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Left out!
Okay, the other day at school a lot of high school kids came to our school and my best friends sister came. My best friend (shelby) also has another sister that goes to my school(nicole), so me, shelby, her older sister(brianna), and nicole and HER best friend (Rachael) were sitting there talking to her Brianna. Me and rachael already know brianna because we have gone over to her younger sisters houses so we know her pretty well. So, rachael goes up to brianna and they give eachother a hug. Then i go up to her and try to give her a hug and she dosent hug back and it was really embarrising. She gave everyone a hug except for me. Then i thought, "o great, next year when i go to high school, i will have no friends" I thought this because Brianna would hug everybody but me and i am scared that i am just not ready for high school. I know that this has nothing to do with high school but i already dont have a boyfriend and all my other friends do and they r way more expeirienced so those are two reasons i think i am not ready and i feel ugly and like a baby. I know this may not seem like a big deal to everybody but to me it is, so could someone please help? Thanks so much! :)
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don't worry. i felt exactly how you're feeling before i went into highschool. all of my best friend's had older siblings at the highschool so a lot of people knew them and i always felt like i wouldn't be popular or have a lot of friends once i got there like i did in middle school. in highschool there isnt really "a most popular group" or person, everyone hangs out with different people, sure they have their cliques but there is so many more people in highschool no one really pays attention to silly stuff like that. maybe that girl just isn't looking forward to you coming to highschool because she may feel you are a threat to her and all the guys will be looking at you. and dont worry about having a boyfriend, it's better you'll be going to highschool single so you will get a chance to look at all the older guys (because believe me, once your in highschool you really don't pay attention to the freshman guys) and not be tied down! don't worry about being less experienced, that just makes you look less like a slut. i mean in middle school all of us thought boys liked you more if you did "stuff" but now we realize if thats all a guy wants they aren't worth it! so hang in there and you have a few more months of school and all summer to meet highschoolers, go to places they hang out at and just smile at everyone and don't be shy. you'll fit right in. :) hope i helped!
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Hey. I am a freshman in highschool and I STILL don't have a girlfriend. Statistics actually proven that only 30 percent of people even get boyfriends/girlfriends until college, so don't sweat it.
High School is no different than middle school, when teachers tell you otherwise, they lie.
You don't need a boyfriend. The fact that you don't shows guys that you are a prestigious young lady who isn't going to go out with "the average Joe." Guys like me respect that.
If you want a healthy relationship, I suggest that you wait for the right moment.
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Sweetie all i got to say is this....DONT WORRY BOUT THAT GURL!!! you got a boyfriend and friends who love you! your lucky enough! you must be really pretty if you have a boyfriend and friends who love you! all i got to say is just maybe if you leave her alone she'll just hug you
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