15/f
I'm sorry if this might be long but I am just so confused about this and I dunno what to do.
I have a friend, let's say her name is Alicia. Alicia is like practically in love with our friend, let's call him Joe. Well I became friends with Joe and Alicia ever since last year. Joe and Alicia have been friends since they were in 6th grade. (Joe and Alicia are a grade above me. I'm in 10th grade.) This year I've been talking to Joe a lot and we talk about everything. He's like the only guy I am able to be completely honest with. Well lately all we've been talking about with each other was drinking and having sex. I kind of developed a feeling for him but I dunno if he feels the same way. It seems as though he does but its confusing. Some people might think that its only because he wants to do it with me, but truth is, I kinda want to do it with him too, just for the heck of it. I know, that sounds bad, right? But what's more worse is that if Alicia ever finds out about this, she'll hate my guts for life. Joe's birthday is this Friday and I wanna do something special for him, but I dunno what to do. I don't wanna do anything that'll make Alicia mad at me. I'm so confused. I need help. Can someone please help me? And I don't want smart comments either. Thanks in advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Kellie_x3 answered Tuesday December 13 2005, 9:42 pm: Well if your a good friend and "Alicia" is one of your best friends then I think you should talk to her first about it and see if what you wanna do for his b-day is alright with her and tell her how you feel about him. I mean think about it..if you loved this guy and your best friend was sneaking around with him. Wouldnt you rather know then just get it hidden from you and find out after from someone else and be really mad? I mean..if shes your best friend, she's not worth losing. With love <3 Kellie <3 [ Kellie_x3's advice column | Ask Kellie_x3 A Question ]
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