Should I be worried by my loss of the "good" emotions as they are. Empathy, love, symnpathy all those are lessening each day some I don't even feel at all anymore. Should I be worried though I don't seem to care much at all about them?
um i dont think that you should be worried just be aware of what's going on, you dont want to continue to lose your loss of emotions because it can make you really depressed and things like that and you dont want to be that way it can also cause a sense of lonliness and thats not good so my advice is to just know that this is happening and if it gets worst you should do something about it
kk hope i helped:)
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whats consider cheeting? i just wanna know thanks.. im a 15 year old girl!!
cheating is when the person that your dating flirts "talks" or kisses another person... think about it if there in a relationship with you then they shouldnt be focused on someone else only you. i think personally flirting is considered cheating some people dnt bt i do because if they have you then why flirt with someone else know what i mean ?
kk hope i helped :)
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What is a cute nickname for my boyfriend? His name is brody. PLEASE help!:)
it doesn't necessarily have to be from his name some cute nicknames for a boyfriend are
cupcake
babe
pookie bear
booski
snookie lol i call my boyfriend pookie bear i think its cute (:
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I have been having a lot of stumoch pain and it it just getting worse. The pain also involes my legs and migranes. The pain in my stumoch hurts mostly after I eat certain food and it hurts my upper stumoch. But like right now im having lower adominal pain and it hurts on and off I get back pain. I am only 19 and i feel like im 90
i think you should go see a doctor about why this keeps happening
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i am 11 yeas old and i asked him out and my bff asked him out after i did and he sed yes what shold i do ????????????????????????????????
i think you should forgive your friend i'm sure you will find someone way better then this boy in the future you have your whole life ahead of you to focuse on guys. I'm sure you will find a better guy who will treat you right. The right guy will come along then your friend might get jealous when he's in your arms and not hers.
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I am wondering is Beauty online School is a good idea??? I see it is very affordable but i wanted to know if its worth it and can actually learn from it.. if so.. what are good online schools??
i think that it would be better if you didn't do it online because if you want to do beauty its more hands on. its better to do actual hair then seeing it be done on line i think it will be more benifical if you did it hands on because you will learn more and it will be more fun then just sitting there doing it online
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Is it a bad thing if i never got my cherry popped?
noo its not bad at all its good that you havent had your cherry popped depending on your age and the way you feel about yourself it shows that you have respect for yourself to wait i think its good
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20female.
I need help with some dirty talk!
Whether its during sex or even just texting ..for some reason I can't think of anything new and exciting!
yourt nasty
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This girl I am sort of dating (we are casually dating but havent given each other the title) has a birthday the day after Christmas. She has never enjoyed her birthday, and it always seems to take second place to the holiday.
She told me over the summer that if someone was to actually give her a good birthday, she would be overwhelemed and remember it forever.
I want to give her a great day to show her how much I care... but also to show her maybe I am the person who is willing to give her the "title" suggestions?
a promise ring maybe something speacil that comes from the heart you could also make her something just give her something that you think she will love it depends on the age how old is she ?
just make it from the heart and thats the thought that really counts.
hope i helped (:
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for three years now and we're completely bored with our sex life. I'm still in love with him and as is he, but we want something fresh in the relationship. Don't get us wrong, we still enjoy making love, but we just want to spice it up a little. Any suggestions?
experiment with new things try different sex positions or things like that oral annal etc maybe its boring because you guys arent making it fun trying calling him some sexy names lol
hope i helped (:
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i was wondering if a guy can pop your cherry just by fingering you? is that possible?
yes it is possible depending how long it is lol and if he knows what he's doing
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17/F
I have a friend who i've grew up with in a church we still go to. well my b'day was a few weeks ago and the day b4 i broke up with my boyfriend (bf) and about two weeks b4 my friend (lets call him john) broke up with his girlfriend (gf). well for the past month and a 1/2 i havent been to church(i know shame on me, but it's been alot going on), so one last sunday john calls me & fusses at me because i keep saying i'll go but i don't
so john and i wound up talkin all day. during our conversation he told me about the alabama vs. florida football game and how his family is into college football and they have these party's like every saturday, and he invites me and i agreed to go. he also tells me he likes me. (yes i like him) (fast foward) so its saturday and like around 6:00 he sends his sister to come and get me because he had to run and get the food for the "party".
when she comes and get me my mom is ok with me going because she knows i grew up with him & his family in our church. when i get there his whole family is there and i feel almost out of place because i don't see him. so his sister leads me to him and then asks do i wanna go out side, so we go out side. so we walk aroud and then ended up in his back yard talking for like an hour. then he had to run to the store so i rode with him.
when we got back we sat in his truck (for the record i'm 17 he's 16 but he'll be 17 in feb.)so i grab a CD and just poped it in and the only thing that was playing on the CD was slow music. instead of turning we listened to it and kept talking(you may already know where i'm going with this) so john asks me "have you ever wanted to do something but your not sure wat the reaction or after affect will be" i said "yeah i kind feel like that right now" then i aske wat is it you wanna do?" (long story short) he kissed me, even though i liked & wanted to, i pulled away.
well, i tried not to look at him but whin i did "I" kissed him. next thing i knew we were at his cousin's house around the corner having sex... (fast FWD) when we went back to his house everyting was normal except the fact we were trying to hide what just happened. when i left his house we talked that night and we both made the same coment "wow, i can't believe wat happened, we've known each other for so long and... i would've never guessed" so sunday (this past sunday) i go to church, because i made a promise to go, and i'm sitting in the church alone and he walks in and it felt weird to be THERE, NEXT TO HIM... usuall we are trying to keep eachother up but this past sunday we could bearly keep our eyes open. (and if your wondering yes we are "suppose to be" going our/ talking)
so later last night (sunday night) we are on he phone and he says " it felt weird sitting next to you" and i was speachless because i felt the same way. well the thing is every day he texts me even in school and i realized today his signature says "!(SINGLE)!" but i don't know if its "still ther because of his past relationship, or if he only consider us as friends.
i'm sorry my story is so long, but o need answers because i don't know what to do. i feel like if i ask him then our "relatonship" or "friendship" (which ever one we have) will be completely tarnished. so what do i do? please help me, i ned answers, i'm so lost.
okay well im sorry about your situation and the way you feel. maybe you guys felt like it was werid to sit next to each other in church because you knew what happend before (sex) maybe you both felt some type of guilty do you like him? i think that you should open up to him and tell him how you feel because if you dont it will only make things worst dont make it ovious though jus like work your way around the situation i think that the whole single thing might have been from his past relationship i mean if you guys talk everyday like you said then there must oviously be something there.. if he's who you think he is then if you guys talk about what happend and how you feel then i dnt think that your friendship/ relationship with end i well i hope the best for you i hope i helped (:
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i really need help
how do i tell a guy i like him without sonuding pushy or nervous
just show him touch his arm and flirt with him alot. if you want to tell him you like him first off i think that you should show him that you like him because sometime that can help maybe he will start flirting back with you too but if you really want to tell him you like him i think you should start by saying hey your really cool and i think your cute and he will get the piont across that you oviously like him. i personally think that you should just show him that you like him rather then tell him because he might show you that he likes you back too well i hope i helped (:
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i had sex for the first time and my cherry was popped.
he came but i didnt.
how do i make it so i can orgasm and enjoy sex?
i really didnt like it.
maybe you were to tense and scared just because it was your first time cause tht could b a reason. some girls actually dnt like having sex for various amout of reason maybe you should try it again and see how it goes but remember always be safe when it comes down to sex. my advice toy uo would to be jus lossen up and not be so tense the more relax you are then the more you will prbably have fun.. well i hope i help (:
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My title says it all, really. I feel like my crush likes me, I've read when you think he likes you, trust your instinct, you're usually right if you truly believe it. But, I want second opinions. So, I'll bullet some things that make me think he likes me and you can tell me what you think! Thanks so much!
-I was upset that he didn't walk with to class after he walked with me for three days, so when he was in front of me because I got out of class late, he turned around and said he was waiting for me and when I caught up to him, we were walking to class together and he was running into me a lot.
-when we walked to class, he told he my hair looked awesome because I curled it and it looked different than the normal straight.
-I was joking around that he hates me because every time my friends and I make plans to hang out, he has to do something. So, I told him since we don't talk anymore, he probably hates me and he looked right into my eyes and said "I don't hate you at all"
-My crush's best friend, me and my best friend were all talking and I guess he felt left out with his group that he was talking to because he came over and talked to us.
-I catch him looking at me a lot and when I look at him, he doesn't quick look away.
-He was playing with a wiffle ball and a bat with his friend and I was joking with him that if he hits me with the ball, I'm gonna be so mad and he actually did hit me. He put the bat down, held out his arms and walked to me and hugged me. Then a few minutes later, he called me into the room room he was in and hugged me again because he felt bad.
-He came over and told me something and put his arm on my shoulder when he was telling the story.
-My best friend and his best friend (mentioned in another bullet above) were talking and my best friend asked if he knows who my crush likes and his friend said "Why does (my name) like him?"
-My best friend and my crush were talking and she told him that this really weird girl we are all aquainted with has a crush on him and he said "ew, I would never do that." then my friend said he asked if I had a crush on him.
We are both 16, I am female, he is male. Haha.
Do you think he likes me?
Thank you!
yes he likes you he's flirting with you right now and you are flirting back i think you guys are made for each other. sometimes guys are hard to figure out but when yu do figure them out you will understand. i think thats cute how you told him to hit you with a bat and then he actually hit you then hugged you i started laugh because the same thing happend to me but with my ex he shot something at me then i got mad then he came over and hugged me haha so yeah you gave me a little flash back but anyways i think you should def go after the boy you like but before you guys start dating in stuff maybe you should find out a little more about him you knw? well i hoped i helped (:
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Okay. I may just start writing you on here since i get on like all the time. But Sorry for not mentioning my age. I just turned 19 this month. So I believe im older then you but hey, any advice is well appreciated, no matter the age. But Im bi-racial and i some how have SOOOO many problems..lol. But The first is with my friends. I just cant seem to break from them! Sounds crazzi right?.. But trust me I have a perfectly good explantion for it. I just feel like Ive out grown my friends...Idk. Its like im no longer interested in their stories or the way they live their lives. I knw that the way they live their lives have nothing to do with me but i cant help but to think their out to get me!...Yea it sounds crazzi but its true. Nothing good have come to me with having friends like them....Ugh,\. I just dont know what to do when their txting me and calling and all. Would you consider me to be wishy washy ans a bad friend..?? What Iam I suppose to do?!. I just simply Want New Friends..
Well in my opioin if you think that your friends are doing the wrong thing then you should make them become your assisates you know someone who you could jus say hi and by to don't let them take over your live and allow them to take you over because you are better then that. If you feel that you need new friends then go out and make some new friends it may be hard at first bt i thinky uo can do it. and when they call you and text you all the time just tell them that your busy doing something else i mean if it gets to the point where they keep texting you and calling you constatly maybe you should cahnge your number. And if you still wanted to be their friends then maybe yu should talk to them about the sistauation you know like say i dont like when you do this i think you guys are acting immiature and if they dnt like what you have to say then maybe you guys really should be frienda a relationship is about honesty and trust and no your nt wishy washy you want whats best fro your self well i hope i help hope i hear back from you (:
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Hey Iris, My Name is monique and im the one that was seeking "A Steady Advice Partner"...and I have good news, you are the one that i have choosen!!! woot woot! lol..but no seriously, i got some reply's to my search and i was pissed. Lots of people were given me attitude for wanting to just have one particular person that i wrote to but hey, who cares right. I just dont wanna have to wait for someone to read my question and maybe answer it. And besides I looked at your column and read some very good advice that you have given. You seem to knw what your talking about and I would love to get your veiw on somethings if you dont mind. Oh and I knw that this isnt a question but i didnt knw how to inbox you.....?? So if you have an email,facebook,or any other direct way that i can write you that would be fine. Thanx Hun!
haha yay ! woot woot ! how old are yuu and yaa i have a msn its irisbaby@live.com or i have a yahoo iris_16_princess@yahoo.com and yaa i have a facebook and right who care people are lame haha bt thanks for choosing me i LOVE giving people advice so i would really love to hear back from you either through this email facebook whatever it doesnt matter so ya in the email or whatever just tell me who you are kk (:
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My BFF is dating this boy for the past 2 or like 3 weeks. We're both 14 but she's ALMOST 15. She told me today that the boy that is her boyfriend is in 7th grade. I'm think she's robbing the cradle, as they say, but who knows. She said he's so mature for a seventh grader. IDK. How old are 7th graders usually? I can't remember how old I was then for sure LOL
12 or 13 lol =D
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Okay I have decided That i want a STEADY advice buddy which means that i want to have one specific person (that actually LOVE giving advice) That i can write to wheneva i need advice. Im senseing that some of the advicee that is giving to me is not serious. I wont someone that will actually think the advice that they are about to give to me and not go off their own disappointments. Example: If I ask someone what should i do about my boyfriend I dont want the response to be...(FORGET HIM!!! HE'S NOT WORTH IT) Just because that person have had some problems in their relationship. I wont a person that I can send direct msgs to. I also want someone that wont take FOREVER to respond bacc because I really do need help on some situations. So please, if you feel as if you can be a great advice buddy then please respond. Thanks
me me me =] ! i LOVE giving advice and i am on this site every single day check out my page i love love love giving advice lol i havent been through alot bt i see alot that goes on in the world so i'll b able to help yu =D soo if you think i sound intresting then hit me up p.s im 17/f
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so i am a 16 year old boy living in Massachusetts. So i had a friend who lived next door to me from like age 10-13, and we were BEST FRIENDS. We did everything together, and i really looked up to him. He moved away when i was 13, but then visited me when i was 15. We kind of fell in love, or at least i fell in love with him. Then this last April i visited him, and we kinda hooked up, but it was purely me doing things to him, but like he asked for them. After that the only thing he ever said to me is "i hate you, never speak to me again. Your a sick fag, get out of my life.". I don't know how to get over this, its crushing me. I was absolutely in love with him.
wait what? im confused so he told you to do things with him bt he didnt really want you too? he just wanted to see if you really liked him? and what he said thats dirty shaking my head why would he say something like that?? but anyways to get over the break up there are a couple things you can do
1 dont think about what happend jus think about all the good times you guys have had togehter.
2dont b sad be happy because it happend
3 live for the moment dnt live in the past im sure that you will find some one who will treat you right =] ! you have your whole life your only 16 ! your young just because you "thought" you loved him doesnt mean it was actually love. you know sometimes our minds play with us we dont really no what love is when we are young and until you find the right person mr right is out there somewhere for you keep your head up k i have hope in you hope i helpedd =]]] !
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