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confused..
i dunno where to start or how to explain it but me and my mom have a very close relationship, like we tell eachother everything and could talk about anything. well when i was little my dad died and she was with this real jerk that hit her and all this other stuff, she went back to him maybe like 10 times and that was hard for me. then finally she realized that that was enough. but the problem is i think shes actually going through it again. she was with this other guy and they seemed happy together and everything. but he had a problem with everything about my my mom, he even yelled her for her job?! she finally broke it up with him cuz she said she couldnt it anymore. but then last night she had told me she was going over his house and i just kept my mouth shut cuz i like to see my mom happy. but he just has a very bad attitude and he scares me. i just dont want her and me to go through this again. i need some great advice..plz and thank you
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your mom's a grown up intelligent person, and if she wants to hurt herself than it's her own fault for taking the guy back. I think it's sweet your concern for her though.. maybe you should try talking to her about this yourself.. sit her down and say that you don't want this sort of thing to happen again. She'll get the message if you guys are as close as you say you are. I hope I helped, if you need anymore advice just ask. :)
!Sarah
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They say that a woman who was abused will often find herself in similar relationships over and over. It takes a great deal to break a cycle such as that. Sit down and have a serious talk with your mom. Tell her how you see it and that you don't want her to go through this again. She deserves better than to be in an abusive relationship. She can choose to break free of these kind of guys and meet someone she really deserves.
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talk to her. thats what she wants to hear. if u dont like it, say like, " he yells at u so much...."
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i'd tell your mom how you felt about this, maybe she'll sit and listen too you esp. if you have a very close relationship.you have to mean more to her then this guy things may change for you~ i hope its good advice try it
kim~
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I would tell your mom. you said you talk about anything so thats very good.
i think sometimes things that make people happy isn't what is really best for them..
again i think you should just tell her how you feel and see what she thinks.
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I would tell your mom. Especially since you said you have a close relationship. Tell her it means the world to see her happy, and you're seeing a pattern with this guy. Tell her you don't want her to get hurt again.
Hope I helped.
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You have to tell your mom how you feel otherwise what will happen if/when they get married? Shes your mom and yes you want her to be happy but not with the wrong person.
Always there..
Donna
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