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i am a small town average guy. who plays guitar and skates.

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I'm a fourteen year old female.
Ever since I was eight, I've noticed these little patterns I have. Before I throw a backhand spring at cheerleading practice I have to count to eight three times.

Sometimes I wish for somethings, such as longer hair, and before I completed my wish I have to touch every end of my hair. (same if I wished for new clothes, I'd have to touch all my clothes atleast once.)
I feel as if I don't touch all of them, my wish won't come true.

Everything has to be in ABC order and all my sentenced have to have a period at the end, even if they're questions.


Is there something wrong with me?
What should I do?

well i am but recorving from ocd which is kinda hard to get over the way to break it is just by doing the things like not touching something and with little steps over time it will become easer till it is not over your life if this doesn't work you can try getting help

At least you don't have occd where everything has to be clean and no dust took a long time to get over this also

14 is when my ocd was the worst if you try it can still be broken or at least controlled

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I have been best friends with a girl for a little over a year now. Over this year she's changed a lot, in both appearance and personality. She teases and calls me names a lot, and I try to send her insults back to make her see that it hurts but she just gets ever madder and teases me more. I don't know if I should quit hanging out with her or just ignore it. What should I do?

well you can ignore her or you can be really nice to her and drownd her in kindness in other words if she calls you stupid you could say something like thank you sweety or why thanks beautiful unless u have a gf this might not be a good idea

the main thing is not let it get to you around her and she will stop this might be a way of flirting=>

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how can i get over my boyfriend "verbally" cheating on me
he told another girl he loved her but they never hung out
or hooked up .. i ALWAYS think about and i cant get it out
of my head PLEASE HELP ME

well tell him to stop if this doesn't help then it might be time to start the single rode for a new man if he is cheating that means he is probably going to leave you for someone else but don't confuse i love you with I LOVE YOU!! the serious one look past play but keep an eye on the other choises

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my b/f is a very honest & loyal person & we go to diff. schools. ive never had anybody tell me things about him unless they r tryin to start stuf.
well theres this gurl my b/f talks about a lot. like how good of friends they are and everytime we r together & shes around they flirt in front of me. but i had never relly thought anything about it till a week ago.
a few ppl had told me that during class they r constantly all over eachother. like they grab eachother in provacative places & they are constantly flirting and talking dirty to one another.
and now today i've heard this same exact story from 5 other people, people that i never really talk to & i know wouldn't lie to me.
im a very jealous g/f & i really want to ask my b/f about this but i tend to ask him almost every day if hes cheatin on me. i would just really like to know the truth because its making me so sick & i trust him, and it just doesn't seem right. shud i ask him? or shud i just let it eat me alive? =/

well it will very on person but the nagging of him will only make it worse try to keep calm and not ask as much if it is really eating you up try making some new friends and if you really have two find some spys but just be ready for them to tell you that he is flirty without you there but nothing is meant if it keeps happing it might be a sign for a new bf

keep in mind the question

Do i really like or love him or am i use to him??

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me n my girl have ben togethr over a year & shes hott n all, and we have grate sex. but sumtimes i cant help but look at other gurlz and wonder wat itd be like to bang them.
do u think bout othr gurlz in bed? i mean i luv my gurl shes grate but sumtimes i think i want sumthin diff. is that normal? wat wud u do in my situation?

well i have been there in the past this is not a very good sign for a relationship but a normal behavior as long as it never happens the closer you and your gf get the less it will happen till not anymore you will see s but not see them for that just focus on getting closer to your gf or lose her don't cheat it will lead nowhere good

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i seen on youur profile that you like to skate. cud you give me sum good advice on how to teach my gf how to skate? b/c i wud like 4 her & i to skate together, but i have the hardest time teaching her how.

tryed to but if she really would not like to she will not start small with standing positions and then move on to rolling after she can stand keep her ballanced and move go to pushing this might me an easy or hard task.

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ok me & my bf have been together for over a year now and everythins grate.
i met a guy one day who was my bf's friend, and the guy later on told me he liked me.
well i was bored and so this guy asked me if i wud have cyber sex with him. so i did.
i feel relly guilty about it now & im wondering if i should tell my bf. i dont even know y i did have cyber with this guy, i dont like him, and i feel like an idiot. since your a boy, if your gf did this behind your back would you consider it cheatin, and would you want her to tell you? or should i keep it to myself?

well this is no big deal its online and nuthing major if you two are really grate it would only make him a bit mad but he should not cheat my gf has before i thought it was stupid and i even laghed a bit

if you tell him don't just be like i had cyber u should make sure not to tell him when he is mad also u could pass it as a joke like me and my friends did or just when i was bord but don't lie or keep lieing it never turns out well

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ok now one time i tried 2 jack off but after i was done my penis was all red and and it was itchin really bad the next time i tried with lotion.when i was done it still was red and itchy.people say it feels good when they do it.i try 2 do it and it never feels good and it still red and itchy i dont get what im duin wrong.no mater how long i do it,it never feels good please help me

well it sounds like u are going at it one thing to try i can't believe i am telling you this but here it goes go easer its not invincible second relax not how fast its how good also try to making a u with your hand instead all the way round it mught help

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i just started to play the guitar & i would really like some advice on some easy & simple things to learn. or some basics that i will need to know.
thanks

playing for a while but now songs are becomming harder to learn because free tabs are not as easy to find but tabs are easy to read

Lessons help a lot too if you can get a good teacher

try learning (smoke on the water: deep purple, crazy train: ozzy, welcome home(Sanitarium):metallica)

Most oldies or 70's/80's rock

also learn scales and chords

find some people that play around you to get tabs or u can ask me for some at my e-mail and i will teach you how to read them too if you don't know

http://www.endprod.com/tab/

teaches you how to read tabs

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now. We are both in the 9th grade and he is best friends with my brother. Well he gave me my first kiss and we always kiss but its only pop kissing. I want to make out with him but im too shy. i have never done it in my life and im very nervous. I dont know how to do it or if im bad. I know he wants to do it because he even said it but he knows im shy so hes not going to force me. But i dont want to make him wait and we know we both want it. So what should i do?
Your help is very apreciated..thanks!

if you are really not ready don't do it just for him if you have dated for a while he probably will not dump you over something stupid like this

One way to satrt is to start kissing him on the lips and maybe stay close to let him know

Another way is to kinda open your mouth while u are about to kiss and stop a bit short

As a guy its not always how good you are but how relaxed and how good you can fallow just let him lead that ia the easest way to learn everyone kisses different so enjoy yourself

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i think that im depressed .. hardly anything makes me happy anymore. i hate school my friends my family life .. everything seems to be going wrong all at once im only happy sometimes and thats when im with my boyfriend and thats not even all the time. please help

i have been there it sometimes just takes time to get over it trust me but it will probably take a long time or it could be a month varies just don't start any bad habbits like cutting or because this only makes it worse

hope it goes well try finding a comedian or a new funny friend even if they are a little crazy or different then what you are arround now

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13/f
Okay, my ex-boyfriends brother is really sweet. me and my ex broke up like 8 days ago and his brother hinted to me that he wanted to go with me.i don't want to be classified as a hoe if i go with him. The thing is if i did go with My exs brother would it be for payback. Because my Ex goes with his exgirlfriend!!!!!!! i really do like my exs brother but I still am in love with his brother!!!!

well if you have a dought i would get to know him and if u two are really going to do good as boy and then u can stand a few more days

As a guy it really wouldn't bother me that much he will get over it but get over him 1st itll make it easer

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You know in the gym places, they sell those pills that kill fat. I dont know the name in English sorry about that. Anyways, I work out a lot but I have a lot of fat on my body and everybody insists that this fitness aid, the fat killer (not its real name) causes no damage on your health at all. Its not like its hormones or steroids or anything. Should I proceed or not?
I am huge, I work out a lot, never ever consumed anything before, I am 110 kilos and do 60 pull ups every day and run for 1 hour every single day. I am pretty much the strongest person I know, and the biggest.

Well it looks like a trip to your doc is the answer it is not the same for everyone but its not the best way to go

I would suggest trying different workouts such as different zones along wirh mixing up your running lengths and times if not your body gets use to these excersizes and doesn't burn as much as it could

also drink a lot of water instead of soft drinks it helps a lot

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I have the Ti-84 Plus. We're going to be using them in class next week and I need it to be working correctly; I don't want to use the classroom set.

I'm trying to download some Apps onto it.. the organizer, games, etc. I've downloaded TI connect (the software) and I saved the App file to a folder on my desktop. I'm confused how to get it onto my calculator- whenever I hook it up to a working USB port (and yes, I know it works), it says "device not found". It's already on, does it need to be in another mode? And what icon do I drag the App file to?

Any help is greatly appreciated :]

well when you connect the calculator to the computer press 2nd then link press left to recieve and select this should link the computer to the calculator if not try to restart while recieving


Also try to find the program ASdefault it puts everything back to notmal such as window ans the stat plots ect...

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14/m
ok so i play acoustic guitar.
im decent at best
the only thing is that there are certain songs i cant play
because i have stubby fingers
i cant hold down a bar chord
which is very aggrivating because things like jack johnson would be very easy if i could just play the bar chords.

is there any way to get my short fingers able to press down all 6 strings for a bar chord?
or am i just going to have to wait for my fingers to grow more
thanks-

try lighter gage strings and just playing alot will make them become easer i had a gripmaster and lost it time and work on actual strings worked for me eventually if you still can't try an electric the strings are easer to push down and the neck is thiner i am an electric person myself its worth a shot

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i am singing & playing piano at a nursing home for community service hours. i was wondering if anyone knew any songs that would be good to play. I want to play something they'll like. thanks!

ask the people also keep in mind hymns like they would have listened to growing up. just talking you will find out a lot and the stories will make it all worth the time

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Okay me & my boydfriend have been going out since 9/22. The relationship is great, we both love each other and everything.

But, when we makeout .. He moves his tongue way y too fast. I just want to tell him to slow down! I don't actually want to tell him verbally, how do I give him a sign to slow down while we kiss?

well as i see it from the stand point of a dude you have 2 choices adapt to his style of make him switch to yours try kissing slow if this doesn't work say things like kiss me slowly of always if you 2 are close tell him you like to kiss slowly or ask him to try your way if all else doesn't work.

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I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
(I'll add adittional information later if anyone needs me to)

you can always tell him to start on top and switch later or just tell him to keep doing what he is doing also a bit of a confedence booster

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my friend just recommended you and i wanted to ask you a sex question also.
4 some reason everytime me and jake (my bf) have sex i can never, you know, get an orgasm. you are a guy so tell me should i let him know that he's never giving me 1 or should i keep fakin, he n i dont really talk bout this kinda stuf so idk if i shud really say anythin 2 him. or what r sum ways you get girls orgasms, maybe i could hint that around to him. any advice will help. thanx

well if you are not close enough to tell him i would try to let him know easly and not harsh but maybe stop haveing them and start saying something like oh you were so close a little longer even if a little longer is like an hour but.

also try 4play before to get yourself started or go to the bathroom and start yourself to make it happen faster also relax get comfortable and enjot the ride

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im pretty good friends with this guy and i like him and he knows it but i mean i seriously cant get over this. is their any possible way i can get him to fall for me?

as a guy i say that the two of y0u should be together as much as possible don't try the going out with someone else it always backfires no offense it just dont work find things in common and do them toghther like sports or games clubs flirt some but don't be overly forceful or act ditzy just be yourself

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