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Ok this question is going to be kind of deep, so here goes. When I was 14 I lose my virginity to my first love. I'm 19 now and married to another man. My first love, Tim, and I have been on and off since I was 14. No matter what we always seem to find a way back to each other. The problem is, I have been married now almost 2 years to this other man. BUT I still find myself thinking (alot) about my first, Tim. I don't know if I am in love with him still, or what. I am so confused. Everytime we bump into one another it's like that spark never left. Please help asap.
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friends loves will never be forgotten. youll always feel something when you bump into him. he was your first love, what can you say?
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well i kno this may soud lame but go for love because never leave someone you love for someone you like because the one you like will leave you for someone they love
you and your husband has only been together two years so i say stick with your husband because god put me and your first love here for a reason
your first love to test true love and me to tell you your husband is your true love
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You'll always remember your first love, because he was a big part of your life. You lost your virginity to him, but that doesn't mean you love him or that you don't love your husband. He'll always be a part of you and you may never forget him, and you may always have feelings for him and that's also okay. Just don't feel like your obligated to him, because you're not. I'v learned that you may not always be able to love someone with all of your heart, because someone else might still hold a part of it. But you can love with what's left of it.
I wish the best to you and your husband, and I hope I helped.
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I think everyone has that first love that they will never forget. I personally believe you never fall out of love; it just adjusts. If your feelings for Tim are so extreme that it constantly affects your marriage, talk to your husband or someone else about it. Just remember why you fell in love with your husband in the first place.
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you will always have that one person you will ALWAYS love and have feelings for.
Even if you aren't like; in love with them anymore; you still love them.
It's just how it is with love.
That means that is it true...
The fact that their is a spark still just proves it was true; and you both will always care about each other.
But obviously you were in love enough to marry someone else..
Even if you move on; you dont 100% get over it. And you never forget your first love; or any love for that matter. And the fact that you lost your virginity to him makes it even stronger.
there is nothing wrong with still thinking about Tim; it gets wrong if you ACT on those thoughts.
You are married and cheating is really really bad (which i'm sure you know)
You have nothing to worry about. You still care about him and as time goes on you will think about him less and less. But it will take time...
I hope everything works out.
Ask back if you need it.
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