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whats cheeting??


Question Posted Friday March 18 2011, 1:33 pm

whats consider cheeting? i just wanna know thanks.. im a 15 year old girl!!

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rainbowcherrie answered Friday March 25 2011, 11:08 am:
For me, anything you wouldn't do with someone else in front of your partner. So ask yourself 'Would I do this in front of my partner?' Would he/she be okay with this?' If the answer is no then you can probably consider that cheating.

Personally, I'd be annoyed if a boyfriend of mine went any further than a friendly hug and peck on the cheek with another girl.

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a13d answered Saturday March 19 2011, 12:50 pm:
Cheating like in a relationship is when lets say your boy or girl friend flirts, kisses, or goes out with another person besides you. Pretty much the same as two timming like when your going out with someone and there not only going out with u but someone else. Hope I helped(:

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iloveyoubabyy004 answered Friday March 18 2011, 7:00 pm:
cheating is when the person that your dating flirts "talks" or kisses another person... think about it if there in a relationship with you then they shouldnt be focused on someone else only you. i think personally flirting is considered cheating some people dnt bt i do because if they have you then why flirt with someone else know what i mean ?

kk hope i helped :)

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Razhie answered Friday March 18 2011, 6:29 pm:
I can't give you a definite definition for that.

'Cheating' is the breaking of an agreement or a violation of rules.

Every relationship has slightly different 'rules' and different agreements.

Some couples would see going out for dinner with a member of the opposite sex as 'cheating'. Some wouldn't even define sleeping with another person as cheating because their agreement allows for sexual experiences with others!

So, with every relationship you enter into, you need to ask yourself these questions:

What are the 'rules' I choose to follow and which of them do I expect my partner to follow?

What is the agreement we have established?
(This is an IMPORTANT ONE! If someone ‘cheats' on you and you forgive him or her again and again, that is an agreement! You have AGREED to forgive them regardless of their cheating ways. Be very wary of what sort of agreements you come to with your partner.)

Have my partner and I talked about our respective rules and what we believe the agreement to be? Do we agree, or at least respect one another’s 'rules' and can live with the disagreements?

What 'cheating' is will vary different in every relationship you have. It will depend on your maturity, your level of trust and on your partner. When I was thirteen, holding another’s hand seemed like a serious offense, now pecks, lingering hugs, and even crushes and harmless flirting don’t faze me in the least. My definition of cheating has evolved and I less arbitrary rules, and a better understanding of what true betrayal looks like.

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