ha =)
I love my boyfriend and I've known him just about the majority of my whole life and I'm happy we are together BUT it's not enough. We barely spend anytime together except school. And we only have one out of eight classes together. I have tried telling him that it bothers me that we only spend a little bit of time together but it's like it goes in on ear and out the other. To be honest I feel unwanted and kind of unappreciated. I'm a damn good girlfriend. And lately the whole lack of quality time I've been getting is starting to irritate me to the point where I'm ready to break up with him. And yet I don't want to because I care about him but I think I deserve more. I wish I would get more from him but I'm not. Either I get it from or I'll get else where. Idk what to do...help please. I'm kinda scatter brained right now. I don't want to make a mistake and regret later.
well, it sounds like you need to discuss this with him. tell him how you're feeling. say that you're unhappy with the current situation and unless it changes you don't think that you guys can continue going out. make sure you talk it out with him before you break up with him. if it seems like he is going to improve, then give him a chance. if he doesn't change, then dump him. you deserve a guy who wants to put just as much effort into the relationship as you do. you could also try calling him and asking him to come over or something so you can spend more time together? is he not hanging out with you more because he's busy? or because he just isn't willing to make the time for you? if he's just busy with sports or whatever then you should probably cut him some slack. but if he sits at home doing nothing after school or on the weekends, but still doesn't make an effort to hang out with you.. then things need to change! good luck girl =)
I met this really nice guy (lets call him warren) almost 5 days ago. We met at a bowling alley and I actually kinda liked his friend (Luke)- however when I found out that I was 4 years older than Luke, I knew that wouldnt ever happen because it would be illegal because he was 14 and im 18... so thats a negative. Well, Warren, Luke's friend, ended up letting me stay at his house for the night because it was too late for me to get back to my house. Warren hit on me, and then we started kissing, and well, one thing led to another. THEN, after that happened we were just talking and I found out he is my best friends cousin. I told her about me and warren hanging out and when i did she was like "Please tell me you arent messing with him." I told her i wasnt, but that i was becoming pretty close to him (which is true). I dont know what it is about him though. We are complete opposites. Im more of a voluptous girl, while he is skinny, im in high school, he is graduated, he is country, and I am proper. However the connection we have is hard to ignore; physically and emotionally. He said to me, "I bet you $100.00 that you will fall in love with me." and of course I denied it. I cant tell if by saying that he is wanting to start dating me or not. But based on the situation do you think that I should pursue the relationship or let it diminish? I just wanted an honest opinion.
madison
(I rate high for good/well-thought out answers!)
i would give it a shot. there's no harm in trying it out! you can just see how it goes. sometimes opposites can attract. it doesn't really matter how different you are, as long as you have the physical/emotional connection you say you have. i'm guessing that him saying ' i bet you $100 you will fall in love with me' means that he probably wants to date you. and it probably also means that he can see himself falling in love with you too =) anyways, pursue the relationship, see how it goes. if you start going out and you decide he's not the right guy for you, you can always break up with him and move on. it's not like you're gonna get stuck with him! good luck =)
okay, well there's this guy.
we went out for four days.
i wasn't sure about going out with him, he asked me out the night we met.
at first i was like uhm i don't know really because i didn't know him very well.
my friend kept encouraging me to go out with him, and kept telling me how much money he has. . so i gave in. . .
first i said have no expctations, i don't know you very well. . .
i tryed to make it work. . . and by doing that i really led him on. . . by saying things he said to me, but i didnt feel the same in return.
we broke up tonight. . he went to my game and brought me flowers. . $50 flowers. and my favorite candy.
i didn't react the way i he wanted. . . i felt guity and didn't want to keep leading him on because i really felt the need not to proceed with being with him. . . because truely inside, i don't like him back.
i suck at relationships. . i flirt with every guy i meet.
i just don't like this guy. . . i hate it when he touches me, he's too clingy, he makes me feel weird.. icky weird, he gets easily upset, and has a bad atitude, i am not attracted to him at all, and we have no chemistry.
so i ended it.
now i feel bad because hes upset and he went all out and got me flowers and candy. . .
that was really sweet of him, and he is a really sweet guy, i didn't want to hurt him. i gave him a chance because he was so generous and chiverous.
he told me we can still be friends if we went out and it didnt work out, but he's really sensitive and i don't think he meant it.
now i just need help with what to say to him.
i didn't give him a really good excuse, and i didn't tell him the entire truth.
i told him we were movng to fast. . .
i don't know what else to say, i want to stay friends and i don't want him to feel bad.
i think you just need to tell him that you feel like you dont know him well enough yet. its understandable. the last guy i went out with i felt like i didnt know well enough, so i broke up with him. (even though we had been friends for like 3 months). its a good reason, and hopefully he will understand and try to be just friends with you.
PLEASE!
My boyfriend is inlove with this hat.
http://www.longhornplanet.com/WStore/WStoreProductInfo.aspx?cat_id=9&product_id=2019&ru=/WStore/WStoreCatalog.aspx?cat_id%3d9%26sort%3d0%26pg%3d2
Well, not technically this one, but its similar, its bluish gray, instead of orange.
I've looked everywhere.
I'm getting it for him for valentines day, you see, he has one just like it, and LOVES it more that life itself. He destroyed it though, so I'm trying to find him another one for suprise.
Help me please.
this is the closest i could find.. sorry. not sure if this is what you want.
http://www.lids.com/pid/20072735
you could ask him where he got his hat? or if you want it to be a surprise you could ask his parents..?
good luck!
I am 17 years old and I've never had any type of serious relationship. I met this amazing guy few days ago and we hung out twice. Last night he came and picked me up where we went to his house, watched a movie, cuddled, kissed...etc
It was great! I really think i am starting to like this guy. But now what? should i call him? wait for him to call me? ahh im nervous.
i like to wait until the guy calls me.. but every girl is different i guess. the only problem is that guys are dumb and sometimes they dont call right away. it doesnt mean that they dont like you, a lot of guys just suck with communication. it depends on the guy i guess. if you dont hear from him within a few days to a week then maybe you should call him and just casually talk and see if he wants to hang out again? good luck!
14/f
So I've been going out with this guy for a month, two months by valentines day. The lasts boyfriends I had was never during valentines day so I am clueless. Am I supposed to get him something? I mean I want to but not too much because he definitely will not get me something too much since he is like really broke. Should I just get a card? or more? I like him alot and we don't see each other that much, only like twice a week, maybe 3. So what should I do? Thanks!
you could get him a card and a small gift, like a teddy bear or his favorite candy or something. just something that shows him you like him and you care =)
18/f
I've always been told that I look wayy younger than I am. It doesn't really bother me, but it's getting to be kind of annoying when people ask me if I'm still in middle school (I'm a senior in hs).
So i was wondering if bangs would make me look older/at all work on me. I have dark brown, thick wavy hair like 4 inches below my shoulders and blue eyes. My face in oval shaped, skin tone is about the same as Erin from the hills. I'm 5'6" and 110 lbs, if that matters. The only thing is I have pretty dark eyebrows so I don't know if full bangs would look weird.
this is what i want:
http://www.mtv.com/photos/?fid=1601473&pid=3473219
I like how they are kind of longish on the sides but straight across..
any input would help, thanks!
honestly, every girl i've seen that got full bangs looks younger. theres just something like childish about it. like it makes people look 'cuter', not really like older or sophisticated or pretty. i think if you want bangs you should go with side bangs. also, if you dont wear make up already doing so could make you look a lot older. good luck =)
There this boy that i like and he knows i like him. Ive been liking him for awhile now. You see there this other gurl that also like him and so they been hanging out for awhile. But he stills talk to him and stuff and be messing around. And from what i heard is that he really dont like her but i be seeing him with her.
So what does this all add up to, is he doing this to make me jealous or what.
he could be doing it to make you jealous. i think you need to just ask him if he likes this other girl, be upfront about it. thats the only way you're ever going to be able to work this out. good luck =)
I have moved to a new place less then a year ago. I'm a student in high school. I hate it, because I can't make any close friends here, or friends that I can hang out with. I am pretty shy, and its hard for me to connect with other people.
How can I change this? What should I do?
thats really hard. just try being friendly to people. talk to the kids in your classes. ask them questions and listen to their responses, show that you're genuinely interested in what they have to say. just be nice to everyone and people will like you :) you just need to put yourself out there a little more. good luck!