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Me and My exboyfriend have been flirting alot, at least we have in my eyes and according to my friends and about EVERYONE else he still has feelings for me some even say he loves me, I love him (he broke up with me) and even our teachers are telling us we should get back together its weird I mean I want to very badly and I jsut wanted to know how I should go about bringing this up again or sonething
Thank you so much, I rate,
~defiant romance (link)
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well just say something like . " have you ever thought about us getting back together?" The worst he can say is no. and if he does then just say ok you were just wondering. If he says yes then tell him how you feel.
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I stopped dressing up for places but now I want to but I dont know how to put anything together now. I'm tired of wearing a sweater and sweatpants. I need help. I dont know what colors would look good on me. I'm light tanned. I have dark brown/black hair. I'm short and not really chubby. Any suggestions of colors/clothes (certain color shirt/jeans/skirt) ? Pictures of outfits would help. I can't ask my friends because they aren't interested in fashion. (link)
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Try different shades of pink. My friend has a natural tanned look and she looks great in pink.
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I want to become a nicer person and stop judging people and gossiping about them behind their backs. I constantly find myself doing these things even after I promised my self that I wouldn't. I've lost friends because of me being like this, and I want to be someone others can trust and be someone they can call a good friend. Do you guys have any tips on how to become that type of person? (link)
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I think you should become friends or an aqquantance maybe to some one youd normally would gossip about or judge. Because then when you get to know them youll start to look past their flaws. SO then when youd talk to other people or see other people will flaws you wont notice as much and youll look past it!
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just to add that between those days of accident i was having those dream of a small child i was suppose to look after run in the sea. i was trying to save her but i just coudn't. i coundn't even reach her.and she dround in big waves on sea shore.
could this been the meaning of my dream? (link)
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It could be. The subconcious part of the brain knows a lot more than our concious part does. Unfourtanately it may tell us things that we dont understand. All you can do is try to piece little clues together but i dont doubt your dream has a meaning!
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(I'm bi incase you're wondering)
Okay so My exboyfriend and me have been on rocks with each other lately so I started dating my current girlfriend even though I'm completely in love with my ex and so today me and him skipped school together like we did when we used to date and he apologized for everything that has been happening between us and of course I'm happy that we are talking again you know? But the problem is after we sorted thigns out we were all comfortable with each other again, we've been really close even after the break up and according to everyone the reasons he started the fights was becuase he was jealous of me dating my girlfriend because according to everyone he wants to be with me, and I want to be with him more then anything (he's the one who dumped me)and so today we were just hanging out like friends do, we sat in Barnes and Noble and talked for hours and then went to the green where I had to catch my city bus to drivers ed and while he waited with me I kinda laid my head in his lap and he seemed hesitant at first then he just slid his fingers gently through my hair like he used to ... I'm so confused right now becuase when I told him I was in love with him he pushed me away (he has issues with people becuase no one has treated him right untill me) but yet everyones telling me he's jsut scared and that the only time he seems happy is when he's with me ... I dont know what to do anymore becuase he wont tell me how he feels ... can comeone help me with my issues please
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Sounds like he likes you and maybe hes not ready for a very serious relationship. He wants to take things slow. He sounds really scared and maybe shy i think you should sit down and talk to him about it all and say to lay it all out on the table.If your in love with him then you in love with him and honestly there is something there.!
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14/f/ 130 pounds
so i want to be a boxer but everyone laughs when i say that becuz they think im to small but boxing isnt about being huge you just gotta be quick.but i also wanna work on my muscles so i can hit harder so i need someways to git stronger other then workin out becuz i have no way to work out unless i got to my boyfriends house which wont be happening everyday. so what are sum ways i can git stronger???i rate high. (link)
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Eat healthier and do some cardio at home. Like the tapes you can buy for back and biceps.
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I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something? (link)
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Well the chances are lower with oral sex really. Plus he was the one and only boy you fooled around with right? They only way i would be worried about it is if you have susupiciouns that hes done a lot more with many other girls before you. I wouldnt worry about it too much.
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My best (girl) friends keep bugging me to ask out this guy who is my friend also. I really like him and all but I don't want to lose my friendship with him...but if I don't ask him my friends said that they would ask him out for me. How am I supposed to tell my friends to back off without seeming harsh?
-Confuzzled (link)
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Sit them down and seriously tell them you dont want to and ask if theyd really want you to do something you dont want to do knowing you wouldnt feel right
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My friend is mad at me. The details don't really matter but my main problem is I think she's going to tell my social studies teacher that I didn't help with other project. That is not true but she can be a real bitch sometimes and it's not under her to do something like that. I helped her find most of the information and pick out different things for our project I just couldn't put it together. How can I keep her from telling my teacher that I didn't help? Oh I don't really care if she's mad at me because she's a bad friend anyway. (link)
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talk to your teacher also
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ok i didnt know what category to pick so i just picked one.. ok me and my friends all want to do something on new years eve but we cant figure out what.... help us out..... ps. we are all 15... and i mean there are parties and stuff but i dont wanna go to em...unless its last resort.. any advice???? (link)
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Just get together and get cute things like little hats and fake champagne and have a sleep over!.
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hey i am stuck between two guys. not really but i have a boyfriend who i care alot about and he is actually good to me. well my ex who i fell for hard messaged me last night. he said he was sorry for all the things that he said about me and he wants me to choose between him or my boyfriend. see michael the ex we went out for a while and we even got to the point where we wanted to have a baby. and i stopped taking my birth control for him and i bent over backwards for him. and now i dont know what to do. i thought i put him in the past but i didnt all these feelings came back. but now i dont want to have to choose but imy heart is so confused. i care alot for my boyfriend now. i think about what we have and how good he is to me and how much he cares for me and then i look at michael and think god i could have a family with him but too young. and i loved him and he loves me. i done everything for him. i am so confused. please help me and if anybody has a smartass comment about it then dont write me. i want someone to help me not tell me i am dumb
Well g2g love ~me~ (link)
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Well theres a good quote. "an Ex is an EX for a reason". Obviously there is something about yous that just doesnt click. I honestly wouldn't do it because you dont know what could happen between you and this boyfriend you have when you already knwo what has happened with the EX. Then if it doesnt work out with the EX youll be left wondering what the other guy would be like.
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Hi everyone!
My name is Todd, and I am a 15-year-old teenager. Well, my question is whether or not I should take the next step. Let me explain.
About close to a year ago, I met this girl, Andrea, in my Freshman year, and she and I didn't date, but we were good friends. We were both the same age, but I was about a month older. Through the months, we knew more and more about each other from our last names to what candy we like.
As strange as it seems, I've never had a relationship, much less my first kiss. I am trying to see if Andrea likes me or not, but more than a friendship. Some relationships can be harsh, so I don't want to try that, but I just want to know if she has the same or at least similar feelings that I do for her.
I am always glad to be around her, and sometimes I hang around her more than some of my other friends. I've also noticed that when I am with her at lunch, she wants these other girls at the table to go away, since they're annoying, but I'm not sure if it's just because she wants to be alone with me or something, since she and I usually sit alone.
As far as hanging out goes, she and I have hung out at my home once, and we've seen each other at school. I've been trying to hang out with her more, but she has a dysfunctional family which makes it tough for us to hang out on weekends. She is also depressed, so I try to help her through it.
I have been trying to show her that I love her by telling her that I care about her, how much I do care about her, and by doing things for her, like buying her gifts or getting things for her. Whoa, lot of "her"s in that one. Well, anyway, she never freaks out, but she always smiles and sometimes nods her head up and down a little bit. She might say things like "that's nice" or "thanks", but I never really can tell if she is nervous or anxious. I remember when I told her that I did really care about her, she smiled but she kind of laughed, and she said "I'm sorry for laughing...".
So, I would like to ask if I should take the next step and try asking her out. My parents have said I shouldn't because of her family, and some of my friends have said to go for it, just because she's single.
Thanks for reading this.
Todd (link)
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Well...dont just buy things for her all the time that can get kind of annoying and she needs a friend not material things. Just point blankly ask her " can u ever see us together?" The worse thing she can say is NO..
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i hate feeling like you dont know who you are .you look around and everyone has there own thing and they dont care about anyone else i dont know where i stand im lonely and im not really i dont think i love all my friends and i care deeply for them (not a lebian)and that has nothing to do with my question .why do i fell like i dont know who i am ??lost like i have no where to turn in life stuck in the one plzce i hate most and i cant get out .im a 13 year old girl with many friends a few enemys and everyone likes me .i have had no boyfriends and im not planning on haveing any ,anytime soon .i like alot of music i like music that means something like green day,kelly clarkson ,punk hiphop that kind of music it feels like im expersing myself that way .when a proublen comes i dont cut ,i kinda bottle it in but write poems about it and let me closest friends read them .they say i have alot of potential and i always love a complament .but who i am thats what i dont know and i know that i cant just say a few words and all my problems will be gone but it feels liek i cant tell anyone anything i cant tell them but i cnat let them read it and this really has nothing to do with friendship but i dint think of anything else please help i dont kno who i am and i cant have you guys giving me the answers but ..................who else can ??
i also liked this guy named tuckermen but i dont anymore he called me fat witch i am i wiegh 140 pounds and i have a pot belly my friend kayliegh is putting the moves on him and i hate that but why should i care i HATE tucker and it will never cange and im ganna stop typing before i start writing a book and i write stories ,poems and pictures i expes myself the best way i know how help me please
miss.lost
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Its normal...It sounds strange but its true i went through the whole thing...i have a poem book i used to write n im 17 and i still write sometimes. It will get better because right now your goin through so many changes and your not sure where you belong ya know? Just dont bottle it up talk to someone. KEEP WRITING!! The only time you need to worry is when you have suicidal thoughts alright? TRUST ME i went through the same thing. Your at an akward stage. Dont worry about your weight because your going to get taller and youll kinda grow into i guess you could say. If your EVER want to talk...someone just to spout to e-mail me PLEASE!! Sugarcultdismay@aol.com
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Im sick and i have been for the last 3 days...I dont knw wat i have and i would really like to knw so maybe i can treat it and get better b4 christmas eve/christmas day. here are my symptoms: sore throat, stuffy nose, headache, coughing, stiff neck, getting the chills when i dont take medicine like tylenol for awhile,and not being able to sleep. my mom wont take me to the doctor, the thing that i would love to be without is the sore throat all the other stuff i can deal with. wat should i do?
thnx i rate 5 to anyone who tries! (link)
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You have the flu
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Why does your throat hurt when you are about to cry? (link)
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because its straining and it gets tight and tenses up.
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okay my aim has been acting weird ant i cant stand it! okay heres what happens my buddylists groups close and then a link is sent to all my buddy's and i can't control it. please give me advice. I rate 5's for really good advice. (link)
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you have a virus
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ok ive been having cramps i think are they REALLY REALLY sharp pains in like your under stomache abd it hurts to walk but i havent started my periode yet is this normal it hurts alot ive skipped gym because if it hidding in te stall with my friend and im scared im ganna et cought and hes ganna ask me why havent i been in gym for like 3 days what am i saposed to say "i have cramp ?!" no (link)
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Well it could mean that your soon gonna have your period or.....it could mean you have endimetrosis...I have that and i get sharp pains like that ....Its nothing REALLY serious alot of people have it. It has something to do with your falopian tubes and ovaries or something.. If your really worried about it then after your period starts go to a gyno and theyll check you out. But its nothing to worry about and it doesnt affect your life to the point you cant do anything. But wait to worry until you get your period and see if the pains stop.
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Ok I wash my hair like every week because I put lot's of gel and stuff in it and I also straighten and curl different bits of it e.g. pack the back and do a little curly fringe at the front.any way I'm black so I have naturally tough hair but I permed it so it's straight but I've got a lot of split ends and my hair is always cutting but people are always telling me it looks good and I know it looks good and I like that but it only looks good because I use gel but I don't want to use gel any more because I want my hair to grow but how can I make my hair grow quick and still look good? I RATE 'S FOR ALL REASONABLE ANSWERS (link)
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Use really good conditioners to get all that stuff out of it and to add the minerals back to your hair. But i would recommend talking to your hair stylist! Maybe you could cut down on the gel if possible..
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okay i have a total big problem with biting my fingernails..i want to stop but i don`t know how. its like a bad habit i have tried to stop but couldn`t..sorry sounds sooo weird.. (link)
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Well When i want to bite mine i twirl my hair...not to the point i knot it up n pull it out but i just play with it. Keep your fingers busy.!!
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Is it a total turn off to guys if a gurl dosent walk the same (sright normal ,but still can walk and dance) way. But i mean she can still talk and is nice and stuff and has average body? Ill rate five for thought out anser. (link)
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Depends on the guy. You cant help who you fall for.as long as shes a good person then if a guy gets to know her he may fall for her n when he does things like that wont bother him.
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