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Decreased love life.
24/F
I'll make this as quick as I can. But I figure some initial information may help in answering the question, so please forgive me if it seems long.
I've been in a relationship with my mate for 3 years, it's been wonderful. He is a 30 year old healthy male, his diet and overall routine has not changed. Our "love" life however has not been what it use to be. I'll be lucky anymore if we make love once a month. When we do make love it doesn't last long anymore. It use to last at least 30+ minutes, now I'll be lucky if it lasts for 5 minutes. There are days I've been "in the mood" and he'll say he isn't. Then the following day, I'll see in the website history that he had looked at adult videos and photos after I've fallen asleep. This is beginning to get to me. Nothing else has gotten bad. He's still caring and loving towards me. Just not in that department. I would like advice. Any helpful advice honestly would be greatly appreciated.
-Thank you for your time, cooperation and patience.
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Sounds like the guy has gotten bored, Find more interesting things to do together. Talk to him, Ask him what his fantasies are and express yours. If you two need too go to the sex store together and find things you two might enjoy. Hell, If he isn't willing to do that then it may be time to move on. Every dude looks at porn but when it becomes obsessive...You've got yourself a problem.
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my guess is he's gotten bored. perhaps you should try to spice things up. of course, it takes two, so I'd suggest an upfront conversation about it.
-Gunner
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