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Ok my friend picked me up from track and i had her track shoes and put them inside and infront of the car. When we got home, she noticed she only had one. She sorta freaked out and then we had to pay her bro to go bak up to the skool and look for it. We couldnt find it. We got back and she was pissed and didnt want to talk to me. I felt really bad and uncomfterble, she gave me mean looks so i said i had to go home. I have to go back to her house so they can take us to a camp. What do i do?? i feel really bad.
please help i rate high

You can buy her another pair of shoes but you can tell her how bad you feel about it and you want to make it up for her. Well if you want you can buy her another pair but that would cost around ALOT OF MONEY. Anyway, just talk to her and tell her how badly you feel and if there is anyway you can make it up to her you will do it.
ALways there..
DOnna

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I am a 28 year old male with 2girls 4,and9 been with their mom 10years very happy!!Asked her to marry me she said yes ,things were grate 4 amonth and now she cant stand me for the most part but still afectionate and also head strong on moving out pleas help loves ontheline!!!!!

Are you sure your 28? im going to edit your question...
I am a 2 year old male with two girls 4, and 9. I have been with their mom for 10 years very and I am very happy!! I asked her to marry me she said yes, things were grate, if i know how to spell great, for a month and now she cant stand me for the most part, but is still affectionate and also head strong on moving out. I dont know how to spell pleas, but can you help me? loves ontheline, but sorry i am lying right now and love is not on the line!!!!! Here is my advice to you.. Learn to lie and then ask a question and if you really are 28 i feel bad for you and if this is real, i think you should talk to her.
DONNA

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My friend has trouble with confidence so she asked me to ask a question for her. OK her and this boy were going out but they broke up for a reason that doesn't matter anymore. Now they want to get back together but my friend's too shy. Do you have any tips for her?

Tell her to get over her fear and just ask the guy out. Its not that hard. This is how the convo should go.,,
"Hey"
"Hi"
"I have been thinking.. i mean i really like you and it was stupid to split."
"Yea me too."
"Want to go out again?"
Or somthing like that. Just help her get out of her low confidence. Tell her to practice rising her confidence level by taking risks she would never take.
Always there..
Donna

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Guys only please-just a quick question wondering if i could get some feedback

i used to have a friends with benefits deal with this kid-and after going on for about a year it ended just recently about 3 months ago-my question-do you think it would be akward for me to IM and just start talking to him him seeing as i've never done so before or as a guy would u find that akward and uncalled for? just wondering thanks a lot

Its fine just say HEY!! WSP???!? Long time no talk..
Always there..
Donna

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Ok, theres this guy i like, hes a really shy guy till he gets to know you and stuff but anyways, theres this pretty girl that knows him pretty well cuz she has known him longer but she ask me if i thought he was cute and if i liked him and i told her i do and she started flirting with him a couple minutes later. like hitting him and giggling and picking on him and stuff. she was so flirting but...

she KNOWS i like him, and i thought she was my friend. how could she do that? what should i do..i dont have the courage to say anything. that and i dont wanna mess up our friendship but i have been trying to get him to like me and it was working so well, he did like me and then she started that and now i dont know. how can i get him to like me over her and get the point across to her that I like him and shes needs to back off without making her mad?

he is shy and so am I so im not sure about just talking to him cuz he like, never ever talks. but if she flirts with him again this wensday what should i do?

Okay what freindship do you have that you are scared to brake? She is such a backstabber for flirtting with him when she knows you like him. She can easily back off of him but no. Just ignore her and do what you were doing before.
Always there..
Donna

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Okay, well I am in 6th grade. Me and my best friend have been soo close through elementary school and are families are so close and we even own a beach house togehter. Well, see Through out this month we have started to grow apart. She is trying to be like her older sister (preppiesh) and like that but before she started wanting to be like her older sister she hated the way preps were and that they were retarted and stuff. Well, now she has become a prep and is being someone she isn't. She used to hate this one prep and now she is like trying to be her closet friend. I hate the way she is being. I am hopeing it is just a phase but if it isn't I think we will be spilt up and stuff. I wish I could tell her this but since we are growing apart I don't know what to do. I used do everything to be her best friend because she wanted to end the friendship but now it's different I don't know if I would really care to not be her best friend. I have a boyfriend and since this one night I haven't told her really much about him. I don't know why I want to but then there is something stopping me. I need help. She thinks I don't trust her anymore but I don't know if that is true or not?? Please help!

Okay.. you have to talk to her about it even if you are scared. This is exactly why you are growing apart because you arent talking to eachother. Talk to her tell her you trust her.
Always there..
Donna

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i am a freshman in highschool and so is my best friend , there is this guy that is a junior that i have known for a while named chad and i intoduced chad and cat and i started to like chad then i was asked out by another guy i named sam so i went out with sam. then chad and cat went out and i still liked chad but i never said anything about it, now me and sam are broke up and cat and chad are broke up and i like chad but i know cat would be really mad if i went out with chad because sghe said she would be cause i asked but now he aske dme out what do u think should do?

~blundered blonde~

You were the one who introduced them in the first place. Tell her you like him and if she doesnt care she is a bad friend. Just go out with him.
Always there..
Donna

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Over the past few weeks my boyfriend has seemed [for lack of better words] wilted. He isn't happy, around me that is. He just came over so we could study for a test, and he was TOTALLY uniterested in me.. like over and over I asked him if I was that uninteresting, and if I was that unatractive and he said no to both, but that didn't change his mood.. I'm getting mixed singals here. Yes I have talked to him about this but what else can I do?

Well i think its time for a new bf. You have talked to him already and it didnt work maybe ask your bf's friend to ask him if he still likes you. If he says no then brake up. Sorry
Always there..
Donna

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Okay heres my problem... Sry if long...
All these guys like me for some reason.
One guy.. hes my step-dads girlfriend's son. He saw me over the summer when i was dating his cousin. Well i went to his house friday night to pick up his mom with my dad. On the way home to drop me off at my moms house.. my dads girlfriend told me that her son likes me and all his friends want to meet me. I guess he tells his friends how pretty i am to him and stuff like that. But i dont think im very pretty at all.
Then theres this guy im going out with, since yesterday at work. (i work with him)
We liked each other for a while now. But anyways, i really like him, but if something happens between us then i dont want us to stop talkin or anything like that. Should i tell him that if something ever happens between us, we cant stop talking and/or being friends?
Anyways.... does anyone here know y these guys are starting to like me?

Christine

OKay, they both like you because i guess you are pretty. Also you should tell both of them if something ever happens between us we should never ever stop talking.
Always there..
Donna

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My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend?

Dont pick sides. Just stay out of it. Talk to them both at difforent times and see whats up with them. You mom maybe has reasons you dont know. And your sister might want to tell you somthing you never new about your mom. Just talk to them both at difforent times.
ALways there..
Donna

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i dunno where to start or how to explain it but me and my mom have a very close relationship, like we tell eachother everything and could talk about anything. well when i was little my dad died and she was with this real jerk that hit her and all this other stuff, she went back to him maybe like 10 times and that was hard for me. then finally she realized that that was enough. but the problem is i think shes actually going through it again. she was with this other guy and they seemed happy together and everything. but he had a problem with everything about my my mom, he even yelled her for her job?! she finally broke it up with him cuz she said she couldnt it anymore. but then last night she had told me she was going over his house and i just kept my mouth shut cuz i like to see my mom happy. but he just has a very bad attitude and he scares me. i just dont want her and me to go through this again. i need some great advice..plz and thank you

You have to tell your mom how you feel otherwise what will happen if/when they get married? Shes your mom and yes you want her to be happy but not with the wrong person.
Always there..
Donna

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ugh the other day i had my 3 best friends sleep over cuz it was my birtth day and last year jessiffica ruined it so my mom told me if she acted up she would go home again so my mom made a cake and then jessiffica was all oh we should smash her head in the cake n my mom was like no so she did it any way and i got mad and my mom made her go home and now shes all mad at me when i should be mad at her and wrote this in her profile

3-11-05 was a disaster i loss mi best friend:(
i hope we can both forgive eachother sum day (hopefully soon)
i cant believe it had toturn out like this:-(
carlita lynn, Jizzy Navedo, nicole abreu, i dunno wat id do w-out u's
Kaylor Lynn ~ i dunno wat im goin to do w-out u

she exagerates so much n her and nicole are not even best friends but she keeps telling her all this stuff and is pissing me off what should i do

Just ignore her. She is mean anyway.
Always there..
Donna

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Ok my dads been married 4 times...he is still on his fourth marrage. he got married about 7 months ago, when he got married we moved to another house and i had to change schools (i hate my new school so much too) well recently my dad came really close to getting a divorce, and we already found a house near my old school. well the day that my dad got the form for the lease, he started to have regrets about moving, like because the house that were in is my dads dream house, or this would be my dads 4th failed marrage, and the fact that his credit would go back to shit if he does divorce. the only reason i really want to move is so i can be at a better school and have all my old friends back, but at the same time i wanna stay because of my dad...any advice?

You can always find new friends but you cant always see you dad happy like this. Go with your insticts and your heart.. Hope you make the right choice.
Always there..
Donna

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okay im 13/female. and i have BIGG mood swings. like even when im not on IT. like one sec. i will be all happy and laughing w. my friends. and then the next i will be crying.. or i will be talking to peole online.. and my mom asks me to do something.. and i go totally pissy. and it seems like my parents dont want me to be happy. like every time im happy, they make me pissed off. and i NEED diet coke to keep me hapy. so..here are my questions.. 1) what can i do to prevent these mood swings 2) why do i feel like my parents dont want me to be happy and 3) why do i need diet coke.. and drinking diet coke, can it hurt me? thanks to all who answer this!

1) Do what your parents ask you to and it wont happen again.
2) Your parents are like that because when they ask you somthing you might not do it.
3) Some people need something to comfort them and make them happy and yours is diet coke
ALways there..
DOnna

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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

He still likes you, talk to him more and when he brakes up with his current gf ask him out!
Always there..
Donna

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There's this guy (We'll call him Zach) that one of my friends dated and one of my other friends like him. I promised my friend that I wouldn't ever do anything with him. That was before I discovered I have feelings for him. However, there is another guy (We'll call him Bob). Bob likes me, I like Bob. But Bob is really shy, and isn't doing anything. I've asked Bob out before, but that was before he liked me and that was before I got feelings for Zach. I really like Zach and Bob. But Bob is a bit more immature than Zach, but there isn't friend entanglements if I went out with him. But Zach is that person I can talk to and I know he'll listen and have answers for me. What do I do? I rate high for good answers.

Well, you promised your friend you wouldnt do anything with zach before you had feelings for him. Tell your friend and see what she says. If she doesnt have a problem with you going out with him then go out with him. If she does you have bob!
Always there..
Donna

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hi! im 13/f and im not loveing life to much.my mom is always yelling at me for nothing and slapping me alot and just hates me. then theres the thing that everytime i start to care for someone the dump me... and after the convince me that they like me or im pretty or something.. i really hate this. i got plenty more going on but yeah i dont need to dump all my shit on yall. but someone please tell me how to cope w/ this... ive been handleing this in a bad way for a little while now.. and i want to stop it..
thanks alot to anyone who helps me!

Hey.. I just really want to tell you stay strong and all will go well. Anyway, i want to help you but.. im me cuz i dont want to do it in public.. and if you want to dump it on my its fine.. ill listen.
Always there..
Donna

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What is a good song to resing that has not already been done?

Open Arms By Journey
Man i feel like a woman by shania twain
Wind beneath my wings by bette midler
Always there..
Donna

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my very best friend in the world walked in on my and this boy a few days ago and we weren't doin n e thing bad just kissing and having fun. and well now she wont talk to me. i tried to talk to her and tell her that i was sorry and try to explain it to her but she wont even look at me and then she calls me a sl*t so i really need help how can i explain to her that its really not that big of a deal and that im sorry? and the weird thing is she never really cared about me and my other bfs and stuff that we did. so please help me soon

She is defenetly jelous. Talk to her about it and see whats up with her, tell her you arent a slut and you didnt mean anything that happend.
Always there..
Donna

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Ok, I just wanted to know, if you were going to perform/receive oral sex, on my side (male) should I wear a condom or not? At least the thin thin ones just in case?

Always wear a condom no matter if your just playing around if you are just having oral or anal ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM IF IT HAS SEX IN THE WORD!!!!!!!!
Always there..
DOnna

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