Question Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 8:39 pm
(I'm bi incase you're wondering)
Okay so My exboyfriend and me have been on rocks with each other lately so I started dating my current girlfriend even though I'm completely in love with my ex and so today me and him skipped school together like we did when we used to date and he apologized for everything that has been happening between us and of course I'm happy that we are talking again you know? But the problem is after we sorted thigns out we were all comfortable with each other again, we've been really close even after the break up and according to everyone the reasons he started the fights was becuase he was jealous of me dating my girlfriend because according to everyone he wants to be with me, and I want to be with him more then anything (he's the one who dumped me)and so today we were just hanging out like friends do, we sat in Barnes and Noble and talked for hours and then went to the green where I had to catch my city bus to drivers ed and while he waited with me I kinda laid my head in his lap and he seemed hesitant at first then he just slid his fingers gently through my hair like he used to ... I'm so confused right now becuase when I told him I was in love with him he pushed me away (he has issues with people becuase no one has treated him right untill me) but yet everyones telling me he's jsut scared and that the only time he seems happy is when he's with me ... I dont know what to do anymore becuase he wont tell me how he feels ... can comeone help me with my issues please
<3 Rae
Additional info, added Wednesday January 11 2006, 9:18 pm: We also passed by a flower shop and I saw my favorite flower which is white daiseys and so I was like "Those are my favorite" and he's like "REALLY" even though I know I've told him more then once this is the first time it seemed he listened and I was like "Yeah I love their simplicity" and he started walking by my side again with a little smile .... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ilovehissmile answered Thursday January 12 2006, 6:52 pm: Sounds like he likes you and maybe hes not ready for a very serious relationship. He wants to take things slow. He sounds really scared and maybe shy i think you should sit down and talk to him about it all and say to lay it all out on the table.If your in love with him then you in love with him and honestly there is something there.! [ ilovehissmile's advice column | Ask ilovehissmile A Question ]
CreepyGothBarbie answered Thursday January 12 2006, 12:04 am: Well, to me it seems he really does have feelings for you.
Of course you don't want to hurt anyone in the process, but maybe it's what you should do. Be with him that is.
And there's always that passion in the beginning of the relationship and it just goes back to how it was.
But I think he's really starting to realize that you honestly care for him, and I think he's just about ready to accept that.
I say you should give it another chance, because I believe that's what he wants. Ok, so maybe he'll hurt you again...but it's that or always wondering "what if I took the chance...?" [ CreepyGothBarbie's advice column | Ask CreepyGothBarbie A Question ]
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