Gender: Female
Location: crockett
Age: 13
Member Since: February 18, 2007
Answers: 90
Last Update: June 6, 2007
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Hi...just wantd an advice.i was gng out wid a boy for 3 yrs n i really loved him.in our 3rd yr i didnt hear abt him for abt 2 months.i tried contactng him bt he didnt reply to any of my calls.then one day he told me he had sme serious health probs n that he is fine now so we started gng out together.Now in jan 2007 we broke up again bt he still wants to meet me only to make love bcoz he has again some health prob.i told him no.he told me he wont b able to walk in sometime thats y he broke up wid me..he was quite serious wen tellng. i dnt kno whether to believe in him or not...i need advice :) thnx (link)
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dont listen to TiNA_DUH shes probly on her period or something but it looks like a scam to me one time this boy told me he was going away for a long time and he knew i loved him so he took advantage of it and said he wanted to have sex scince he was my first to everything eles i was listenin to how much of a pig he was and i believed him till he was at school the next day so if he loves you he can also wait to make love but to some boys its just sex and dont be stupid and listen to every lie becuase once its gone its not comein back and if lost dosent mean you have to do it everyday so good luck and think
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I just got home from a party,
and my crush was there. I didnt have much fun though, because, my best friend and my other friend were talking to him like the whole time, and i think they said something to him about me likeing him and then hes like "HI .." to me with them and they started stared and smiled, and i looked retarted saying hi but like i dont want to hear if they were really your friends or talk to them about it.
Like i dont think he likes me, i think he likes my friends.
Is there any way i can talk to him without feeling uncomfertable?
He sits at my lunch table, hes in my like "group of friends" but i talk to other people wya more and rarly talk to him, and when i do its for like 2.2 so like never.
HELP
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sorry this is so long but ive been thrugh it
make him want you alooooooot act like hes not even there because obviously he knows you like him and hes just doing what im about to teach you
ok my now boyfreind went back with his old girlfreind i found out some stuff i wasnt supose to know or so i thought so latter on he called me unfortunaly i was @ the movies with a date and he called me we started talkin and we got back 2gether i realy wanted him when he wasnt mine so make him sufer
tips
*take a long bath and all that stuff because then for some reason you feel a lot better
*take a look at him wink and walk away make him confused talk to some boys not to much people will start to think
*last most importanly tell your freinds you dont like him anymore if they'll tell him you like him theyll tell him you dont like him trust me it works hell come back and say somethin like ii thought you liked me or something you can do it
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My crush likes my best friend
and she might like him back
i dont know..
i dont want to talk things out because where i live that doesnt work.
help? (link)
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just move on because its the same thing here and i get your words deep so if you want to keep your freind move on it'll fell beter later on
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14/f
mmk, so i switched schools, and theres this one kid, that i was like the best of friends with for like 3 years. & i'm a girl & hes a boy, & to me thats kinda a long time to keep a friendship with a guy. so anyways, i dated him like in the beginning when i was friends with him. & then he broke up with me, which i was so heart broken. but then like he ended up coming running back to mee. so obviously, i started talking to him again, & it was super. & like it was kinda obvious we liked eachother & stuff... but i didnt want a boyfriend at the time, because the previous boyfriend i had, before him, cheated on me. so anyways, it was all just great, intill he told me he really really liked me. i didnt know what to say. i kinda thought he was kidding, & thats what my idiot friend said to that he was just joking. so i was like ohh yeah i like you too. & i like put a little winkie smiley. & then so he ended up thinking we were going out. & then one of my backstabber friends, said i didnt lke him like that. so he just blocked me? & stopped talking to him. so i sent him like a milllionn apology IMs. on my other screename.
so, now, im at his school, hes in my lunch period, i pass him in the hallways, like the whole day, & hes even in one of my classes. he hasn't talked to me yet. & i miss him alottt.
but, i dont even know what id say to him? if i talked to him first. but i dont think i want to talk to him first. i mean he always will like look at me. like sneak looks. like illl seem him looking at me & he'll look down. but then this one time, our eyes met, & like.. we looked at eachother for like idno. one of those long stares, yano what i mean.. anyways..
what should i do?
think he'll come around?
should i talk to him?
or no? (link)
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well this is what i think you should do i think toy should write him a letter because by then you can express your true fillings tell him the whole story obviosly you miss him freind wise or maybe even more i may be reading your sighns wrong but i know you miss him also in your leter [if you dont have it already] ask him his # and when and if you call and if he dosnt have your # call blocked so yall can talk on your own turf well thats all i realy got anything eles i can help you with just holla
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hey so i like this boy so much i almost think i love him but its stupid cuz im only 13 and we have never been together or any thing but i dont know why i like him so much hes the type to make you laugh even wen i dont want 2 smile....thats how special he is 2 me ...sigh....i miss him just thinkin bout him and he aint even mine......it seems like he likes me and he leads me on 4 a while and den i just loose hope. see wat im saying am i a little 2 obsessed?? (link)
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i see you like him alotbut your also not in lovebe carefull with that l wordit can get you in trouble as well as hurtso do me a favor and ask him out already
if you need some advise or just somebody to talk to just holla!!!
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and i saw this girl named sammy and lisa and they thought that my friend roland flicked off sammy but he didn't. and then lisa hit roland. like she lightly taped him on the shoulders and i asked her why she hit him and she started cussing at me and i started cussing at her. and i called her a bitch.. and then she threatened to punch me in my face! and her and sammie later on followed me into the bathroom and lisa almost hit me!! but luckily someone pulled her back! and now she wants to fight me but not at school what should i do? (link)
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like nicole said dont fight her but stand up to tell her you dont want to fight {because obviously she dont wanna fight you because she would have been done hit you or something but remember this is all on you keep your cool but also stand your groung
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I am so sorry that it is long, it would mean so much to me if you helped me :D
Okay well I broke up with my ex because I thought that things would just go better as friends.but now i got these feelings like i think of him all the time.but i picture us together and i''m scared that it will end like the last time. and i dont know i'm confused.i like him but at the same time i dont know if i do. like i dont even know, i really want someone that i know will love me for me and always there for me and just to be with and hug i'm 14/f
i'm also scared to get hurt. because i fell in love with a good friend he said he loved me and all this and stuff but it all turned to lies. i dont live by him anymore i live lik an hour and half but no matter what i say i dont love him anymore but like i'm over him but there is a part of me that will always love him. he broke my heart and i'm so scared to get hurt again i think that really that is why i broke up with my ex in the first place. not because i thought we were better ffriends but because i was confused and scared to get hurt again
but sometime i lay in bed and wish he is with me..
what should i do? (link)
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im so sorry your confused if you ask me you need time to be alone 1-2 weeks at least thats what happend to me i felt in love with two boys but once i took some time i decided i was better off with my now boyfreind.
think about do you want to be with this boy or do you just want a boyfreind now its time for you to choose
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I already asked this question earlier and got some feed back but I wanna put it back up at the top and see if I get some more oppinions before I develop my own conclusion...
Info: Ok I am 23 and he is 19. We are both artists and musicians. I am black and he is white. Question: I had a crush on this guy at work. Turns out he had a crush on me too. He asked me to date him exclusively. I said yes and we did. He told his family that we were going to be dating and they flipped out because 1/2 of them are racist. We talked about it and decided to work through it. We didn't have sex but we did make out and mess around some, shared some private goals and beliefs etc. Then he calls me after we spend the night together, the day he was supposed to talk to his family and work something out, and says that he isn't as interested as he thought he was. He says we should be friends, but then he stops calling and talking and everything. Then I hear that he was using me to get this chick at work jealous. But he doesn't seem like a malicious person like that, and I think he loves his family too much to take them through that for nothing.He also cried on my shoulder and wrote a song dude! About our relationship and situation. What do you think? What is going on? (link)
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dang baby gurl im hurtin for you thats real bad were still like we our i thought we were all cool but it seems as if its all the same as before i think if your relationship is that complicated i say go for it i always love a challenge dont you so go for it be another sholder for him to cry on[again] and keep positive thoughts
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ok well im in love. i went out with this boy who is a few yrs older then me but im mature for my age so he really respects me and treats me rite. we went out [on & off] for a a yr and a half. he was my world we talked to eachother about everything even when me & him werent together and we went out with other ppl me and him always talked and always cared about eachother. but the last time we broke up everything changed. Me & him barely talk anymore, i am still completely in love with him and i would do anything to have him back in my life but he is always to busy our hanging out with his friends or something like that. I dont know what to do i want him to love me again.WHUT DO I DO? (link)
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well your situation sounds like mine because i was madly in love with a boy thats was 16 and im 13 romeo and juliet story my moma didnt want me to be with him but you cant stop love but the pressure was getting to me because everytime the phone rang i got parinoid that my mom would pick up and it was him so we broke up and i started mising him but when i called him he didnt care about me so i said you know what im better then this i got a new boyfreind and moved on and i think you too
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Alright. This isn't quite as bad as the title makes it sound. I am 22/f and over Christmas while I was home I ended up running into my high school math teacher. He was only a year or two out of school when I was in high school. We had a pretty good conversation and I was talking a lot about my school, stress and thesis and he was funny and offered great advice. Anyways He sent me a really nice e-mail over the weekend (apparently he got my e-mail from another teacher I still stay in touch with) and asked me how was going, wished me the best and asked me if I’d like to get together for coffee or dinner when I'm finished.
So, he isn’t that much older then me, but it still seems a little awkward to agree to a date with someone who taught me. I think he is, at most, seven years older then me, but I want to know what other people think. Would be acceptable to go to dinner with him? I would really like too... (link)
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be with him because i obviously think youll belong together
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Ok this question is going to be kind of deep, so here goes. When I was 14 I lose my virginity to my first love. I'm 19 now and married to another man. My first love, Tim, and I have been on and off since I was 14. No matter what we always seem to find a way back to each other. The problem is, I have been married now almost 2 years to this other man. BUT I still find myself thinking (alot) about my first, Tim. I don't know if I am in love with him still, or what. I am so confused. Everytime we bump into one another it's like that spark never left. Please help asap. (link)
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well i kno this may soud lame but go for love because never leave someone you love for someone you like because the one you like will leave you for someone they love
you and your husband has only been together two years so i say stick with your husband because god put me and your first love here for a reason
your first love to test true love and me to tell you your husband is your true love
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first off me and this boy had like a little thing, it lasted for a little while but then we just drifted and stopped talking. now we don't talk at all. i know he doesn't like me or anything, but i still might like him. i honestly feel stupid if i say hey or something online or in a text cause if he just replys back like hii or something i don't know. but its so confusing. i really liked him, i don't think i've ever liked anyone like that before, he's been in my head for ever. how can i talk to him again or get him out of my head.
ps we don't go to the same school. (link)
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it was so hard to get over my last boyfreind because he was my first love but when me and my new boyfreind hooked up things got so much better because now when i talk to the ex its just freindly so just look ahead and dont look back unless you want to
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what are things that can make your guy turn on?
what things they like best doing to them?
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well kissin him on his neck for one thing that gets them all it just deppends on what side they like it my boo likes his on the right and also the arms they all love that thats all i can remember but if i remember more ill tell you
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so the cutest guy that i work with has a crush on me or should i say HAD. the deal is taht hes 24 and im only 17 and the other night when he tried to kiss me good night i freaked out and told him that i didnt think i was ready and that mabye we could another time. But then the next time i went to work he wouldnt even give me the time of day! we said hi and everything but he went from loving me to completely ignoring me! i really do like him but how do i let him no that? ps i no its risky cause hes older but idc anymore (link)
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ok this is how i see it you should talk to him because maybe he just had a lot on his mind and if he dosent want to talk be carefull because he cold only be wanting one thing or he could still have a lot on his mind so just watch more sighns and keep in touch please!!!!
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Well...my friend has this really cute boyfriend and whenever I see him and her together I get a little jealous.He talks to me but he just talks to me a little.What do I do?? (link)
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try not to act on your likes because a true freind wouldnt but its ok 2 look
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Okay this sounds like i'm coomplainging but everytime when I try to help someone out to the fullest, I end up getting a lousy 3 or 4, and I think people are being really inconsiderate, because I am trying to keep my average score for helping up, but anyways is anyone else having the same problem? To me It's not even worth answering peoples questins anymore cause I will end up getting an even lower score...so basically my question is this
Is anyone else having the same problem?
and please don't tell me oh you probably misread the question or misundestood it cause I just double checked all of the questions I answered and I have tried helping them. (link)
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how old are you you sound like a two year old not everytime will you get a perfect score nobody always gets a perfect score when you give advise keep your head straight on the person who need help and not on your avredge
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hey
(sorry if this is in the wrong cat.) i write poems all the time and i also write other things, does anyboday know any sites where you can go and enter your poem or story thing for like a competion or anything..
but also something that is free and i dont have to download anything
thanks in advance
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i love poetry too so im assuming youve already went to google and searched it
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Ok this is kind of complicated. I am 13/f and all my friends have had 5+ boyfriends. I havent. I really like this one guy (lets call him James) and we flirt alot but hes also a close friend. I care for him so much. Well lately this month I have had about 4 guys ask me out. The problem is I DONT like them this way. My friends and other people are getting angry that im turning them all down but I feel as if if I go out with them im just lying to myself and not giving them what they deserve. They are all nice guys but I only like James. My friends are saying im being stupid and letting the chance to finnally have a boyfriend slip away. I have told them before that I wanted one but I want to share some sort of connection with the guy first. My friends all say its just a guy and I should just for the status but I dont know. Should I just forget about James and give these guys a chance? I have no idea... (link)
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i like you you know what you want and you go after it thats great but give one of them a try or youll kick yourself latter trust me if my freind wouldnt give me the advice im givin you i wouldnt be in love now
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If best friends fight, and they've never fought before, does that mean they've stopped loving each other?
People have been coming up to my friend and me and saying 'sorry to hear you two are fighting.' Is it normal to fight? We're not really, but there was an issue involving the guy she's with making up stuff about me. I talked to her about it and this whole dramatic thing started.
Can we fix this? I told you, we've never fought, ever, in our three years of friendship.
What can we do? (link)
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you tell her look ive been there for you for three years and im going to be here for you through your long relationship with {whoever her curent boyfreinds insert name here} {you dont want to say when they break up because if you do your saying your routing for a break up} and say i love you and i never want to fight again
good luck!!!
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Well, I really like this guy and i have been likeing him for a lonnnnng time now! And i went up to him and i told him that i liked him and he really didnt responde just kinda said thanks. But i mean it just seem like fate has been bringing us together even my friends notice it!!!
i mean he said i was cute but thats it. I have tried to move on by liking other guys but thoese guys arent really intreasted in me but when ever a guy likes me there usally not my type! when will mr.perfect come along. and i havent even had my first kiss and all my friends have already done that actually i think ever one in my school has had there first kiss.
and its not like im an ugly duckling i guess im pretty since my friends and ppl i dont even know say im and the guy i like thinks i am he's just not intreasted!
WHAT DO I DO TO GET THIS GUY!! BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE I TRIED EVERYTHING!! HOW DO I GET MY FIRST KISS???? WHY DO I ALWAYS GET THE GUYS IM NOT INTRESTED IN BUT THE GUYS I LIKE ARENT INTREASTED IN ME??? (link)
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well 1 thing dont worrie bout the kiss thing my freind for his purposes only lets call him p hasnt been loved or nothin i wanted to go with him its just he was my cousin like mainly everyone in this town but hes sexy and hes only had 3 girlfreinds but me on the other hand has had about 30 and if i took things slow like him i wouldnt have the names i do but im not about to get into my problems im just gonna say take a look at all the single boys in your school i mean you are in high school so theres bound to be somebody for you i found mine
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