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My names Kellie. Umm..I think I give good advice but Im not sure. Let me know
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Member Since: December 13, 2005
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Last Update: December 14, 2005
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Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?

♥ Thanks.
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I think you shouldnt get her a gift card. No offense but shes your best friend. Get her some cute jewelry or maybe you 2 can go out together and maybe get like a manicure/pedicure and go out to eat and go shopping. I know I like when my friends do that for me instead of getting me a gift. Cause getting a gift is good and all but think about it. Wouldnt you rather spend time with your best friend and have fun rather then get a gift? hope this helps.. Kellie


15/f
I'm sorry if this might be long but I am just so confused about this and I dunno what to do.

I have a friend, let's say her name is Alicia. Alicia is like practically in love with our friend, let's call him Joe. Well I became friends with Joe and Alicia ever since last year. Joe and Alicia have been friends since they were in 6th grade. (Joe and Alicia are a grade above me. I'm in 10th grade.) This year I've been talking to Joe a lot and we talk about everything. He's like the only guy I am able to be completely honest with. Well lately all we've been talking about with each other was drinking and having sex. I kind of developed a feeling for him but I dunno if he feels the same way. It seems as though he does but its confusing. Some people might think that its only because he wants to do it with me, but truth is, I kinda want to do it with him too, just for the heck of it. I know, that sounds bad, right? But what's more worse is that if Alicia ever finds out about this, she'll hate my guts for life. Joe's birthday is this Friday and I wanna do something special for him, but I dunno what to do. I don't wanna do anything that'll make Alicia mad at me. I'm so confused. I need help. Can someone please help me? And I don't want smart comments either. Thanks in advance. (link)
Well if your a good friend and "Alicia" is one of your best friends then I think you should talk to her first about it and see if what you wanna do for his b-day is alright with her and tell her how you feel about him. I mean think about it..if you loved this guy and your best friend was sneaking around with him. Wouldnt you rather know then just get it hidden from you and find out after from someone else and be really mad? I mean..if shes your best friend, she's not worth losing. With love


so it all started in august. i had really liked this boy for 2 years & now i would never see him again. he hated me. it hurt so bad & i just couldn't get over him. then i met this boy at a drama camp i went to. he was amazing. i was going to a private school now so everyone was so nice. he, especially, just blew me away. i ended up falling for him & a week later i was cured of my heartbreak. we were friends, we talked a lot, & even online. everything was going great. my life was finally getting better. i was telling my friends from my old school about how happy i was. it was great. then, the school year started. all my friends i had made in drama camp stopped talking to me. they acted like they didn't even know who i was. one day i got an instant message from a girl who was a friend of the guy i liked. she had read my myspace & noticed one of my friend's comments about the guy i liked & how happy i was & such. she asked if it was a boy she knew, which of course it was. i lied & tried to cover it up to my best ability, but it didn't work. she knew. i begged her not to tell him because i wasn't fully recovered from my last hurt & i wasn't ready to handle this rejection, again. she told me she understood how i felt & agreed to kept it quiet. me & the guy i liked never talked in school anyway..& i never knew why..until i made a friend. he was yet another friend of the guy i liked. i thought by being friends with him maybe i could start being friends with the guy i liked again, even if we still talked online like we were friends. me & my new guy friend got along really well. we talked online every day. he was awesome. then, one day, he told me he was so confused about if he liked someone or not. i told him i was good with that stuff so i could help him. he told me there was this girl he had been talking to for a few weeks & they get along really well. he thought he liked her, but wouldn't know for sure until he knew of her feelings. so i asked who this girl was. he asked me if i would be upset if it was me. suprised, & nervous, i said no. no one had ever liked me before, & of course it was me. then he told me the news. the guy i liked new. he was afraid of me because no girl had ever liked me before. he hated me & thought i was annoying. whenever he was near me, he'd look over a lot to see if i was leaving & if i didn't, he'd run away. he even began to run away from some of my friends. this i didn't find out all during that night, but noticed it over the course of time. as this happened, me & my guy friend who liked me became better friends. although i had lost a friend, the one who told the guy i liked how i felt about him, i gained another. he was also a friend of the guy i liked. this just recently began to fade when he started taking orders from the guy i like, along with another guy i befriended along the way. the guy i like pulled all of his friends to him, & left me with one, as if it is a war. & the one i have left also lost friends in the process, people he had known for years. he says it doesn't matter because they're jerks & he loves me & i'm his best friend. i feel bad though. lately, every day we get closer & closer. i begin to think about him more & more. people have noticed because there's a rumor going around that we're dating. since he's not great for looks, people laugh & point when they see us together. it just goes to prove how shallow some people can be. when i think about him & stuff, i feel like i like him, but lately i haven't been sure about my feelings whatsoever. i rarely think about the guy i like anymore, although i still feel as if i like him. it's just that he's such a jerk. he acts nice around people [not just me] that he truly doesn't like. he only likes his close friends & shuts everyone else out. he's two faced, in a way. my other friend is so sweet though & we talk about everything. he's pretty much the best friend i ever had. i don't know what to do. i miss the feeling of liking someone with all your heart. i want it back. help please if you read all of this. i'll definitely give you feedback. thanks. (link)
well..personally I would go for the guy who sticks up for you, the one who treats you better.
The one you used to like a lot [and I think you still do?] well..he doesnt deserve you. You deserve much better then him. If all he can do is pretend he's your friend and turn his back on you..its not worth it. But the one your hanging out with now. He's stuck by your side through everything! And it sounds like everything has been rough. He's lost friends for you, I think you said he's gotten made fun of..well it was all for you. I dont know about you but I think he cares about you a lot. And I think he deserves you. You deserve a guy that will treat you with respect and not turn his back on you and even if everybody does turn their back on you he'll be like "whatever..f*** you!" and he seems like that kinda guy. That other guy lost out. I think you should go for your close guy friend. With Love x3 Kellie x3


Hey I'm 13 years old and I'm a really advanced reader for my age (just so you know). It doesn't mean I can read/understand adult books but whatever! I really want a list of GOOD books from like all genres!! If you could give me the title, author, and genre of the books you're suggesting that would be great!
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I read this really good book when I was in 6th grade. It was kinda challenging soo I think it still might be good for you. It was called Mary, Mary and the Genre is Mystery but I dont know the author. If you're interested in it I could find out the author for you. With love..Kellie


You know how everyone makes CDs of their favorite songs? How do you do that? (link)
First you need a CD burner. Then you need a music download program thing like bearshare or WinMX. And then you open the CD burner program and make a playlist and everything. If you need me to explain it better then ask x3 With love, Kellie


Is there anything that promotes you to get out of bed in the morning? I always feel so miserable getting up, and I need something to jumpstart my mornings. (link)
I always put my alarm clock far away from me soo I have to get up and turn it off. and dont put on music you like or an annoying beep cause I know I dont really care about the annyoing beep. After 2 minutes I dont even hear it. I put it on music I hate. For example..I hate the loud metal rock stuff soo when I hear it I think "ewwww!" and then I leave it on until Im all ready for school soo it makes me get ready quicker and get up easier.. hope this helps!! With love, Kellie




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