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okay so i went out with this guy for like almost a year and we got very sexual, but nvr had sex. and i had to break up with him because he was just way too needy and he basically brought out the worst in me. and we were breaking up and gettin back together alot [all me dumping him, so hes STILL not over it] but neways, we officially stopped everything march of 06. and i did everything i could to get over him but nothing worked. then i went away and saw an old boyfriend [kinda] like he always liked me since we were little and we always had crushs on eachother. but anyways i went away and spend like a week at his house cuz i wanted to see him and he kissed me and we did some stuff but didnt go too far. and i can like honestly picture myself being with him except that he lives like 900 miles away from me. so it kinda sux & its very complicated to explain why things are just very difficult to be like long term with him. but anyways ive started liking [kind of . not sure] a few other guys besides these too. and i just dnt know wat to. because the other guys i like either have a gf. or are like my older brothers friends and theyve known me since i was very little. but yeaa im just not sure if i sure keep trying to continue this relationship with the guy that lives far away. or i just dont know /:
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A long distance relationship at your age can be hard especially since you cant just drive over there whenever you want and stuff (heck its hard even at my age coz I'm not allowed to drive, hehe) but that's not meaning that they don't work because they can.
Thing is, you're also young and you will more than likely go through a lot of changes so your preferences in guys may also change so when you're with someone now who you want to be forever with may not be the person you still see yourself with later in life. You're young and have a lot to experience so that could be why you like so many people, it may just be one of those phases.
All I can say though is firstly the guys who all have girlfriends - forget about them. Liking them is okay because you can't jsut turn that off but as for actually going out with them or doing stuff with them, that might be out the question since they are taken already. As for the other ones if they like you as well then by all means you have nothing stopping you from seeing them (dating but not actually going out with) and that way you're still free to date others too and see who you really do like and potentially hook up with if that's what you're looking for.
The guy whos 900 miles away - if you really do like him then see what he says. YOu may not see yourself with him in the long term but for now, if you want to be with him then why not. As I said, you've a lot to experience so yourpreferences and such will change as you go. It's very rare that someone at your agegoes out with someone and then ends up staying with them throughout their life. It happens, just not all that often. Long distance can be a big strain on trust as well because you never know what he might be doing so far away and vice-versa but having been through long distance relationships myself I didn't think bad of them or anything provided there's trust between you both.
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