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Friendship.
How can I not think of someone who makes me very upset all the time? What can I do to take away the time I have to think about him? Also, will not talking to him/not seeing him make him want to talk to more? Because I'd rather not see/talk to him anymore once I get him out of my head.
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You answered your own question.
"I'd rather not see/talk to him once you get him out of your head."
To get him out of your head is to NOT see him. NOT talk to him. AVOID him.
Time goes by and that "out of sight-- out of mind" kicks in.
Date other people-- have fun, hang with friends, get involved in other things WHILE avoiding contact with him.
Wait two minutes and everything changes. Nothing is permanent. Everything is in the past a minute later, and everything becomes "history" if not completely forgotten about.
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Hey. Well, for some people, not seeing him anymore would be best. At first, you might miss him a lot, and think about him a lot, but after a while, he begins to mean nothing. As for getting you to not think about him all the time, keep yourself busy. Enroll in sports or after school activities, and hang out with your friends alot [not if he's with them]. It will take a while to get him out of your head, and for you to not care too much about him anymore. Trust me, I know from experience. The most important thing is to stay strong, and when you get upset, don't let your feelings allow you to do something stupid. If you need someone to talk to more about it, I'm here, and I'm sure your friends would be glad to help :]. Good Luck! And stay strong, these things take time!
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