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i'm kathleen.i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
get to know me: kathleenxsaidd- AIM.
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Okay...so...i wear a bra. But, the only thing is its not the type of bra wiere you close it at the back....it doesnt have the hook. It's a bra...that you just put on..no hook or anything. It's by the company, Freestyle. So...is it okay to wear those kind of bras? Or, do you have to wear the "hook-bras"? Please help!
Hey. No, it's fine to wear those, they just don't do much. I have like 5849354 of those kinds, and barely any wired ones. They're fine to wear, they just don't push up or anything of that nature.
Hope I helped :].
Ok im going to the movies with the girl of my dreams and some other people from our soccer team. I talked to her freind who is also on my team, she said that I need to be nice and flirt with her, now there is the problem I dont no how to flirt. Her freind said dont be creepy flirt. Remeber were going to the movies. Ill put on what kind of movie when I get that sorted out. So geeting to my question. How do I flirt no matter what kind of movie im in? I want her to like me and I think she already does a bit.
Hey. Well, I agree with Chika and everything, but make sure, as you said, you aren't a creepy flirt. Compliment her, like, if she did something like order a small popcorn be like 'you can eat a large if you wanted to' or you know, something like that, implying that she's skinny. Don't say that exactly, but somewhere along the lines of that. Look for times to say something nice, and be really sweet to her. Most importantly, be youself, becuase you don't want her to like you for someone you're not, which i'm sure won't happen.
Good luck :D!
ive never made out before but i want to soo bad..like guys are always asking me to make out..bbut i dont want them to be like your a bad kisser and then go tell their friends..what should i do..should i practice on something..and ifyes..then what?
Hey. Well, I think as long as you know how to makeout, then practicing is unescesary. Honestly, I think practicing on something would be a little akward, wierd even. But in the end it's up to you. My advice is, let the guy know [in a joking/cute way] that this is your first time, don't make fun of you. Well, hope I helped[:
13. my bestfriend was abused im many ways. her mom was a drug addict. her mom gave her drugs through shots and made her smoke and used many different drugs on her. her and her 2 sisters. my friend stopped growing but got on so many medicines and started again this year. she has 2 skin diseases and extremely deep smokers cough. her mom left her alone in a different state when she was in kindergarten. later her mom went to jail. her and her sisters went to her aunts. all this happened when she was 4 till 10. shes now in depression and hides everything and all she does is screams yells and stares. she still cant get over it she had no idea it was bad. now shes paranoid of drugs or even smoking or alcohaul anything like that she was abused with. now were doing d.a.r.e to resist drugs its a daily year round thing. and she has to do it and she doesnt say a word the whole time or just actually cries she never crys. i feel so bad for her. she got a restraining order on her mom and her mom is in jail till the end. her mom also had mental problems/ alot of people are doing drugs and everything already and when she sees someone she tries to kill them or atleast punch them to the ground. she is normal other than depression and being paranoid of drugs and stuff. how do i get her to leave others alone SHE SHOULDNT TRY TO KILL PEOPLE. how do i stop her how do i help her a therepist didnt work. i fell soo bad for her ill do anything for her. she cant get over it i know itll be hard. i need help to help her. HOW!
Oh wow. That's horrible. The most you can do, like someone below me had said, is let her know that you will be there for her through everything. It's sickening to think about what a horrible mother she had. Well, I think you may actually be able to make a little bit of a difference. If you talk to her, let her tell you anything and everything she wants to tell you. If she wants to scream at you and throw things, let her do it. If she wants to cry so hard she throws up, let her do it. However, don't let her hurt herself or make physical contact with another person in a negative way. Basically, sit her in a closed room, like a bedroom, and tell her she can talk to you. Let her get it all out, ALL OF IT. Maybe that will make her feel a bit better. After she does that, let her know that you love her, and her mother is never going to get her again, and she'll NEVER be forced to do something she doesn't want to again. Tell her that she's free, and she will be from now on. Her mother is locked up, and she won't be coming out.
Try to introduce her to some more of her friends, maybe give her a makeover or something [if you guys are into that]. Make her become more social, but ensure she's friends with the right people, if you know what I mean.
It's a really tough situation that your friend, and you, are in. Most of all be strong and if you believe in God, I suggest you pray for her. Remeber, even if she gives you some attitude or a hard time when you try to help her, ignore it. She's scared, just keep that in mind. Good Luck! Let me know how things turn out.
ok well i have this x boyfriend miguel...he means so much to me but and he wants to get back with me but i told him dat i dont know if i still like him or what because it was kind of fucked up wat he did b4...so then now he cuts himself and today he saw me walking with my guy friend and my guy friend touched my shoulder and i was playing with him and i said "dont touch me dork!" and then miguel lost control and was like"yeah only i could touch her" and he hugged me all hard and pushed me into the lockers and tried to kiss me...the thing is he smelled like liquor and i asked wat was wrong with him and he said he had been drinking. then he couldnt keep his balance and was still trying to kiss me and since i kept pushing him back he started crying telling me how bad i made him feel and all this crap! i was actually gonna give him the 2nd chance but he treated me like shit in front of all those people and then some guy saw that i was pushing him away and was about to go do something about it. the thing is that i dont know what to do!! what could i do to stop him from doing all dis b/s? i know hes a great guy but hes depending his life on me and my actions and thats just to much for me to handle you know!!
so what do i do so he could stop?
should i go back with him and try to make him realise how bad hes handling things or do i stay away from him?
keep in mind that i want to have fun with people and not have to worry about "cheating" but i would be able to give up my freedom for him because i know how much i can help his situation but.......idk what about my life?=//
help!
Hey. You need to tell someone. Cutting yourself is not okay, and neither is drinking. How old is this kid, old enough to be drinking? Doesn't sound it..
You NEED to tell someone, becuase this kid seems like he's not just one of those people who are cutting to get attention and could stop if they wanted to. I know from experience, that shit's addicting. As for drinking, you need to tell someone for that, too. He could grow up and become an alchoholic, and do bad things with his life.
You need to tell a guidence councelor, or a parent, or even a teacher. But do NOT get back with this kid. I know you feel very bad for him, but if you go back with him, it's going to make things worse, please don't do it. You could talk to him, tell him you care about him, but this will not continue if he wants you to keep talking to him, he has to stop with the cutting and the drinking. He could do something really stupid if it continues, that may cost his life.
Some important questions I need to ask...
1. how old are you? and how old is he?
2. where exactly on himself is he cutting? (shoulders, wrists, forearms ect.)
3. are his cuts deep, or surface cuts that are a cry for attention?
Bottom line, tell someone, and DO NOT go back with this kid, he's trouble.. and MAKE SURE you tell someone, ANYONE. If you care about him, you'll get him help. He's obviously got some sort of disease, such as depression, or bipolar disorder.. and they're serious and can lead to serious things including suicide. So, TELL SOMEONE.
ohkay so i want to get my hair cut REALLY bad.
i want it a short/mediumish. and i want it angled from like my bangs. and kind of emoish. but the thing is i cant find a picture with that hair. cause i want to show my hairdresser what i want. cause i always get it messed up when i go. any one have a picture for me?! thanks
Hey. Well, I can first reccomend you that you should not give a hairdresser a picture and tell her that's what you want. My friends have done it, and it looks nothing like the picture. Just as a warning. If you still decide to go through with this, here's a picture... http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=156616992&albumID=0&imageID=4350019
That's my friend, Rachel. She has her hair angled and layered, and she has 'emo' bangs. I think that's the way you're trying to get it to look.
i was over my boyfriends one night. and he wanted to have sex. and i want to wait till im married so i said no. he flipped out and got on top of me and hes much bigger than me and stronger and he started fingering me. and then his friend came and helped hold me down and he stuck his penis in my vagina and it hurt i kep tscreaming for him to get off but he didnt. and now he keepsasking me why i wont talk to him. what should i do. i really honestly love him also.
Hey. Well, what he did is not okay. Actually, It's rape. The best advice I can give you is to stay away from this kid, he's bad news, and so is his friend. Also, you should tell someone. Like, a guidance counselor or something. I can't stress to you enough that no matter how much you love him, you have to leave him and not go near him again. Technically, he and his friend raped you, and as you probably know, that's illegal. I'm really sorry this happened to you, but you should be thankful that it wasn't worse. Don't give him enother chance, he's NO ONE you wanna get caught up with. Really, please, break up with him and never go near him again, what he did is just fucked up.
How can I not think of someone who makes me very upset all the time? What can I do to take away the time I have to think about him? Also, will not talking to him/not seeing him make him want to talk to more? Because I'd rather not see/talk to him anymore once I get him out of my head.
Hey. Well, for some people, not seeing him anymore would be best. At first, you might miss him a lot, and think about him a lot, but after a while, he begins to mean nothing. As for getting you to not think about him all the time, keep yourself busy. Enroll in sports or after school activities, and hang out with your friends alot [not if he's with them]. It will take a while to get him out of your head, and for you to not care too much about him anymore. Trust me, I know from experience. The most important thing is to stay strong, and when you get upset, don't let your feelings allow you to do something stupid. If you need someone to talk to more about it, I'm here, and I'm sure your friends would be glad to help :]. Good Luck! And stay strong, these things take time!
ever since i was 8 i had these little "bumps" on my arms (bicep areas) and my thighs, so it looks weird if i wear tanktops. do you know what these are, how i can get rid of them?
when i asked my doctor he said to use eucerin. BUT ITS NOT WORKING. i have bee using it since i was 9!
oh and i sometimes have thses blackish dark things along my neck it looks like DIRT! and no matter how much i try to scrub it out it doesn't work.
help please!
thank you.
Hey. Well, I think the black dots may be black heads. You want to go to the store and get a blackhead eliminating scrub, from companies like Clean and Clear, or Nuetrogina [spelling]. As for the red bumps, a lot of people I know have them. It's a possibility they may be egsima [spelling?]. You should ask your doctor about it, and he may be able to give to a special antibiotic cream to help it. If it isn't egsima, then you should clean your arms with warm water every night & morning, and put this stuff called Witch Hazel on it. You can get it at the grocery store, it's amazing, it fixes everything. Hope I helped :].
how do you put another picture under the picture
in the caption -- im using photobucket.
Hey. You do but with no spaces, and put the picture's URL in quotes next to it.
ok i recently posted this..
ok..me and my boyfriend were doing perfectly fine and then today he was like.. i cant be with you i'm sorry..i still love my ex more than anything...and when i read that.. i just broke down in tears..we both fell in love with each other..deeply..and he did that to me..and i still love him no matter what..and i cant convince him to come back to me..what should i do or tell him that might make him come back to me..i tried telling him how i felt about him..and i dunno what to tell him now..he's the first person i've felt this way about since i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years..PLEASE HELP MEE PLEASEEE!! :'( i've been bawling the past 5 hours!!!
and the other day he imed me and was like..baby i'm sorry i made the biggest mistake breaking up with you, will you please forgive me..i really love him..so much..i just dont know what to do..should i go back to him or not???
thanks!
Hey. Welll, I think you should go for it! But, if this happens again, no way. This is his last chance. I would tell him that, but it's your choice in the end.
What is the song by Rihanna, where she says "umbrella-ella-ella" over and over again? I thought it was called Umbrella, but it is not on itunes. Has it not come out yet?
Hey. Well,I looked for it on itunes too. It didn't come out yet, becuase it is called umbrella. But, I think you spell it like Riannah. So, you could try that, but I don't think it came out yet.
Male 19 and female 18
Me and my girlfriend have been together for two years. Well lately she's been using all types of excuses for us not to hang out...like today we were supposed to hang out but she said she wanted to go home and shower first which would leave us with half an hour to hang out. Well then she calls me back five minutes later and says her dad says she can't...the samething happened with this coming weekend. Her friend is having a party we were invited to and told me she didnt want to go...well a couple days later I asked if we could hang out this weekend she said maybe at the party even though she had already said we weren't going...its been going on for a couple of weeks
...and also we rarely talk on the phone anymore...we use to talk on the phone like 30 minutes before we went to bed and 30 minutes in the morning as well and various times through out the day...now its more like 2 minutes maximum a day...I dont know if this means she wants out of the relationship and it's her way of breaking it off...I need Advice
Hey. Well, it sorta seems to me like she might need some space, or something is bothering her. You should ask her if you've done something to upset her, and if you did you're really sorry and you weren't aware something was wrong. If she says you didn't do anything wrong, ask her if there's something that's bothering her with her home life, or one of her friends, ect. If there's nothing wrong, that's when you bring yourself to ask the dreaded quesion, 'do you wanna breakup or something..?'. I really hope that isn't what she wants and wish you the best of luck :].
I want to put my writing in this format on my myspace about me:
Im ----
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Sorry, that's hard to explain, but I mean, I would like it in the centre and to have spaces in my sentences, so a new sentence starts each line.
I typed it in like that but it came out all next to each other, like this:
Im ------------------------------------------. ----------------.----------------------------.
-----------------.
Does anyone know the html code to put my about me in the centre and start each sentence on a different line.
Thanks, xxx
Hey. Well, to center your writing, you put and write what you want here. To but a break in the lines after each sentece, you put so it will
break apart like
this whenever
you put
next to
your writing. well, hope I helped.
Ok stupid question, in the new Kelly Rowland song "Like This" what does bump mean. Like the chorus/hook in the begining and then towards the middle of the song. Thanks!
Hey. I think it means like dancing. You know, like, grinding, or whatever. Also it could mean like sing, or make a song that good.
Ok so me and my friends are wanting to hang out this weekend but we all are flat broke and we need ideas of things to do that won't cost much money. thanks
Hey. Well, if you live in a small town, go to the center of it and go to like the playgrounds and stuff. it sounds really stupid, but it's wicked fun, i do it every weekend :].
hey whats up my names nicole, 15 years old.. kay awesome :] .. lol anyways i was making my boyfriend a cd today cuz he wanted me to make one and he was saying how he loved this eminem cd but he lost it .. but he couldnt think of the album name.. i found a picture of what he said that cd was.. so if anyone knows what album this cd goes to please lemme know :] appreciate it lotssss!!!
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y76/nicOleex3/cd.jpg
Hey. The name of that CD is called ENCORE, I'm pretty sure. hope I helped :].
okay so i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half months. and i feel sooo bad about it. well hes 18 and im only 15. and i got this feeling that he was getting WAY to attached. so i told him that we should stop seeing eachother. the thing is is that hes gunna be moving to cali next yr and i told him that thats why we needed to brake up becuz i didnt want a huge breakup then. but in reality i found another guy who is gorgeous and amaazing to me. does this make me a horrible person?! please help.
thanks. :]
No, that doesn't make you a bad person at all. The purpose of your lie was to help out his feelings, so it's a good lie, I guess you could call it :].
i want to lighten my hair. but i dont want to use dyes.
i heard that you can go outside with lemon juice in your hair and it will lighten it. is it unhealthy for your hair?
if it is, is there a shampoo that i can use that wont dye my hair but lighten it? im dirty blonde and want to be a shade or two lighter.
Hey. I have this stuff, it's called Pantene Pro-V Expressions. There's different lightening powers of it, so you'd have to look at the labels and stuff. It kind of works, but also, go outside, the sun will lighten it. Hope I helped :]. Kathleen.
14/f
ok. i'm average in weight and stuff. but alot of the girls, or my friends, are super skinny, and i wanna lose like 10 pounds, just so i'm close to what they weigh, but i don't look anerexic like them. and we have this huge party coming up, and so yeah. i need to do it fast. like i kinda would like to lose 10 pounds in a week. i know thats tottalyyy unhealthy. but, i don't plan on doing this like 24/7 itll be like a one week thing. soooooo, any ideas?
Hey. Well, I hate to tell you, but you will NEVER lose 10 pounds in a week. The most you could posibly lose is around 3. Even not eating will NOT get you to lose all ten pounds in a week. If you want to lose atleast some weight, you could not eat, but the there's the possibilites of passing out, your parents/guardians finding out/ you getting too addicted to stop fasting, and many other things. If you want to lose even anything close to ten pounds, try not to eat as much, if at all. I know that's really bad advice, but let's get real- you can't continue to eat 3 square meals and lose 10 pounds. Try to eat something, but cut it down by A LOT, and exercise A LOT EVERY single night. Good Luck.