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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating about a month or so.
His ex girlfriend turned best friend is really nice and all, but im a bit worried about her flirty-ness. I mean, i guess shes like that with alot of people, and i know she approved of my boyfriend's and my relationship, but i just don't know.
I don't know her all that well, so i can't exactly tell her to back off without seeming rude. So i think i'm going to bring it up with him. But i don't really know what to say and what not, because i don't want to come off as a bitch.
I trust him, and know that he would never ever do anything behind my back, but still, it just makes me uncomfortable.
How should i bring the topic up?
I'm 15, he's 17, and she's 16; if that matters at all. (link)
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This is a tricky situation. I'm pretty sure anyone could understand where you are comming from... Start out by saying that you appreciate the fact that he is able to stay friends with a girl after their relationship ends. Mention to him the fact that you really do trust him alot then get into the hard part. Tell him that althought you really trust him sometimes you feel a little uncomfortable with the fact he is always with his ex. Let him know you have nothing against her and that you don't want him to take things the wrong way or make him feel like he has to choose between you two. Also let him know that you wouldn't mind or bother telling him if you didnt care for him as much as you do. Just tell him nicely how you feel and if he's good enough for you to go out with him then he should be understanding enough of you to know where you're comming from. Hope I helped. Good luck!
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why do people masterbate??? (link)
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hahahh, some people when alone can get really horny and since theres noone to held them fill their sexual disires, they masterbate.
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ok. well, i'm like madly in love with this guy name Jacob & like EVERYONE knows it for some reason[i gess its obvisious] & he even knows i like him bkuz of all his friends screaming it in his ears every single day -.- loll.& like yeah. so in math class[4th period]. this guy name Jerry he was holding me[i wanted to let go] while the teacher was teaching.she got annoyed to said to let go on to "get a room"[loll.] everyone looked my way i felt so embarassed >_<
it just so happened that Jacob is in that class. which means he looked at what we where doing.but he only saw me getting away not the hugging part.& near the end of the period, he looked quite sad.
So then in History class[6 period], jacob sits next to me then he all of a sudden he asked what me and jerry was doing that made the teacher say get a room? i told him. cause he really wanted to know. like he wont take nothing as an answer bkuz i told him it was nothing & he was like. oh! it was a somthing alright.
but i wanna know. is that a hint that he likes me?
its been on my mind like crazy! xD
it kind of feels nice having him seemed wooryed about it though hehe.
im 14 btw. so that means im an 8th grader (link)
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By asking you about it this showed an interest and he probably wouldn't have really cared if he wasn't into you at all. It's a good chance he might like you back!
hope i helped!
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if i move to colorado my senior year can i get instate tuition to a school in colorado? that works right? (link)
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If you live in that state and attended school in that state you pay instate tuition. You must have a home there, a mailing address and live with parental gaurdians.
Hope I helped!
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For my basketball team, we;re making the seniors signs, for senior night. And for football season, they made signs that had rhyming things for their names. Ex. "we have beatty, he weighs 280"
things like that but for girls.
Ashley, Courtney, and Cierra or C.
Courtney makes a lot of threes
"C" is REALLY tall, like 6'4
and Ashley has really good defense.
Any help?
I need the signs done for monday, thanks!!! (link)
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C is 6'4, wont fit under most doors.
Courtney gets us in the lead, shooting all those threes.
Ashley's defense is so fly, it makes the other team cry.
Lol, they are corny and I don't know if they are useful but I thought it was worth a shot. hope i helped!
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Heyy Everyone!!
I love wintertime because its so pretty but i feel like the winter clothes are so bulky and they make me look a lot fatter then i am.
I live in los angeles, so it dosent get so cold
But i was wondering like, what are some long sleeve tops that might show my figuire a little?
Im not talking like lowww cut or anything, respectable just cute.
Thanx so much!!
OOOx (link)
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I'm not so sure what you like as far as patterns and such but American Apparel has cute zip ups and hoodies and scarfs. Their stuff looks cute on and is slimming to most.
Hope I helped!
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lol i know this is gross...but when your fucking a girl in the ass do you get like crap on your dick?...and wont is smell and shit...? (link)
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Hah, wow. I don't know first hand but I have heard MANY stories. Umm it's uncommon but I have heard a couple stories about girls shitting when recieving anal. Usually it doesn't happen but it's always a possibility, especially if the guy pulls out too fast. As for making your junkk smell bad, it wont smell the best but it wont reek of shit. hahah. Hope I helped.
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There is a gum commercial...I think it's uhmm maybe dentene ice or extra or something, but the song on the commercial is something like.....
You can stop this s-s-s-stutteringggg.
does anybody know that song and who sings it, also what its called...?? any help is appreciated (link)
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It's called Stuttering, By: Ben's Brothers.
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ok so my guy friends thought they would be funny and threaten to fight my guy friend from another school. it just started off as funny but then one of my friends lets call him A was making fun of him for all this stuff i told him about me and the other guy hooking up. and A like told the guy to apologize for trying to go farther than what i wanted to. apparently he said other stuff too but neither of them will tell me what it was. well anyways, my friend from another school wont talk to me now but he wont tell me why. and im really confused. i dont know what to do?! (link)
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It sounds like A must have teased the boy from the other school too hard. He probably stretched the truth about things you had told him when teasing A, thinking nothing of it. That ended up making A mad, considering he already had been slightly rejected then heard this. The best thing to do for right now is give A a little space and time then see if he will actually talk to you when he has cooled down a bit. Clear things up with him when he is ready.
Hope I helped!
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Ok so my so my three good friends got into a HUGE fight and now they hate eachother and always ask me about the other. The fight is two against one but the one person is really to blame for the situation. But the one girl turned a lot of people against the two so now people hate them. But the fact is the one girl is a complete liar sometimes and she manipulated people to make it seem like she was right. Right now i am playin both sides of the field. I know that soon i will have to choose. It may seem like an easy choice but if remain friends with the two i am afraid that people will hate me too even though i didnt do anything. If that happens it will be us three against my high school. On the otherhand if i am friends with the liar i could be friends with her friends and not be hated. I need advice quick! (link)
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Honestly, you shouldn't be forced to pick who you're going to stay friends with. Friends will fight all your life and choosing sides just makes things worse because when friends finally make up they wont forget about you choosing the other friend over them. If you are forced to choose though I think it is better to stick with the good girls. It's better to stick with true friends and take shit from people you don't really care about then it is to be with someone fake that will just keep causing problems in your life. Plus how do you know she wont turn against you? Also I doubt your whole school would hate you just because of 2 people you are friends with. I know it's a tricky situation and I want things turn out alrightt. Hope I helped.
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Ok so i have aol and i want to IM. But when i click on the person to IM it says they blocked me. And i was talking to her on the phone and she said she didn't block me. So I tried to IM myself to see if it worked and it said i blocked myself. Now I try to IM and it won't even let me look at my buddy list. It says I have a pop up bloker or something. I am on my laptop, do u think that makes a difference? Well I hope someone can help me out! (link)
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Most people I know of (along with myself) have pop-up blockers and are still able to get on AIM. You either got a strange version of AIM or you have a really strong pop-up blocker. If the software is strong it's not surprising AIM wouldn't work considering how many viruses you can gain through it. Possibly try seeing if you can download a different version. If that doesn't help, try turning off the pop-up and virus blocking systems on your computer to see if that makes a difference.
hope i helped.
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STD, STI. WHichever you want. This is just really a curiosity. Say if there was a situation where a girl gave a boy (too young to have expeirnece beforehand, I mean literally only just UK legal) oral sex, and to put it bluntly she "swallowed". They are both virgins, garunteed. (Don't doubt this or say there's no real way of knowing, I'm talking about a situation where there is absolute certainty). Could the boy be carrying an STD that the girl would then catch?
If it is possible he had one, if the answer to my first question was yes, (and if I had no evidence to believe he did, giving that he is a virgin, and I have no doubts in him) then what would be the chances of the girl contracting it?
I feel more comfortable with the 'he' and 'she' if you wondered. Thanks for helping :) (link)
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People can be born with sexual diseases without knowing it, also many people have gotten them and have no idea. From giving oral sex she can get any STI from him even if he is a virgin. If he had anything such as crabs or herpes or HIV then by giving him oral she can get this infection from him, even if she didn't swallow.
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14/f
I'm going to be doing some waitressing soon. I've worked with the company before so I know that we have to dress all black.
It's a catering company so does all different jobs, but I know that the one we're doing is going to be quite glamourous, with a lot of people.
I'm not sure what to wear. How do I do my hair and makeup?
What about jewellery and shoes? I'm one of the youngest waitresses and very short as it is, so heels would make me look taller, but I can also be quite clumsy and I don't want to drop things.
What do you think?
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if you're clumsy bracelets can get caught on trays along with long necklaces so those aren't the best idea. earings or a short necklace would be best. heels might not be the best idea but if you'd like to wear them a chunkier heel is easier to walk in. as far as make-up goes, nothing too flashy, just something pretty and on the natural side. and for clothing wear something neatural, classy and not skimpy oh and you can never go wrong with sleek straight hair.
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I have trouble talking to one of my best friends. I am f/15 and my friend is m/17. We do talk a lot and we get into deep conversations, but it's hard for me to talk to him. Like, when he tells me how he's sad or hurt I don't know what to say back to him. I also have trouble with just regular conversations. I don't know what to say to him. I feel like he already knows everything. He makes me nervous. I like him as more then a friend and he has a girlfriend(who is a b****). She treats him and me like crap and he just can't see it because he thinks he loves her. :( But anyway, he says I need to be more laid back and just talk to him and have fun, but it's just hard for me. Give me any advice you can. Thanks :) (link)
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Some boys just no matter what will always have your heart and for some reason everytime you're near them you just don't know what to do. You want them to see you as more then the friend as you're sitting back and listening to their problems. For right now you're stuck watching him be with this girl but this isn't going to last forever. Eventually, if she is as bad as you say he will realise that and see that the right girl was the one by his side through everything, just stick around and continue to help him when he's in need. Hope I helped!
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14/f
I'm a virgin and probably won't be having sex anytime soon seeing as I'm single, but I wondered, how do people expect your vagina to look?
Cause when guys talk about it, they act like they expect you to be completely bare.
So, I'd like to know, if you're a virgin, how would you expect a girl's vagina to be when you do have sex? Like completely waxed, or shaved, or what?
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I'm a virgin too but I have a brother and a lot of guy friends and I know alot of perverts. hah. I can't think of one guy that doesn't perfer it shaved. Like if a guy is gonna do anything down there he most likely wants no hair. You could wax but that would probably reallyyy hurt!!
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ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and a half, and well two nights ago he told me that he loves me. it was in a message over myspace so i just didnt respond..well last night he said it again and i asked him if he really did mean it and everything and he said that he did... he said that hes been thinking about it for the past week but he just wanted to be positive that he really did feel that way before he said it... well the thing is that im not sure if i love him, like i love him as a person and everything like i care for him alot but i dont think im in love with him, but yet for some reason i told him that i do love him but that ive been in love with someone before and that i felt alot more for that other person when we had gone out..another thing that im not sure about is that this guy has told three other girls besides me that he loved them.. i asked him about this and he said that he only really loved one of them, the other two that he apparently loved had told him that they loved him first so he just felt obligated to say it back... he told me that he loved me first... i dont really knwo if i should believe him or not... so i just wanted to know basically if A.)i should believe him when he tells me that he loves me and B.) if i should say anything else back to him about him loving me like about how i had told him that i love him too.. should i take it back or what cause i do love him, but im not in love if that makes any sense... thanks in advance. (link)
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Honestly, a month and a half is a pretty short perion of time to be saying you're in love with someone. I dont know about you but I think that love is a very rare thing and that if hes said it to 3 different girls in the past he kind of is just throwing the words around. Don't be like "I take it back, I dont love you" but talk to him about it and explain the fact that you love him but you aren't in love yet. If he really cares about you he will hear you out and understand where you're comming from. Hope I helped.
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i dont know whats with him, he says he likes me. we hungout like a week ago, he would always talk to me online whenenver he got the chance. well all of a sudden he just kinda stopped. like idk whats wrong, he didnt write back to my message, he sometimes seems interested, but now he sometimes doesent. i really have no idea whats going on with him. (if you need any more info just ask) whats wrong? (link)
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boys are weird.
-he could have not liked you from the start and just decided to mess with you because he thought he could get you and didn't think about your feelings.
-he could have really liked you and started not to.
-he could have met someone else.
-he could have really bad things going on right now and realise he doesnt have time for a girl.
-he could just not be the great guy you though he was.
boys play games and its sad when you fall into one of them.
a couple questions...
did you do anything with him?
did he mention anything he might want from a girl?
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I'm 18 and I have thick black hair right around my nipples. I've plucked them out once before awhile back but of course, they came back. The hair is about 1.5 to 2 inches long and its kind of embarrassing. I was wondering if this is a common thing amongst females and if it is, is it common for the hair to be thick and black? I don't even have black hair on my head, I have brown hair. Also, I have a hair line right down the middle of my breasts and I usually just shave it and of course if I don't, it will grow back and be visible. If anyone has this, how do you deal with it? Thank you.
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theres a chance these things could just be genetics but there is also a chance you could have a problem with your horemones that causes unusual hair growth. if its a horemonal problem you probably should get that checked out by a doctor, there are pills you can get to help that and they can reduce the hair growth. if it's just a genetic thing there are many different things for hair removal such as: shaving, nair and laser hair removal.
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what can i do to get a whiter skin.. im gettin dark (link)
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if it's from a tan the rays have only affected your top layers of skin whick are mostly dead skin cells. dont scrub yourself too hard but if you shower and scrub harder than usual you can remove the cells as well as some of the darkness.
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so i like this guy and he used 2 like me back but i didn't show much interest since i was busy with school and friends. well i don't really know him. he's in 10th grade and i'm in 9th and we never talked but he gave me A-LOT of hints. i don't wanna spell everything out , just trust me on this. but i think he thought i'm not interested or don't like him so he sorta gave up and didn't look at me that much anymore in the last couple of weeks. so i wanna get him interested again without being pushy and stuff like that and being abvious cause things like that scare him of. please don't tell me 2 talk 2 him cause it would be weird and i'm really shy. just help me with ma additude and things like that so he'll notice me again , and i wanna show him what a great girl i am but more in a indirect way. i only get 2 c him twice a day so pleeaaasse help.
and remember i need help how 2 return his look and stuff like that cause i always used 2 avert his gaze. don't tell me 2 talk 2 him , first i want him 2 notice me again!!!
thx (link)
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when you're passing by him try and get your friends to be a little louder so he will look over because of the sound and once hes looking you can catch his gaze. but dont look to long! be the one to turn your head first. do this for a couple days then finally walk by alone one day. don't cross your arms and watch your facial expressions and little thing can scare away a shy guy!! but look approachable and of course look your best and hes bound to come over to you. when he comes though that will take ALOT of comfidence from him so you cannot be to shy when talking to him and you can't be over talkative or else that will scare him away. make good conversation and it will become a habbit for him to come over to you every day. then finally after a little time you will see the signs again! hope i helped.
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