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How do i get him to like me again?
so the cutest guy that i work with has a crush on me or should i say HAD. the deal is taht hes 24 and im only 17 and the other night when he tried to kiss me good night i freaked out and told him that i didnt think i was ready and that mabye we could another time. But then the next time i went to work he wouldnt even give me the time of day! we said hi and everything but he went from loving me to completely ignoring me! i really do like him but how do i let him no that? ps i no its risky cause hes older but idc anymore
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ok this is how i see it you should talk to him because maybe he just had a lot on his mind and if he dosent want to talk be carefull because he cold only be wanting one thing or he could still have a lot on his mind so just watch more sighns and keep in touch please!!!!
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i doubt he has lost interest in you, maybe he is just embarassed because you turned him down when he tried to kiss you. you would feel the same way. don't stop talking to him, i would be really sweet to him and then when he's least expecting it kiss him to show that you are interested in him you just weren't ready the first time. since you're going out of your way to show him that you care about him he will understand and things should go back to normal. :) hope i could help!
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Don't start doubting your own reaction, just because you miss the attention. It was a fun game, but when it got serious, you got scared. That is perfectly okay and probably smart. He is a little old for you, especially because you are jailbait and he is an "adult" in the eyes of the law and drinking legal. This means, he could not only go to jail for getting seriously physical with you...which any 24 year old guy would try to do, but would if he is stupid enough, give you alcohol first and go to jail for that, too. He knows this and he knows he would be playing with fire and that you really are too young to mess with. If he did pursue you, it would be bad for both of you at this point. Go out with a few guys your own age for a while and avoid the drama of an older guy for at least another year.
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Ok the fact that he is that much older than you is a huge sign sweetie. if he gets mad at you for you not kissing him, then a buzzer should go off in your head. Sounds like he is just worried about one thing only. I know this is not the answer you were hoping for, but I give my 100% honest advice. You can try talking to him about it and let him know you do like him, see where it goes. Hope it helps;
-Adorkable
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