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why do girls think that because i talk to alot of girls im a player? (link)
Just to let you know...I was joking.

Eh, to be honest...I don't think they realize it, but they can just be hypocritical sometimes.

Sadly, though you can't hang with a friend of the opposite sex (or even the same sex, depending upon your first impression) without people automatically thinking there's more to that relationship.

If they're not more than a friend, they have to be family!..says society.

I was with my friend, Michael and this guy asked me "So are you a sister, wife, girlfriend...?" Umm...FRIEND! And what the-!!! WIFE?!?!

Anyway, that's how society sees things...even if they don't really realize it.


(I'm bi incase you're wondering)

Okay so My exboyfriend and me have been on rocks with each other lately so I started dating my current girlfriend even though I'm completely in love with my ex and so today me and him skipped school together like we did when we used to date and he apologized for everything that has been happening between us and of course I'm happy that we are talking again you know? But the problem is after we sorted thigns out we were all comfortable with each other again, we've been really close even after the break up and according to everyone the reasons he started the fights was becuase he was jealous of me dating my girlfriend because according to everyone he wants to be with me, and I want to be with him more then anything (he's the one who dumped me)and so today we were just hanging out like friends do, we sat in Barnes and Noble and talked for hours and then went to the green where I had to catch my city bus to drivers ed and while he waited with me I kinda laid my head in his lap and he seemed hesitant at first then he just slid his fingers gently through my hair like he used to ... I'm so confused right now becuase when I told him I was in love with him he pushed me away (he has issues with people becuase no one has treated him right untill me) but yet everyones telling me he's jsut scared and that the only time he seems happy is when he's with me ... I dont know what to do anymore becuase he wont tell me how he feels ... can comeone help me with my issues please
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Well, to me it seems he really does have feelings for you.

Of course you don't want to hurt anyone in the process, but maybe it's what you should do. Be with him that is.

And there's always that passion in the beginning of the relationship and it just goes back to how it was.

But I think he's really starting to realize that you honestly care for him, and I think he's just about ready to accept that.

I say you should give it another chance, because I believe that's what he wants. Ok, so maybe he'll hurt you again...but it's that or always wondering "what if I took the chance...?"


Well you see i'm in love with this girl.....
She's totally awesome. I love her so much that i can't really be happy without her......
BUT there's this problem.....you see she lives all the way down in Dallas TX!
I want to be with her at all times but you know thats a bit of a long walk......
can you help me out? (link)
Well, depending upon your ages...it may take a while for you to be able to see her, but if she is as awesome as you say she is, then maybe you two can wait a little longer until there is a time you can see each other.

I wish I could help. I'm sure she loves you as well.


Okay, Why do guys care so much about a girls weight? Like skinny isnt in right now..and yeah thats a fact if ya believe it or not..most guys want meat on their girls bodies but why would they care? Like, I want a fit guy but a want some meat on him..i dont want him to be all ugh. I just wanna kno why they care!!??

I rate high

xox,
Confused

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Not all guys care about girl's weight. A lot of them think they do until they fall in love with a girl that is the opposite of what they want.

But if you'd like to know why some guys care about weight...It's probably the same reason you care. Sorry, to be blunt, but what you have said is just as shallow.


Hey,
Im 14 and im in love with your neighbor. i like my boyfriend a lot, though. and this really nice senior who goes to my school and my church. is it bad to like all of them at once?
Thanks for your help! (link)
No, it's not bad. As long as there's no cheating going on of course.

I know that I've been like that before. Besides, this is high school! There will be mistakes and experiences that need to happen!

But no, nothing's wrong with that.


is human moral an instinct or an learned behavior?

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You know...I think it varies from person to person.

Or...I'm kind of leaning towards a learned behavior, because most of the time you have to show kids what's right and what's wrong.

I'm not sure. That's a tough one. Maybe there are those who are born with that instinct.


i have really bony knees and I notice that every one elses are a normal shape. Is there any way i can tone down to make them fit the rest of my body? ehre is some info if u need it...


my Weight- 102 approx.

my age-13

i am thin and healthy

Thanks!


~maya (link)
Well, it may also help to know your height, but for your age 102 lbs is not a good weight.

Just make sure your eating healthy. Don't eat just junk food to gain weight, that's not good for you either.




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