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Q: I had sex with this guy that i really really like. It was my first time. And I hated it. It hurt so badly. And I was bleeding a whole lot. Why did it hurt? And why was I bleeding? I am 14/f
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When you have sex you "pop your cherry" and it bleeds and hurts because it rips a little piece of skin inside you, it also might be because at 14 you're still very small and that hole isn't very big and to be shoving something into it, makes it stretch and rip and it's gonna hurt really bad. considering you probably won't stop having sex i should warn you that the next few times WILL still hurt, till you get used to the pain. then you'll be fine. make sure he uses a condom and you get on birth control FAST... you don't want babies at your age. and imagine if your parents found out. yikes!
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Q: Why do people always think that if your in a serious relationship then the guy loves the girl more then the girl loves the guy?
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More than likley it's because you don't see guys falling in love with every girl they get with, girls on the other hand, think they're in love with everyone they date. especially if it lasts two months or longer. guys either have to be brought up right or love pretty strong to not cheat or leave the girl for every little thing. don't get me wrong, there are girls that are like that too, but not as many.
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Q: So.."Tom" and I were going out for a little over two years. It's been on again, off again. He comes from a "tough" family, as do I, but in completely different ways. His mom's always swearing at him, and lowering him, as if it's no big deal. Now he's taken that attitude toward everyone; including me. I can't stand it, but I understand that it's not necessarily his fault. I DO love him, no matter what, but I don't think he feels the same way. Everyone says I can do better, but it's him I want to be with, and he "says he wants to be with me too"..This time, we've broken up though (I broke up with him)- and it hasn't just stayed a few days, it's been about a month and a half! Anyways, about jr.prom, I said I realllly wanted to go with him, but he wont go, because he says "hes gonna hate the music, not wanna dance, and be completely bored". I don't understand why he won't just go with me, for one night, to make me happy. I've tried everything to convince him to go; saying all my friends were going so I really wanted to be apart of it, and that i only get ONE jr. prom, etc..he said he would take me next year (for sr. prom)-he also said that both proms were going to be exactly the same- but I talked to older people, and they all said "i should go, because I only get one JR PROM"...Anwyays, other people want me to go with them, but I know Tom would be FURIOUS,and not talk to me for a LONGG time,even though he won't go with me.. I'm afraid of not going and missing all the fun prom stuff, (even though I COULD just go next year), to stay friends/ prolly go out with Tom again in the future, or I could just go with another guy, and call it a night!
HELP!
F/ 17
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just go with someone else or with friends and call it a night becuase if he won't go then you shouldn't ruin your night for someone who's gonna be a jerk like that. it's his loss if he doesn't go. you deserve better than someone that's gonna treat you like that.
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Q: ok so last week i wrote on here that this guy asked me to kiss him but i said no becuz i was afraid some1 would see us...he's a little older thatn me and i didnt want people to talk. well neway sunday night he asked me agian and i said yes. he was really nice about it becuz he knew i was kinda scared and stuff but overall it was GREAT! by the way it was my first kiss* but now i feel guilty becasue i realized he is too old for me. how do i break up with him?
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how much of an age difference is there? age is just a number hun... most the time lol.
but if you wanna break up with him, just ask him if he thinks you're too young for him.. if he says no, tell him you think it's a bit odd and maybe you should just be friends.
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Q: Guys,
When fingering a girl, would you rather her shave 'down there' or just trim?
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most guys would rather the girl shave.
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Q: so, i have a digital camera. to upload pictures from it, i take out the memory card and put it into the memory stick adaptor. i then put this in a little slot on the side of my laptop, and usually a popup automatically comes upt hat says, "click here to upload photos" or whatever. well, i tried putting it in today a number of times and the popup isn't coming up. is there another way to upload pictures? or how can i make the popup come up? thanks
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make sure you don't have a popup blocker on.
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Q: can somebody please give me the stylesheet to make a tiny layout or atleast where to get it.
greatly appreciated!
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Q: If material is purchased after the contract scheduled time, and the price goes up since the initial cost estimate, WHO's picking up the difference of cost?
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It should be the person who was late to get the material
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Q: Im just moving up the street , so its not a big deal.
But the neighborhood I live in now has the boy i like in it.
We are pretty good friends and stuff and i THINK [not 100%] sure that he used to like me and we used to hangout like every weekend.
Everytime i say that im moving or not gonna ride the bus him and his friends will all say " YAY!"
but then online or alone he doesnt act like hes gonna miss me but he doesnt act like he wants me to leave.
but do you think the guy i like might miss me??
Because hes always trying to be around me , its weird.
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yea hun i think he likes you. after you move, go to his house every once in a while and hang out with him or show him where your new place is. maybe something good will come out of it ^.^
hope i helped! leave one in my inbox if you wanna talk more.
*~Care bare~*
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Q: My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance
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Make up an excuse on why you have to get offline and ask if you can just call him and talk or leave him your number saying "heres my number if you wanna call..." cause that'd work tool.
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Q: Is there a way you can install loudspeakers on your bike? Is there some aftermarket solution? And by bike I dont mean bicycle, i mean motorbike. I dont really want to be using a helmet with an mp3 but if thats my last solution thats what I will do.
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well i don't know much about all that but if you DO resort to an mp3 player.. those headphones that just have the little earpeice and not a whole headseat would be a great idea.
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Q: How far have you gone for your other half, I am not asking what you are willing to do, I am asking what have you done for him or for her. Like surprises, money spent, romantic places or trips.
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Well, at the moment, he's gone. He got in some trouble and he's in canton at a group home till around my birthday (which isn't till May) and I've been waiting for him to come home since June 1st. And I'm gonna wait the whole time for him. I'm working on something for our 1 year which is on March 18th. I'm making a list of 365 songs that I dedicate to him or that remind me of him. I'm going to buy him a dozen black roses (about $30.00) once I get my job. I'm making a picture frame with our inside jokes written all over it and a picture of us together inside. I'm making him a CD of our songs and some of his favorite songs and a personal recording from me that i'm gonna make on my computer here soon. and a long letter telling him how much I love him and i've missed and and all that. and some cute quotes from the internet. then I'm putting all this stuff inside a basket and hiding the basket in his room and putting little riddles around his room for him to figure out where its at lol. and making him a big dinner the night he comes home. it's quite cute if you ask me.
if you need any other ideas (cuz i'm guessing thats what this question is for) then just messege me and i'll be glad to help. i'm full of ideas recently.
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Q: So I like this kid.
He has a girlfriend now, but we used to have a thing during the summer.
We are friends and all but like in front of his friends he's mean to me.. etc.
But I noticed that on days that i look pretty , he is less mean to me and tries to be around more
and he'll talk to me on online that day and try and find reasons to talk to me [online].
I dont mind this because i love talking to him but why is this?
ps. one time he even sat with me on the bus, and that was a day where i probably looked the best.
pss, im not trying to sound stuckup , im not very pretty lol.
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umm... seriously? I think this guy is a jerk. Think about it, he talks to you ONLY on the days when you look pretty.. he's mean to you any other day... He may just be showing off to his friends when you come around, but more than likely he's just REALLY shallow. And I'm pretty sure he doesn't deserve a doll like you. Watch out for jerks like him ok?
If you wanna talk more... just messege me.
hope I helped! ^.^
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Q: Okay I"m 13year old female and i go witha 16 year old guy.. He's experienced and is ready so am i but what if we do it an i get pregnant what then?? I know use condoms... My cousin used protection an got pregnant... I really am ready... i know Birth control but how do i get to the place to get the pills...Or should i dump him and wait for a guy who isn't experienced???????
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well unless you guys have really strong feelings... i'd dump him for someone who's at your experience level. because more than likley that kids just using you because you're a virgin... guys LOVE to take virgins "v-card" as they put it. and i know you don't want to hear this part (because I never did) but seriously, you are a little too young for that. I mean seriously, if you got pregnant... do you honestly think he'd stay with you? or do you think he'd run? most guys run. espeicially at your ages. and if your mom and dad don't approve of it (which they probably won't) and you DO get pregnant.. how are you gonna tell them that you are having sex AND that you are pregnant?
Sorry if this made you uncomfortable or mad... if you want to talk, i'm here. Just messege me k?
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Q: is it a turn off if lets say you are fingering a girl and she is "wet"? or if she is hairy?
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lol hun. it's a turn ON for guys if the girl is "wet" cuz thats what they are trying to do. it just means that you are horny which is what the guy wants. and for most guys the girl being hairy IS a turn off. some guys don't care. but most guys don't like it. but yea, the wet thing, they love that lol.
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Q: okay... i do not know how to explain this.. BUT.. i do know one thing, i REALLY need to control my anger before i pound someone to death.. because thats how much anger i have inside of me... i have tried the breathing in and out, doesnt help me.. i have too much anger to actually concentrate AT ALL on that. I desperately need help or advice of ANY sort before i go too far..and i have a feeling its going to be soon...
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Hey, so, I think you need to find a good friend to talk to and maybe they can help you with your anger a bit. Or you can join into boxing or something to take out your anger. I'd get into something where it doesn't matter how hard you hit. And you could try asking your friend to join with you. It's always better to have a friend at your side when you try something new so you're not the only one learning.
Hope I helped! ^.^
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Q: 13/f
idk how to style gelled hair!! can anyone help!!
i also dunno how to "scrunch" my hair!! sum1 pleez gime stepbystep details!! thanks!!
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k put gel in your hair but be sure not to put gobs of it at the top (i have that problem a lot) then take your hand at the bottom of your hair and make a fist.. do that all over your hair.. then for the cool look my friend kara gets you can take your hands and swish your hair between them.. like you do when you wash your hands.. do it at the tips.. it looks more rockerish and its cute. hope i helped a little!
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Q: Okay, this girl, Samantha, was my best friend last year. Two words...huge mistake. She used to be so nice and funny. Now, she's just stuck up, a jerk, and plain out annoying. She did a whole bunch of crap to me over the summer, but I forgave her. Now I don't even know what the hell is wrong with her. She's been telling all these made up stories to her mom about me and my best friend not sitting with her on the bus on the way home from school and not talking to her. Well, what the hell?! We try to start a conversation with her and all she does is just say, "Oh, yeah." And just stares at the ground like she doesn't even want to talk to us. Then, on the bus there's no way for me to sit with her. I get on the bus three minutes before her and someone always comes up to me and asks if they can sit with me. Plus, she doesn't even talk so it's incredibly boring. Ugh, what the heck is wrong with her?
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she might be shy now, or she's feeling bad for what she did to you, or she's got something on her mind.
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Q: 14/f
This is a reallyyy long story. sorry =/
Basically, i wanna know if the guy i've liked for FOREVER is hinting that I should go with him & his friends to the fright-whatever-thing at six flags. [ the haunted house or whatever it is..]
Well, here's the deal. i really, really like this guy. have for at least a year now, on & off. back in May '06, when we were just acquaintences, some gossip went around that i wanted to go out with him, but he didnt really pay that much attention. so, nothing like that ever happened between us. this year in school we're much closer and i could pretty much call him one of my good friends even though we havent hung out outside of school at all. well im starting to think he might like me since we pretty much flirt a little bit. problem is there's this other girl--emily--that also likes him -- i dont know this for a fact, but she pretty much stalks his myspace and makes fun of all the comments he leaves me [ the comments he left me were so cute, too. he incorporated some of our inside jokes into them. ] well the problem is she invited him to go to six flags frightworld or w/e with her and like 15 of her co-ed friends. and he was like "sure whatever". and i sorta think he wants me to go with -- he openly just said something about it in first period today
him- "so are you going to the thing at sixflags?"
me- "w/ emily?"
him - yea
me - "no ...she didnt invite me"
him- "o...well i dont know if i wanna go cuz i hate scary stuff" *embarassed laugh*
me - *laugh* "yea i dont think she wanted me to go..she doesnt really like me i dont think"
him - "oic..i think its on the 27th or something?"
me - ohhh
*later that day *
*in the middle of a conversation while he is walking me to my school bus he brings it up --*
him - haunted houses sound stupid ive never even been 2 one
me - neither have i
him - whats the point of going to them just to get scared
me - *lol* yea i guess so
him - i dont wana go....but i do...
*convo ended cuz we got 2 my bus*
THANX!!!!!
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well either he wants you to join him or wants you to invite him to do something that day... maybe you should try saying "well, if you end up not going, we could hang out at my place" or something like that.. you know, something you guys like to do. plus it gets you some time with him.
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Q: In english class, I have to work with this one guy because my teacher counted off my 6's and I got stuck with him. He happens to be my best friends closest guy friend and he ALWAYS finds out SOME way to make fun of me. So in class, he thinks that he can take advantage of me and sit there and tells me what to do. And I am a person who tries their hardest and does all the work when it's needed to be done. So he's yelling at me that he can't read my handwriting, and that my e and f are to spread out and that I should work harder. I almost wanted to kill him because he does this to me every day. I mean, I don't wanna tell the teacher but its a big project and he doesn't do anything... i'm just not sure...
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Have you tried telling him that if it's not good enough for him then maybe HE should do it? If he isn't helping you then he doesn't have the right to criticize what you do. you put your hard work into the project and not him. let him know how you feel. if you're writing with a pencil, you could write something to get the point across to him and then erase it after he reads it.
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I like to help people and God knows I need help all the time lol so I found this site and I love it!
I like hanging out with friends, but I spend most the time with my boyfriend Jasper. In like, a week, it'll be 6 months! I love that boy!
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Info
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Website: Gender: Female Location: ohio Age: 17 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: ask me Member Since: February 24, 2004 Answers: 119 Last Update: December 8, 2009 Visitors: 7577
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