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im confused about a girl at school
hey im m/14 and in grade 9 shes 15 and in grade 10. so anyway i really like this girl at my school and today we went out for lunch together and talked and stuff and when i msg her on msn and asked her if she wanted to go out with me than she said that she liked this other guy but had asked him out and he said maybe so i msg her again and we talked for a bit and we have alot in common and talked a bit more and she said she really did like me and thinks im hot but she is confusing me so can somebody help me?.
this might not make sense so do what you can to help me.
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Don't rush it. Give it time.
If she's seeing another guy, but likes you too, she'll figure out who she wants to see: you or him.
She's talking to you and chatting with you, so the signs are out there she doesn't really like the other guy all that much or she wouldn't be talking to you.
Time. That's the solution. Let the friendship and getting to know each other grow. Be patient. All good things come to those who are patient.
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Ok, I do get your story, because I am a guy myself. But, I would just suggest that you make sure she knows how you feel, and just give her time to think through whatever it is that she needs to. Give her some time to think about what she wants to do, and when she knows, she'll let you know. Hope I've helped..
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course you make sense..this happened to me too with a guy i liked and i just left it and nothing came of it and i really regret that!!
I think you should take her out again,or just go for a walk or something and tel her again that you really do like her and that you think you have loads in common but say thats its completely her choice about what she wants.you'll show her then that youre mature and also she wont feel presured and make the wrong decision!:) Also maybe tel her that you dont really want to be messed around and if she does chose the other guy,then she shouldnt be leading you on as well!!
The other option is that maybe there isnt another guy at all and she's just nervous about saying yes..in that case just give her time and go and have fun and chill-out and she'll soon feel comfortable!:)
Hope this helps and hope you get the girl!
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