I am so sorry that it is long, it would mean so much to me if you helped me :D
Okay well I broke up with my ex because I thought that things would just go better as friends.but now i got these feelings like i think of him all the time.but i picture us together and i''m scared that it will end like the last time. and i dont know i'm confused.i like him but at the same time i dont know if i do. like i dont even know, i really want someone that i know will love me for me and always there for me and just to be with and hug i'm 14/f
i'm also scared to get hurt. because i fell in love with a good friend he said he loved me and all this and stuff but it all turned to lies. i dont live by him anymore i live lik an hour and half but no matter what i say i dont love him anymore but like i'm over him but there is a part of me that will always love him. he broke my heart and i'm so scared to get hurt again i think that really that is why i broke up with my ex in the first place. not because i thought we were better ffriends but because i was confused and scared to get hurt again
but sometime i lay in bed and wish he is with me..
what should i do?
ElenaHilton answered Thursday March 22 2007, 10:27 pm: I think your emotional right now. These feelings are normal after a break-up.Before you date anyone else, you have to let the wounds heal, so you won't be scared next time. Take time to focus on school,friends and yourself. Love is not a maybe thing-you wouldn't be scared. If it endedd badly last time and because you are so young, it probably will go bad again. If you were older, the realationship may have a chance. It's okay to hurt, but be rational and wait awhile until you aren't upset anymore and
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